why do people get angry that i don't make eye contact

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it seems like it offends people when I don't make eye contact while speaking to them

when i take people's orders i stare down at the tablet instead of looking into their eyes while ordering & they get progressively ruder

when my coworkers try to talk to me they look at my face but i look down . eventually they stopped trying to talk to me and just talk to eachother (even tho i talk to them i just dont make eye contact)

the other day my doctor tried to badger me into therapy because "oh you don't make eye contact, you seem very anxious . this will affect you in the future"

why does this bother people so much? it's uncomfortable to make eye contact & it's unnecessary. why should i be doing it?
 
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it seems like it offends people when I don't make eye contact while speaking to them

when i take people's orders i stare down at the tablet instead of looking into their eyes while ordering & they get progressively ruder

when my coworkers try to talk to me they look at my face but i look down . eventually they stopped trying to talk to me and just talk to eachother (even tho i talk to them i just dont make eye contact)

the other day my doctor tried to badger me into therapy because "oh you don't make eye contact, you seem very anxious . this will affect you in the future"

why does this bother people so much? it's uncomfortable to make eye contact & it's unnecessary. why should i be doing it?
Its just plain rude bro, i also dont like it but it shows your paying attention looking away especially when your looking at something indicates youre not paying attention
 
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Its just plain rude bro, i also dont like it but it shows your paying attention looking away especially when your looking at something indicates youre not paying attention
how is it rude though? you can pay attention without looking at someone. that just feels uncomfortable
 
how is it rude though? you can pay attention without looking at someone. that just feels uncomfortable
I know how you feel man im also in the same boat. Just learn to do it people think youre shy and timid if you dont (maybe a very autistic thing to do but if you have to you can seriously practice looking in peoples eyes in video just search up: eyecontact training)
 
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it seems like it offends people when I don't make eye contact while speaking to them

when i take people's orders i stare down at the tablet instead of looking into their eyes while ordering & they get progressively ruder

when my coworkers try to talk to me they look at my face but i look down . eventually they stopped trying to talk to me and just talk to eachother (even tho i talk to them i just dont make eye contact)

the other day my doctor tried to badger me into therapy because "oh you don't make eye contact, you seem very anxious . this will affect you in the future"

why does this bother people so much? it's uncomfortable to make eye contact & it's unnecessary. why should i be doing it?
People project onto you why you don't make eye contact. Just say you have autism next time.
 
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why does this bother people so much? it's uncomfortable to make eye contact & it's unnecessary. why should i be doing it?
probs something evolutionary cuz its subconscious
 
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I hate making eye contact too. Some people don't care, but some get pissed off.
 
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probs something evolutionary cuz its subconscious
Maybe not acknowledging them as a ‘threat’? In the sense of the evolutionary standpoint you dont deem them worthy of your attention.
 
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