why do they expect you to always say "i love you" back?

[Deleted member 86840]

when they say "i love you" they always expect an "i love you" back, why?

and if you dont say it, they get upset

"i love you" is a way to express yourself to eachother, not something you say to receive a reply, its expression of appreciation

 

[Deleted member 86840]

people dont get that, its stupid

 

[Deleted member 263698]

Because you are south american

 

[Abdullahm06]

because relationships are transactional
if their love was unconditional they wouldnt feel the need to get an i love you too back

 

[Deleted member 255733]

idk, no one ever said that to me

 

[Deleted member 263698]

 

[Deleted member 86840]

Because you are south american

 

[Deleted member 86840]

because relationships are transactional
if their love was unconditional they wouldnt feel the need to get an i love you too back

interesting way to put it

 

[tict]

when they say "i love you" they always expect an "i love you" back, why?

and if you dont say it, they get upset

"i love you" is a way to express yourself to eachother, not something you say to receive a reply, its expression of appreciation

well why would someone love someone else who doesn't love them back?

a response is needed either "I love you" or "I hate you" ( can be a gesture or in speech)

 

[Deleted member 86840]

well why would someone love someone else who doesn't love them back?

a response is needed either "I love you" or "I hate you" ( can be a gesture or in speech)

you dont have to reply everytime "i love you too" to prove your love

you shouldnt tell someone you love them expecting a reply, this should be your own personal way to express how YOU feel

 

[tict]

you dont have to reply everytime "i love you too" to prove your love

you shouldnt tell someone you love them expecting a reply, this should be your own personal way to express how YOU feel

And how would someone know you love them?

Through speech or action LMAOO HELLOO?

Its not about proving your love, your just showing affection back and that's something you would WANT to do if you love said person

 

[definer797]

because relationships are transactional
if their love was unconditional they wouldnt feel the need to get an i love you too back

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