Why do you think some men are sexually submissive while some are dominant

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This has always confused me. Some men are naturally sexually submissive thus fantasize about choking out or spanking a girl while others like myself have always gotten off imagining ourselves get dominated by women. What do you think sparks the difference? Are sexually submissive straight men faggots?
 
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This has always confused me. Some men are naturally sexually submissive thus fantasize about choking out or spanking a girl while others like myself have always gotten off imagining ourselves get dominated by women. What do you think sparks the difference? Are sexually submissive straight men faggots?
Porn addiction or being indian are the 2 most likely causes

You need to inject TRT asap based on what you've written here
 
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Porn addiction or being indian are the 2 most likely causes

You need to inject TRT asap based on what you've written here
I've gotten off the idea of being dominated since I was a kid. Long before I went through puberty. Started at 6.
 
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Femdom is hot and nobody can convince me otherwise. Just as long as it’s in the bedroom though. But yes, a lot of men into femdom are beta because they are also into cuckolding, and view themselves as beneath alpha men. These cucks have ruined femdom
 
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Femdom is hot and nobody can convince me otherwise. Just as long as it’s in the bedroom though. But yes, a lot of men into femdom are beta because they are also into cuckolding, and view themselves as beneath alpha men. These cucks have ruined femdom
Submitting to a woman is a mental disorder it means you’re not a man. Women need to be punched in the face or beheaded when they display unwarranted aggressive behavior towards men
 
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I've gotten off the idea of being dominated since I was a kid. Long before I went through puberty. Started at 6.
Quettabased. Same here. I had a dream at 7 that i was in a water tank tied up being "exhibited" to white women
 
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Its probably early childhood experiences as well. Not sure if its just testosterone
 
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Because some were born without a real masculine father
 
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Femdom is hot and nobody can convince me otherwise. Just as long as it’s in the bedroom though. But yes, a lot of men into femdom are beta because they are also into cuckolding, and view themselves as beneath alpha men. These cucks have ruined femdom
I only got into femdom in my 20s. Before that I was 'normal' sexually.

For me personally I believe it's a way to deal with inceldom trauma. I don't feel in control of my sexuality, so it feels good if theoretically a woman could take control over that.

In reality this doesn't workout though since 90% of women are submissive. And even if you find some femdom girlfriend, you will still have to get over your incel traumas in the end anyways and you may not even be submissive anymore after that happens.

Femdom/cuckold fetishes is mostly a way to deal with trauma tbh. And I don't think it's an optimal/good way at that. It's just a coping mechanism that distracts you from what truly needs to be done.
 
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I only got into femdom in my 20s. Before that I was 'normal' sexually.

For me personally I believe it's a way to deal with inceldom trauma. I don't feel in control of my sexuality, so it feels good if theoretically a woman could take control over that.

In reality this doesn't workout though since 90% of women are submissive. And even if you find some femdom girlfriend, you will still have to get over your incel traumas in the end anyways and you may not even be submissive anymore after that happens.

Femdom/cuckold fetishes is mostly a way to deal with trauma tbh. And I don't think it's an optimal/good way at that. It's just a coping mechanism that distracts you from what truly needs to be done.
I’ve liked femdom ever since I got sexual urges as a young teen. Not sure what it is. Obviously in normal vanilla sex the guy doing the fucking is a given, so I guess that’s "dominant". I just view femdom as a play, I still like to be in control of the overall situation
 
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I’ve liked femdom ever since I got sexual urges as a young teen. Not sure what it is. Obviously in normal vanilla sex the guy doing the fucking is a given, so I guess that’s "dominant". I just view femdom as a play, I still like to be in control of the overall situation
I hate women that just act like a starfish during sex, which is most women unfortunately.

But having a woman actually be active during sex, change positions, move, get you off, give you handjobs, blowjobs, etc.
all of that has nothing to do with femdom honestly, but with most women just being absolutely trash at sex.

both the girls I dated longer term would do legit nothing during sex unless I asked them to do something. And I didn't like that vibe. I would like my sexual partner to be engaging and playful herself instead. But it's rare from what I've noticed.
 
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Femdom is hot and nobody can convince me otherwise. Just as long as it’s in the bedroom though. But yes, a lot of men into femdom are beta because they are also into cuckolding, and view themselves as beneath alpha men. These cucks have ruined femdom
I think femdom is almost a straight homosexuality. What I mean by this is those who feel femdom get off of being dominated sexually in a manner similar to how women get off being sexually dominated. Most guys I know who are into femdom eventually get into crossdressing as well. It's weird. Hahahaha.
Submitting to a woman is a mental disorder it means you’re not a man. Women need to be punched in the face or beheaded when they display unwarranted aggressive behavior towards men
How do you get off of dominating women sexually exactly? Could you describe to me what's appealing about that? :feelswat:
 
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Quettabased. Same here. I had a dream at 7 that i was in a water tank tied up being "exhibited" to white women
Cool brocel. What race are you if I may ask?
 
I only got into femdom in my 20s. Before that I was 'normal' sexually.

For me personally I believe it's a way to deal with inceldom trauma. I don't feel in control of my sexuality, so it feels good if theoretically a woman could take control over that.

In reality this doesn't workout though since 90% of women are submissive. And even if you find some femdom girlfriend, you will still have to get over your incel traumas in the end anyways and you may not even be submissive anymore after that happens.

Femdom/cuckold fetishes is mostly a way to deal with trauma tbh. And I don't think it's an optimal/good way at that. It's just a coping mechanism that distracts you from what truly needs to be done.
This is what I realized about femdom as well. It's just a fantasy. No woman is naturally sexually dominant. If they are dominant in anyway it's usually out of a hatred of men or they're pretending to be for chad. I lost all interested in femdom after I saw a bunch of girls who were "*into it*" venting about how they couldn't find a chad they felt safe around to do it with. Now I only get off to futa. :smonk: Now I see the funny side.
 
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This has always confused me. Some men are naturally sexually submissive thus fantasize about choking out or spanking a girl while others like myself have always gotten off imagining ourselves get dominated by women. What do you think sparks the difference? Are sexually submissive straight men faggots?
Honestly i like both but at different times. Sometimes i like to be dom and sometimes the opposite. I have no idea why. Most of the time i like dom tho.
 
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this nigga makes some gay ass fag threads
 
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I think it'a mental illness. It is a way to cope with trauma.
 
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Honestly i like both but at different times. Sometimes i like to be dom and sometimes the opposite. I have no idea why. Most of the time i like dom tho.
That's strange. What exactly do you enjoy about being dom?
 
You can be both depending the mood too
 
I only got into femdom in my 20s. Before that I was 'normal' sexually.

For me personally I believe it's a way to deal with inceldom trauma. I don't feel in control of my sexuality, so it feels good if theoretically a woman could take control over that.

In reality this doesn't workout though since 90% of women are submissive. And even if you find some femdom girlfriend, you will still have to get over your incel traumas in the end anyways and you may not even be submissive anymore after that happens.

Femdom/cuckold fetishes is mostly a way to deal with trauma tbh. And I don't think it's an optimal/good way at that. It's just a coping mechanism that distracts you from what truly needs to be done.
Based on porn it seems 99% of 6+ women are sub or at least not into femdom

Decent amount of hot girls doing femdom porn but it's almost entirely bad acting and obvious they're not into it
 
That's strange. What exactly do you enjoy about being dom?
I dont know tbh, its just about when im in the mood. I think usually when im high T after gym im just hella aggressive and horny. When im super horny i like younger women more, when im less horny im more likely to like submissive shit.
 
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I dont know tbh, its just about when im in the mood. I think usually when im high T after gym im just hella aggressive and horny. When im super horny i like younger women more, when im less horny im more likely to like submissive shit.
God i cant get over how terrifying and chocolatey and niggery the negro in your avatar is 🤣
 
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sigmund Freud …. All goes back to your mommy issues
Hahahah
 
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Messed up prenatal hormones, and/or mental illness/autism, and/or abnormal childhood in some capacity.
 
Some men are naturally sexually submissive
thus fantasize about choking out or spanking a girl

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tbh, If i imagine a girl i’m with, i want to dominate her in every regard.
But i have also a milf fetish which is secondary where i get breastfed
 
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I'm almost positive it's nature preparing ground for dual mating strategy, the alpha fucks-beta bux dynamic, and makes sub5s naturally submissive to women
I can't imagine how a man can not want a woman to submit to him. As some secondary fantasy, as occasional role switching - maybe it can be okay. But for a man to see a cute girl and think "I want her to treat me like a slave" then it's fucking over
 
I really doubt it has to do with T levels, unless there's dildos and shit involved. Am I supposed not to be turned on by women? Is it gay if you like taller women? Fucking retarded.
 
This has always confused me. Some men are naturally sexually submissive thus fantasize about choking out or spanking a girl while others like myself have always gotten off imagining ourselves get dominated by women. What do you think sparks the difference? Are sexually submissive straight men faggots?
high estrogen, Freudian issues.
 

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