bishōnenmaxxer
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Title tbh. I try to keep all my shit to a journal, partially because I have people who know my .org account, but mostly since that's where I've been writing for the past 3 or so years. Attention whoring doesn't make sense since the offtopic section is just incel shit and race bait 99% of the time. Maybe because there are likeminded people here? No idea.
Anyway, been thinking about how a lot of the time when connecting with people, the way I (and others mostly likely) open up is shared taste in music/shows. Isn't that kinda lame? Like"you wanna know about me? Look at this thing someone else did". None of the friends I have now are relying on that, but every friendship I have is initiated with those types of connections. A shared game, show, YouTuber, so on. Acquaintances are made of of shared media, and are turned into friends through sharing of experience, but why do they almost always start from someone elses creation? I think this comes from me not being particularity skilled myself.
I just gotta get more skilled.
Anyway, been thinking about how a lot of the time when connecting with people, the way I (and others mostly likely) open up is shared taste in music/shows. Isn't that kinda lame? Like"you wanna know about me? Look at this thing someone else did". None of the friends I have now are relying on that, but every friendship I have is initiated with those types of connections. A shared game, show, YouTuber, so on. Acquaintances are made of of shared media, and are turned into friends through sharing of experience, but why do they almost always start from someone elses creation? I think this comes from me not being particularity skilled myself.
I just gotta get more skilled.