Why does every method just seem like a whole bunch of cope

[MOONKEYWRENCH12]

Like everything used to "look better" is always just put up with the idea of it just being cope. I dont know how many times I have tried to be more appealing or raise my smv but its all for nothing. Every method just seems like a "get rich quick" strategy and will do nothing for me. Like ive looked into a bunch of different things like skin care, peptides, debloating, getting a better frame. But it just seems like either you were born with it or not. Am I retarded or are there things that will actually make me feel better about myself?

 

[TopTierIncel42]

Like everything used to "look better" is always just put up with the idea of it just being cope. I dont know how many times I have tried to be more appealing or raise my smv but its all for nothing. Every method just seems like a "get rich quick" strategy and will do nothing for me. Like ive looked into a bunch of different things like skin care, peptides, debloating, getting a better frame. But it just seems like either you were born with it or not. Am I retarded or are there things that will actually make me feel better about myself?

Every softmaxx retard faggot method is cope, only way to ascend is surgery

 

[Deleted member 99272]

it just seems like either you were born with it or not.

no way thats crazy you know your happiness is also genetic there are absolute subhumans who are never unhappy and have very high love for themselfs narcy as shit. its all genes even your work ethic. if you were meant to ascend you will find a way and it wont happenby someone taking your hand and bringing you along you have tolearn all yourself then theres no confusion.

 

[Hernan]

there's endless ways to improve, as to the mental part; i've been looking myself and i have no answer yet.

 

[lucifer88]

Like everything used to "look better" is always just put up with the idea of it just being cope. I dont know how many times I have tried to be more appealing or raise my smv but its all for nothing. Every method just seems like a "get rich quick" strategy and will do nothing for me. Like ive looked into a bunch of different things like skin care, peptides, debloating, getting a better frame. But it just seems like either you were born with it or not. Am I retarded or are there things that will actually make me feel better about myself?

maybe bc it is cope jfl softmaxx can only slightly help if ur base is already good, nothing you can do to change other than surgery

 

[MOONKEYWRENCH12]

no way thats crazy you know your happiness is also genetic there are absolute subhumans who are never unhappy and have very high love for themselfs narcy as shit. its all genes even your work ethic. if you were meant to ascend you will find a way and it wont happenby someone taking your hand and bringing you along you have tolearn all yourself then theres no confusion.

Yeah sure but most of the time when you ask youre a retard or "its just cope" like nothing at all seems like something that will work. Its even difficult to figure out what exactly you can fix without someone saying its over. Is it really just a throw anything at the wall and see what sticks?

 

[Deleted member 99272]

there's endless ways to improve, as to the mental part; i've been looking myself and i have no answer yet.

yeah life can get better and your self image will some but you will always have your proclivities and faults in your psyche there is no masking for how you are. we are what we are