Why I can't find happiness?

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cannot see myself

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I'm a 17 y/o, being honest, I'm not that good looking to myself, i weight 78kg, and I'm 184cm tall. I go to the gym 5 days a week, have a decent physique for my age, and not very much.
Im social, funny, have a large amount of good friends and so.
But there is a problem that I can't solve.
I really see myself as a ugly guy, and I don't know how i could got the life that i have.
Look, when im in the highschool, i make eye contact with all the girls, they flirt with me (not all of them ofc, but some), I've dated older women, prettier and funnier than me without major problems. My friends tell me that I am not ugly, but somehow i still see myself as a monster in the mirror, I can't take pics anymore, cause I see every defect in them, plus, im gonna open my palate with a MARPE next year, in hope that it gives me more validation. Look, I am very confident when I talk to girls, friends, etc. But there is something deep inside that is killing me slowly.
If anyone has any advise, I will be very glad to hear it, thanks.
 
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I'm a 17 y/o, being honest, I'm not that good looking to myself, i weight 78kg, and I'm 184cm tall. I go to the gym 5 days a week, have a decent physique for my age, and not very much.
Im social, funny, have a large amount of good friends and so.
But there is a problem that I can't solve.
I really see myself as a ugly guy, and I don't know how i could got the life that i have.
Look, when im in the highschool, i make eye contact with all the girls, they flirt with me (not all of them ofc, but some), I've dated older women, prettier and funnier than me without major problems. My friends tell me that I am not ugly, but somehow i still see myself as a monster in the mirror, I can't take pics anymore, cause I see every defect in them, plus, im gonna open my palate with a MARPE next year, in hope that it gives me more validation. Look, I am very confident when I talk to girls, friends, etc. But there is something deep inside that is killing me slowly.
If anyone has any advise, I will be very glad to hear it, thanks.
because your worrying too much, just go rob and bank and fee the country already tbh
 
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I'm a 17 y/o, being honest, I'm not that good looking to myself, i weight 78kg, and I'm 184cm tall. I go to the gym 5 days a week, have a decent physique for my age, and not very much.
Im social, funny, have a large amount of good friends and so.
But there is a problem that I can't solve.
I really see myself as a ugly guy, and I don't know how i could got the life that i have.
Look, when im in the highschool, i make eye contact with all the girls, they flirt with me (not all of them ofc, but some), I've dated older women, prettier and funnier than me without major problems. My friends tell me that I am not ugly, but somehow i still see myself as a monster in the mirror, I can't take pics anymore, cause I see every defect in them, plus, im gonna open my palate with a MARPE next year, in hope that it gives me more validation. Look, I am very confident when I talk to girls, friends, etc. But there is something deep inside that is killing me slowly.
If anyone has any advise, I will be very glad to hear it, thanks.
take a close look at your peers around school
notice how most are hltn or lmtn
that should make you feel better (if you are mtn+)
 
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I am not going to elaborate how and why it works (you can google it on your own), for it will take way too much time.

just remember for the rest of your life: remove any mirrors and cameras whenever you feel bad/depressed et cetera.

I know I am not directly addressing your problem, but my advise will help
 
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take a close look at your peers around school
notice how most are hltn or lmtn
that should make you feel better (if you are mtn+)
I don't really think that I am more thatn mltn, but there are even a cl i will say in my highschool, he has a very wide skull, hunter eyes, etc, but girls literally don't notice him, i'ts like a ghost, no friends, nothing, and there are more than a few mtn's. Anyways, thanks for advise.
 
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I am not going to elaborate how and why it works (you can google it on your own), for it will take way too much time.

just remember for the rest of your life: remove any mirrors and cameras whenever you feel bad/depressed et cetera.

I know I am not directly addressing your problem, but my advise will help
It's difficult in this times, but i will try my best, thanks for your advise sir!
 
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I'm a 17 y/o, being honest, I'm not that good looking to myself, i weight 78kg, and I'm 184cm tall. I go to the gym 5 days a week, have a decent physique for my age, and not very much.
Im social, funny, have a large amount of good friends and so.
But there is a problem that I can't solve.
I really see myself as a ugly guy, and I don't know how i could got the life that i have.
Look, when im in the highschool, i make eye contact with all the girls, they flirt with me (not all of them ofc, but some), I've dated older women, prettier and funnier than me without major problems. My friends tell me that I am not ugly, but somehow i still see myself as a monster in the mirror, I can't take pics anymore, cause I see every defect in them, plus, im gonna open my palate with a MARPE next year, in hope that it gives me more validation. Look, I am very confident when I talk to girls, friends, etc. But there is something deep inside that is killing me slowly.
If anyone has any advise, I will be very glad to hear it, thanks.
Get off this website and maybe you will
 
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cl i will say in my highschool, he has a very wide skull, hunter eyes, etc, but girls literally don't notice him, i'ts like a ghost, no friends, nothing
yh he's defo nd :feelsbadman:
only chad can get away with being nd
 
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Nigga can just tell @Gengar and he will remove the post
Ohh, I didn't know that. But anyways, I don't want to face reality, if I post the pics all the comments will tell me to ropemaxx prob hahaha
 
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I dunno mang, there's some real lunatics here who save your pics and stuff like that.
I will be in a "you can fool yourself" edit bro hahha
 
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I dunno mang, there's some real lunatics here who save your pics and stuff like that.
If you don't have haters, are you really a winner?
 
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looks only matter in dating if dating is not the problem how could looks improve your happines bro
 
I'm a 17 y/o, being honest, I'm not that good looking to myself, i weight 78kg, and I'm 184cm tall. I go to the gym 5 days a week, have a decent physique for my age, and not very much.
Im social, funny, have a large amount of good friends and so.
But there is a problem that I can't solve.
I really see myself as a ugly guy, and I don't know how i could got the life that i have.
Look, when im in the highschool, i make eye contact with all the girls, they flirt with me (not all of them ofc, but some), I've dated older women, prettier and funnier than me without major problems. My friends tell me that I am not ugly, but somehow i still see myself as a monster in the mirror, I can't take pics anymore, cause I see every defect in them, plus, im gonna open my palate with a MARPE next year, in hope that it gives me more validation. Look, I am very confident when I talk to girls, friends, etc. But there is something deep inside that is killing me slowly.
If anyone has any advise, I will be very glad to hear it, thanks.
hop off social media and from my experience just do some walks with sm1 while getting sun exposure it kinda make u feel alive
 
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I'm a 17 y/o, being honest, I'm not that good looking to myself, i weight 78kg, and I'm 184cm tall. I go to the gym 5 days a week, have a decent physique for my age, and not very much.
Im social, funny, have a large amount of good friends and so.
But there is a problem that I can't solve.
I really see myself as a ugly guy, and I don't know how i could got the life that i have.
Look, when im in the highschool, i make eye contact with all the girls, they flirt with me (not all of them ofc, but some), I've dated older women, prettier and funnier than me without major problems. My friends tell me that I am not ugly, but somehow i still see myself as a monster in the mirror, I can't take pics anymore, cause I see every defect in them, plus, im gonna open my palate with a MARPE next year, in hope that it gives me more validation. Look, I am very confident when I talk to girls, friends, etc. But there is something deep inside that is killing me slowly.
If anyone has any advise, I will be very glad to hear it, thanks.
btw i will end up like after 2 weeks lol since i got some crazy mood swings so my advice is worthless but just try it lmao:lul:
 
im curious to see what you look like
 
I'm a 17 y/o, being honest, I'm not that good looking to myself, i weight 78kg, and I'm 184cm tall. I go to the gym 5 days a week, have a decent physique for my age, and not very much.
Im social, funny, have a large amount of good friends and so.
But there is a problem that I can't solve.
I really see myself as a ugly guy, and I don't know how i could got the life that i have.
Look, when im in the highschool, i make eye contact with all the girls, they flirt with me (not all of them ofc, but some), I've dated older women, prettier and funnier than me without major problems. My friends tell me that I am not ugly, but somehow i still see myself as a monster in the mirror, I can't take pics anymore, cause I see every defect in them, plus, im gonna open my palate with a MARPE next year, in hope that it gives me more validation. Look, I am very confident when I talk to girls, friends, etc. But there is something deep inside that is killing me slowly.
If anyone has any advise, I will be very glad to hear it, thanks.
You are worrying about something that shouldnt effect you

Lift is short , hate as much as you can but not yourself:chad:
 
The only thing you can do is grind for your future.

Don’t try to have fun or be happy, you can’t force that.

Fun and happiness doesn’t come from trying, it comes as a side effect of being successful and looking good.

So get your money up, gym harder, research what substances you can inject or consume for performance enhancement, try and find a softmaxxing that works for you, and plan your surgeries.

Otherwise you will end up like me, doing all this anyway at 30+ because you tried to find happiness when you didn’t deserve it!
 
LOW DOPAMINE AND SEROTONIN LEVELS.
TAKE AN SSRI :bluepill:
 
The only thing you can do is grind for your future.

Don’t try to have fun or be happy, you can’t force that.

Fun and happiness doesn’t come from trying, it comes as a side effect of being successful and looking good.

So get your money up, gym harder, research what substances you can inject or consume for performance enhancement, try and find a softmaxxing that works for you, and plan your surgeries.

Otherwise you will end up like me, doing all this anyway at 30+ because you tried to find happiness when you didn’t deserve it!
Damn, thats real bro, I really dont want surgeries btw, because I want to keep my face. I mean, I'm getting MARPE and brackets next year, but I don't wanna do something that will change my face in a way that I will loose my identity. Anyways, thanks for the advises bro, keep grinding!
 

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