Why i dont really relate to young guys

[DwayneWhite55]

You hardly ever meet a cool and smart young guy and they havnt been through life yet.

When I was younger I had high expectations for my life. I had goals. I thought 30s and up were old also.

Then I went through a hard life and had to learn the hard way. I'm 39 years old and I'm the same person just smarter because of experience.

If I were 21 years old again which I wish I could go back too. I would of done differently if I knew what I know now. At 21 I had all my teeth and braces. I had goals of going to college. I was able to be a server in a restaurant. But I needed love and a girlfriend badly so I got with the first girl who had to have me.

So I put everything in my life on hold trying to be with her. And she chewed me up and spit me out. By the time she cheated on me ,I was considered old at 27 with no career. Hit with child support. Life was a downward spiral I couldn't stop from going down hill. It was already too late for me. I ended up homeless , poor , living in group homes,couldn't find a job.

Most of the guys here has not been what I've been through luckily ,but it could easily happen to you. Life will pass you by in an instant. And it's too fucking late to dig yourself out of the hole. I do blame it on my bad decisions, but also on bad parenting and society. How the government and society is set up and don't give a fuck about men.

 

[Deleted member 15577]

This is depressing I’m not even gonna troll with insults








You should shut up though low iq nigger

 

[Deleted member 15778]

You hardly ever meet a cool and smart young guy and they havnt been through life yet.

When I was younger I had high expectations for my life. I had goals. I thought 30s and up were old also.

Then I went through a hard life and had to learn the hard way. I'm 39 years old and I'm the same person just smarter because of experience.

If I were 21 years old again which I wish I could go back too. I would of done differently if I knew what I know now. At 21 I had all my teeth and braces. I had goals of going to college. I was able to be a server in a restaurant. But I needed love and a girlfriend badly so I got with the first girl who had to have me.

So I put everything in my life on hold trying to be with her. And she chewed me up and spit me out. By the time she cheated on me ,I was considered old at 27 with no career. Hit with child support. Life was a downward spiral I couldn't stop from going down hill. It was already too late for me. I ended up homeless , poor , living in group homes,couldn't find a job.

Most of the guys here has not been what I've been through luckily ,but it could easily happen to you. Life will pass you by in an instant. And it's too fucking late to dig yourself out of the hole. I do blame it on my bad decisions, but also on bad parenting and society. How the government and society is set up and don't give a fuck about men.

How long were you homeless for? How did you get out of it?

Life is hard. I'm mid 30s and would have made entirely different choices if I could go back, but you can only go forward.

 

[Deleted member 15778]

 

[DwayneWhite55]

How long were you homeless for? How did you get out of it?

Life is hard. I'm mid 30s and would have made entirely different choices if I could go back, but you can only go forward.

For the first couple years I had to live with my alcoholic mom and her husband till they lost the house because of drugs. Then my x took me in for a month then kicked me out then that's when I had to live in a homeless shelter for 6 months. It felt like a prison sentence. And kind of like prison with the bunk beds.

Then I had to live in mental group homes , for about 5 years, couldn't find a job. Had case managers too that didn't help,therapists and psychologists , none of the shit helped me. My last group home was a money hungry black lady and about to kick me out. My mom offered me to come live with her again in her new place, and I moved with her because I had too. And I got a shit job here , I saved up for a car and got my license back finally but my car broke down,so now I have to drive my mom's car to my low paying job that I hate. But I've had worse jobs that I can't even do. But I can't save money with this job. I have to pay rent and supply their alcohol.

 

[Deleted member 16101]

You hardly ever meet a cool and smart young guy and they havnt been through life yet.

When I was younger I had high expectations for my life. I had goals. I thought 30s and up were old also.

Then I went through a hard life and had to learn the hard way. I'm 39 years old and I'm the same person just smarter because of experience.

If I were 21 years old again which I wish I could go back too. I would of done differently if I knew what I know now. At 21 I had all my teeth and braces. I had goals of going to college. I was able to be a server in a restaurant. But I needed love and a girlfriend badly so I got with the first girl who had to have me.

So I put everything in my life on hold trying to be with her. And she chewed me up and spit me out. By the time she cheated on me ,I was considered old at 27 with no career. Hit with child support. Life was a downward spiral I couldn't stop from going down hill. It was already too late for me. I ended up homeless , poor , living in group homes,couldn't find a job.

Most of the guys here has not been what I've been through luckily ,but it could easily happen to you. Life will pass you by in an instant. And it's too fucking late to dig yourself out of the hole. I do blame it on my bad decisions, but also on bad parenting and society. How the government and society is set up and don't give a fuck about men.

I thank god everyday my parents put me (and my brother) on the right direction.
Parenting is one of the biggest dice rolls in life and can really decide a kid's life trajectory

 

[Deleted member 16101]

In inpatient psychiatry this is so apparent. Guys with great bone structure, tall, naturally athletic and lean even though they consume a diet of processed junk and 10 different drugs, men and women who seemed bright and could have been white collar professionals in another life, but bad parenting completely fucked them before they even had a chance.

 

[DwayneWhite55]

I thank god everyday my parents put me (and my brother) on the right direction.
Parenting is one of the biggest dice rolls in life and can really decide a kid's life trajectory

Truth,because I had no real parents I had so much stress and problems even at 16 years old when I had to buy everything myself. And was still poor. And I had no guidance or help on anything. At 16 I had to work and try to do school. Which I hated school ,I was too damn tired and a outcast.

 

[Deleted member 15778]

For the first couple years I had to live with my alcoholic mom and her husband till they lost the house because of drugs. Then my x took me in for a month then kicked me out then that's when I had to live in a homeless shelter for 6 months. It felt like a prison sentence. And kind of like prison with the bunk beds.

Then I had to live in mental group homes , for about 5 years, couldn't find a job. Had case managers too that didn't help,therapists and psychologists , none of the shit helped me. My last group home was a money hungry black lady and about to kick me out. My mom offered me to come live with her again in her new place, and I moved with her because I had too. And I got a shit job here , I saved up for a car and got my license back finally but my car broke down,so now I have to drive my mom's car to my low paying job that I hate. But I've had worse jobs that I can't even do. But I can't save money with this job. I have to pay rent and supply their alcohol.

Damn. Life seems to get harder and harder the less resources you have. Like if you're a millionaire, making another million isn't that hard but if you're homeless getting a job is near impossible, having that career gap in your resume.

Did you have to lie about experience on your resume? I have realized, that I could become homeless in my future, and my plan has been to lie about past experience to get a minimum wage job, and use one of those online fake reference services.

It doesn't surprise me that case workers and therapists and phycologists didn't solve the problem.

 

[DwayneWhite55]

Damn. Life seems to get harder and harder the less resources you have. Like if you're a millionaire, making another million isn't that hard but if you're homeless getting a job is near impossible, having that career gap in your resume.

Did you have to lie about experience on your resume? I have realized, that I could become homeless in my future, and my plan has been to lie about past experience to get a minimum wage job, and use one of those online fake reference services.

It doesn't surprise me that case workers and therapists and phycologists didn't solve the problem.

No , I got a couple horrible jobs that I just couldn't do at all and quit while living in group homes. Then I found a gas station that I could tolerate. I've been a cashier ever since,even though it's low paying and I hate the face to face interactions with all the women I have to look at that I can't get or asshole dudes. It's more tolerable then being a cook or dishwasher for me.

But yeah I used to go with case managers and filled out applications at places I did want to work and nobody would hire me,even took a long course in typing at a special place and it didn't help me at all get into that field. The whole system is a joke. Therapists ,councilors and even case workers are all a fucking joke.

 

[Deleted member 15778]

No , I got a couple horrible jobs that I just couldn't do at all and quit while living in group homes. Then I found a gas station that I could tolerate. I've been a cashier ever since,even though it's low paying and I hate the face to face interactions with all the women I have to look at that I can't get or asshole dudes. It's more tolerable then being a cook or dishwasher for me.

But yeah I used to go with case managers and filled out applications at places I did want to work and nobody would hire me,even took a long course in typing at a special place and it didn't help me at all get into that field. The whole system is a joke. Therapists ,councilors and even case workers are all a fucking joke.

Damn. Yah, I was in the military so I have no faith in people or the government.

Have you considered online dating for some 3rd world SEA country and marrying, even though they may want marriage for visa? That's one of my emergency plans if I'm single at 50.

 

[DwayneWhite55]

Damn. Yah, I was in the military so I have no faith in people or the government.

Have you considered online dating for some 3rd world SEA country and marrying, even though they may want marriage for visa? That's one of my emergency plans if I'm single at 50.

Lol I'm too poor to go there ,plus I'm not going to that extreme. Maybe I'd try to persuade one to fly here if I was rich. I tried for a Asian girl from my local store not that long ago,of course she said she had a boyfriend. That's the only one I seen in years.

 

[BearBoy]

I know a guy who became a complete junkie because of a woman and looks terrible.

 

[DwayneWhite55]

I know a guy who became a complete junkie because of a woman and looks terrible.

In the USA you are better off being a junkie and get help. They got special housing and programs for recovering addicts,but nothing for guys who wasn't. But yeah I believe it. A lot of guys will do anything for women.

 

[Deleted member 15778]

I know a guy who became a complete junkie because of a woman and looks terrible.

I got lucky. Of the women who were briefly interested in me last year, and then decided to find some one better/ghost me, one was a drug dealer and the other was a massive druggy party girl. I try to avoid those people, but I'm so desperate for companionship.

 

[Deleted member 15778]

In the USA you are better off being a junkie and get help. They got special housing and programs for recovering addicts,but nothing for guys who wasn't. But yeah I believe it. A lot of guys will do anything for women.

You thought about faking a drug addiction? I might do that if I become homeless. Do you know if they check to make sure you're really an addict?

 

[DwayneWhite55]

You thought about faking a drug addiction? I might do that if I become homeless. Do you know if they check to make sure you're really an addict?

I'm not sure I thought about it but didn't think I could pull it off.

 

[Vermilioncore]

Damn you old fucks type some long shit

 

[DwayneWhite55]

Damn you old fucks type some long shit

You just don't have any stories nigga ,you havnt lived

 

[Foreverbrad]

It's relatable because we are all on this forum because we got hurt, to a greater or lesser extent, by a woman or women in general.

 

[AlexBrown84]

No , I got a couple horrible jobs that I just couldn't do at all and quit while living in group homes. Then I found a gas station that I could tolerate. I've been a cashier ever since,even though it's low paying and I hate the face to face interactions with all the women I have to look at that I can't get or asshole dudes. It's more tolerable then being a cook or dishwasher for me.

But yeah I used to go with case managers and filled out applications at places I did want to work and nobody would hire me,even took a long course in typing at a special place and it didn't help me at all get into that field. The whole system is a joke. Therapists ,councilors and even case workers are all a fucking joke.

Can I come visit your gas station and see you in your little work costume

 

[AlexBrown84]

And thanks for this post. You provide some good insight on how life sometimes doesn’t go in your favor.

God surely has blessed me on this earth. I’m not sure why though. Hopefully I find the reason

 

[Deleted member 16101]

Can I come visit your gas station and see you in your little work costume

Are you going to call him an ant and grandstand about buying the whole store because his service is slow

 

[Deleted member 18086]

i dont relate to anyone, im the only legit person

 

[Gonthar]

If I were 21 years old again which I wish I could go back too. I would of done differently if I knew what I know now.

How do you plan to do this, I'm about the same age and would like to go back to 21 too...

 

[spark]

How do you plan to do this, I'm about the same age and would like to go back to 21 too...

 

[Polar]

Damn nigga thats rough, mirin you for not roping yet

 

[Deleted member 2382]

I've never had a girlfriend because none of the girls I fucked met my standards for a relationship
I only worked fulltime for one year before I quit my job and I invested 80% of my net income from that year into crypto
I am currently earning enough money from my online stream of income to afford a studio apartment and food.
I also have money in savings to get surgery once my ortho work is complete
Women see me as invisible because I'm not a reckless spender but I understand those cunts never wanted me in the first place so I will either make it to the top and slay as a multi millionaire or just live a 0 status, hermit life
I will never leave myself in the gutter by spending money to try impress some whore

 

[oldcell]

40 here and can relate

 

[oldcell]

I've never had a girlfriend because none of the girls I fucked met my standards for a relationship
I only worked fulltime for one year before I quit my job and I invested 80% of my net income from that year into crypto
I am currently earning enough money from my online stream of income to afford a studio apartment and food.
I also have money in savings to get surgery once my ortho work is complete
Women see me as invisible because I'm not a reckless spender but I understand those cunts never wanted me in the first place so I will either make it to the top and slay as a multi millionaire or just live a 0 status, hermit life
I will never leave myself in the gutter by spending money to try impress some whore

Your are typical case like most long term pls posters

LAte bloomer , with many lays, but most of slays as a compensation

You could LTR stacylite with some effort now if u want

At past females u was interested at LTR was higher SMV than you were

IF u keep working on moneymaxing, status, looksmaxing, at your 40 u will have high SMV , good life

 

[Deleted member 2382]

Your are typical case like most long term pls posters

LAte bloomer , with many lays, but most of slays as a compensation

You could LTR stacylite with some effort now if u want

At past females u was interested at LTR was higher SMV than you were

IF u keep working on moneymaxing, status, looksmaxing, at your 40 u will have high SMV , good life

Legit
What age are you and was this your experience?
I am 26 but if I went for a 26 year old StaceyLite I can imagine them grilling me on what my prospects are and why I don't have an official job.
I genuinely don't know how to meet women my own age but if I did I couldn't be bothered explaining myself to them. I'd happily just let them view me as a loser then follow their instagram to see them couple up with a LowTierNormie 9-5er a couple of years later

 

[oldcell]

Legit
What age are you and was this your experience?
I am 26 but if I went for a 26 year old StaceyLite I can imagine them grilling me on what my prospects are and why I don't have an official job.
I genuinely don't know how to meet women my own age but if I did I couldn't be bothered explaining myself to them. I'd happily just let them view me as a loser then follow their instagram to see them couple up with a LowTierNormie 9-5er a couple of years later

I am theodore form lookism age, 40, looking like 33, HTN -chadlite, many lays , but was low smv at past

Now i am trying to improve SMV its slowly but hard

At UK is hard but most quality fmeales u meet via social circles or some events etc..

IF they see u are some goal driven like u have your goal and go for it, are independant, taking caring of looks u will attract them naturally

ITs hard with females, becasue lets be honest, u are interested only for high tier becky + for ltr with good personality, not easy to find

 

[Baldingman1998]

I thank god everyday my parents put me (and my brother) on the right direction.
Parenting is one of the biggest dice rolls in life and can really decide a kid's life trajectory

Not just that. I could never be homeless even if I never worked because my family never kicks each other out. That's a retard american concept. As an ethnic family is number 1

 

[AlexAP]

Not just that. I could never be homeless even if I never worked because my family never kicks each other out. That's a retard american concept. As an ethnic family is number 1

In the West no one has to be homeless, there is welfare for every disgusting NEET.

 

[Deleted member 2382]

I am theodore form lookism age, 40, looking like 33, HTN -chadlite, many lays , but was low smv at past

Now i am trying to improve SMV its slowly but hard

At UK is hard but most quality fmeales u meet via social circles or some events etc..

IF they see u are some goal driven like u have your goal and go for it, are independant, taking caring of looks u will attract them naturally

ITs hard with females, becasue lets be honest, u are interested only for high tier becky + for ltr with good personality, not easy to find

Do you have any methods for displaying that you are goal driven or that you've attained some wealth?
Have you anything setting you apart from others in your perceived age range (not that I'm concerned about that but of course it matters to NTs)
When I tell people that I don't work and do youtube for a living they show a bit of intruige then they ask what the channel is about and I tell them I make sports montages and they react like it's a massive failo as if they were expecting me to be a vlogger with 1million subs jfl.
All that people care about is if they can throw themselves into the status you have built, if not then your hobbies or pursuits are dogshit to them

 

[oldcell]

Do you have any methods for displaying that you are goal driven or that you've attained some wealth?
Have you anything setting you apart from others in your perceived age range (not that I'm concerned about that but of course it matters to NTs)
When I tell people that I don't work and do youtube for a living they show a bit of intruige then they ask what the channel is about and I tell them I make sports montages and they react like it's a massive failo as if they were expecting me to be a vlogger with 1million subs jfl.
All that people care about is if they can throw themselves into the status you have built, if not then your hobbies or pursuits are dogshit to them

MEthod for displaying u are goal driven, dunno you if u make channel, u must lnow how to talk about it, like u know stuff, people, about how many likes followers u got hen u talk to women, talk about your future plans with this, like women are like this they like males with plans for future and just talking about this give you status at her eyes like u are male with perspective...dunno me alone have to learna lot at this case

Shallow chicks maybe expect u to be vlogger with 100k sub, but a slight high iq chick would appreciate wha u do, u filter dumb sluts this way

I have few friends of my age they all have 8-16 boring jobs, women, mortgage and kids and talk only about job and family but maybe they are happier, they are out of dating game for sure, only rich and status are not

ITs brutal how much more effort is to keep looks at 40 tho, i could post u 28 fat bald incel to current 40 transformation later on if wanna

Like being passionate about things you do and dont be workcell sheep just separate u from the crowd of normies

 

[Deleted member 2382]

MEthod for displaying u are goal driven, dunno you if u make channel, u must lnow how to talk about it, like u know stuff, people, about how many likes followers u got hen u talk to women, talk about your future plans with this, like women are like this they like males with plans for future and just talking about this give you status at her eyes like u are male with perspective...dunno me alone have to learna lot at this case

Shallow chicks maybe expect u to be vlogger with 100k sub, but a slight high iq chick would appreciate wha u do, u filter dumb sluts this way

I have few friends of my age they all have 8-16 boring jobs, women, mortgage and kids and talk only about job and family but maybe they are happier, they are out of dating game for sure, only rich and status are not

ITs brutal how much more effort is to keep looks at 40 tho, i could post u 28 fat bald incel to current 40 transformation later on if wanna

Like being passionate about things you do and dont be workcell sheep just separate u from the crowd of normies

yeah show this please
I drank the other day for the first time since new years
I had 500ml vodka which is way overdoing it for my current tolerance but it didn't fuck with my diet and I felt fine after it so assumed there was no harm done because it resulted in me getting extra sleep yet I look at the skin on my face today and it seems to have aged me and my hairline looks a bit worse as well. I could be overthinking it but it honestly seems like one instance of drinking can tip the associated failos over the edge

 

[DwayneWhite55]

I've never had a girlfriend because none of the girls I fucked met my standards for a relationship
I only worked fulltime for one year before I quit my job and I invested 80% of my net income from that year into crypto
I am currently earning enough money from my online stream of income to afford a studio apartment and food.
I also have money in savings to get surgery once my ortho work is complete
Women see me as invisible because I'm not a reckless spender but I understand those cunts never wanted me in the first place so I will either make it to the top and slay as a multi millionaire or just live a 0 status, hermit life
I will never leave myself in the gutter by spending money to try impress some whore

Oh poor you. Have you been kicked off incel forums for mentioning your height?