Why I get aprouched When I was fat and not now

[Deleted member 3041]

You look alot more low trust. You look more difficult to approach.

Fat guy = Gay best friend.

So it's very bad to look like low trust isn't it

 

[mulattomaxxer]

So it's very bad to look like low trust isn't it

No its better imo, your just less approachable then before.

Fat man = "female" in a womans eyes.

 

[Deleted member 3041]

No its better imo, your just less approachable then before.

Fat man = "female" in a womans eyes.

so the only chance to get pussy is to approach? I've never approached any girl I'm too ashamed and I don't have social skills I'm socially retarded

 

[Larpongstopper]

And why are they so much more unfriendly to me now? Don't smile at all now

Your probably Low trust now

 

[Deleted member 3041]

Your probably Low trust now

in your opinion is it better or worse? I think it's worse people were much nicer to me then girls were much nicer than now, they now just look with a serious face, rarely smile

 

[Larpongstopper]

in your opinion is it better or worse? I think it's worse people were much nicer to me then girls were much nicer than now, they now just look with a serious face, rarely smile

The niceness that you got when you were fat wasn’t true niceness, it’s the niceness you give to your dog. Being Low bf is always a plus with women, doesn’t matter how they treat you

 

[Deleted member 3041]

in environments like clubs or bars what would be better?

 

[Deleted member 3041]

The niceness that you got when you were fat wasn’t true niceness, it’s the niceness you give to your dog. Being Low bf is always a plus with women, doesn’t matter how they treat you

I notice several girls staring but never smiling like they used to. But two weeks ago I had the biggest ioi I've ever had when I was fat, in a water park there was a pretty girl with her friends staring at me biting her lip

 

[mulattomaxxer]

so the only chance to get pussy is to approach? I've never approached any girl I'm too ashamed and I don't have social skills I'm socially retarded

Oof, dw bro I am in a simillar situation to you, although I have made a few approaches in my life (not enough though).

How exactly are you socially retarded. Have you just had poor socialisation or are you autistic (Diagnosed autist)?

 

[Deleted member 3041]

Oof, dw bro I am in a simillar situation to you, although I have made a few approaches in my life (not enough though).

How exactly are you socially retarded. Have you just had poor socialisation or are you autistic (Diagnosed autist)?

I've had schizophrenia since I was 7 years old, and its hard to look people in the eye. As soon as I see a girl checking out i look away in most times, I rarely i keep staring

 

[mulattomaxxer]

I've had schizophrenia since I was 7 years old, and its hard to look people in the eye. As soon as I see a girl checking out i look away in most times, I rarely i keep staring

Do you take meds for it? Apparently it can be subdued effectively with medication.

 

[Deleted member 3041]

Do you take meds for it? Apparently it can be subdued effectively with medication.

I stopped taking a while. Because the medication makes me get fat and sleepy so I wanted to stop but I notice I'm the worst I'm isolating from the world in the past with the medication I was able to be more social.

 

[mulattomaxxer]

I stopped taking a while. Because the medication makes me get fat and sleepy so I wanted to stop but I notice I'm the worst I'm isolating from the world in the past with the medication I was able to be more social.

Is there any alternative medication you can take? It sounds rough having schizophrenia.

Also I am confused, are you better off with or without the medication?

 

[Deleted member 3041]

Is there any alternative medication you can take? It sounds rough having schizophrenia.

Also I am confused, are you better off with or without the medication?

I already stopped taking it 5 years ago, in the first 3 years I stopped taking it I felt good but in the last 2 years I started to get worse and worse social isolation I stopped playing rugby which I managed to maintain a lot of social contact. I wanted to stop doing many things where you had to make social contact. I missed the gym for several days because I didn't want people to see me. im much worse now

 

[mulattomaxxer]

I already stopped taking it 5 years ago, in the first 3 years I stopped taking it I felt good but in the last 2 years I started to get worse and worse social isolation I stopped playing rugby which I managed to maintain a lot of social contact. I wanted to stop doing many things where you had to make social contact. I missed the gym for several days because I didn't want people to see me. im much worse now

Maybe get back on it for a bit, rebuild a social circle (or recconnect with your old friends) then come off it again? Idk what you should do here. If an alternative medication exists the side effects may be less severe? I don't know what to say here.

I have seen a serverly schizophrenic guy when I was working and nobody wanted to talk to him... I talked to him a few times and I remember he started talking about madonna eurovision. Don't want to dishearten you but it was the truth.

 

[Deleted member 3041]

Maybe get back on it for a bit, rebuild a social circle (or recconnect with your old friends) then come off it again? Idk what you should do here. If an alternative medication exists the side effects may be less severe? I don't know what to say here.

I have seen a serverly schizophrenic guy when I was working and nobody wanted to talk to him... I talked to him a few times and I remember he started talking about madonna eurovision. Don't want to dishearten you but it was the truth.

What I also noticed that it got worse was that I started using this site and lookism was exactly two years ago that I discovered lookism, but I can't stop coming here all day, I'm at work right now and I'm leaving work to then because I'm researching stuff on this site. I know it's making my head worse but I can't stop coming here

 

[mulattomaxxer]

What I also noticed that it got worse was that I started using this site and lookism was exactly two years ago that I discovered lookism, but I can't stop coming here all day, I'm at work right now and I'm leaving work to then because I'm researching stuff on this site. I know it's making my head worse but I can't stop coming here

There isn't that much here, you should take a break from this website. Your mental health will thank you. You may also ascend if you can control your schizophrenia.