why i will never get laid

[Deleted member 21735]

-most girls are taken

-good looking girls will use me as emotional tampon because they are in a posistion to do so

-less gl girls wont do that but wont have sex either, instead they go and get pumped and dumped by chad

-there is basically no solution to this

 

[Dr. Bludy]

It's over oldman

 

[Deleted member 23804]

there is basically no solution to this

 

[soulless_npc]

-good looking girls will use me as emotional tampon because they are in a posistion to do so

Stop letting them

 

[vanillaicecream]

It's impossible to get laid in 2023 as an average man, just Impossible. Just too many variables that need to come together to work in your favor

You need to be in the right place at the time, you need to be lucky enough to be the one who happens to be there when she's emotionally vulnerable, you need to be better than the competition, you need to say the right things, you need to look a certain way, etc.

I've decided it's best for me to just give up.

 

[Deleted member 21735]

Stop letting them

how tf am i supposed to know they gonna pull this shit?

 

[Deleted member 21735]

You need to be in the right place at the time, you need to be lucky enough to be the one who happens to be there when she's emotionally vulnerable, you need to be better than the competition, you need to say the right things, you need to look a certain way, etc.

even with all these things in place you can still get screwed over anyway.

It's impossible to get laid in 2023 as an average man, just Impossible. Just too many variables that need to come together to work in your favor

there is a near infinite nmber of variables actually. its not a defined set, new ones get added. for example say you set up a date. so mnay things can go wrong, weather can be shit, she may flake, you may get sick etc. each step adds a new challenge

 

[soulless_npc]

how tf am i supposed to know they gonna pull this shit?

you don't. i worked with a girl who was nice to me at the beginning until it became clear she was just using me as a therapist and then she started flirting with chads at work and treating me like dog shit. at that point, treat her like dog shit and offer no human courtesy or emotional support of any kind, she's dead to you.

honestly, just don't be nice to girls in general because if you give away being nice so cheaply it means you're low value.

 

[Deleted member 21735]

you don't. i worked with a girl who was nice to me at the beginning until it became clear she was just using me as a therapist and then she started flirting with chads at work and treating me like dog shit. at that point, treat her like dog shit and offer no human courtesy or emotional support of any kind, she's dead to you.

honestly, just don't be nice to girls in general because if you give away being nice so cheaply it means you're low value.

it can be worse. bitches can even fake interest just to use you as a therapist

 

[soulless_npc]

it can be worse. bitches can even fake interest just to use you as a therapist

she did. many have. to me

 

[Deleted member 21735]

she did. many have. to me

yeah girls can be very manipulative if they want so especially the gl ones.

 

[vanillaicecream]

even with all these things in place you can still get screwed over anyway.


there is a near infinite nmber of variables actually. its not a defined set, new ones get added. for example say you set up a date. so mnay things can go wrong, weather can be shit, she may flake, you may get sick etc. each step adds a new challenge

Yes statistically it's just infinitely more likely that you don't get laid. Good luck getting a girl to go through all the trouble and get out of her comfort zone to meet up with some average stranger and be willing to go to bed with him lol. There needs to be prior familiarity/attraction, no girl will go out of her way to make sex happen with some random Joe. But building familiarity and connection is impossible too because most girls have an established network of people they trust and talk to, you can't just barge into their life all of a sudden.

 

[chadcel;]

I've decided it's best for me to just give up.

-there is basically no solution to this

Based LDAR

 

[Deleted member 21735]

Good luck getting a girl to go through all the trouble and get out of her comfort zone to meet up with some average stranger and be willing to go to bed with him lol. There needs to be prior familiarity/attraction, no girl will go out of her way to make sex happen with some random Joe. But building familiarity and connection is impossible too because most girls have an established network of people they trust and talk to, you can't just barge into their life all of a sudden.

exactly and even then she can just meet a better looking guy anyway

 

[NotoriousLoser]

just take a shower bro