why is anyone against suicide?

[lowinhibragecel]

id like to hear some thoughts

 

[Cela]

Wdym against suicide

 

[itsoverforyoubro]

It’s just selfish as no matter who u are, killing yourself will affect other people.

People are against it for the same reason they’d be against someone running away from their life and moving to another country

 

[lowinhibragecel]

why should i be a slave to other peoples disingenuous needs?

everyone in my life has someone else, at worst they will be upset for a few months

I should continue suffering and living in a state less prefferable than death because some people will "need" me every now and then?

why should i not have liberty over my own life

It’s just selfish as no matter who u are, killing yourself will affect other people.

People are against it for the same reason they’d be against someone running away from their life and moving to another country

 

[lowinhibragecel]

as in people say its not right or its selfish

Wdym against suicide

 

[itsoverforyoubro]

why should i be a slave to other peoples disingenuous needs?

everyone in my life has someone else, at worst they will be upset for a few months

I should continue suffering and living in a state less prefferable than death because some people will "need" me every now and then?

why should i not have liberty over my own life

Do whatever u want im just telling u its selfish

 

[lowinhibragecel]

Do whatever u want im just telling u its selfish

wouldn't others be more selfish for trying to discourage me from ending my suffering so they can feel virtuous

 

[itsoverforyoubro]

wouldn't others be more selfish for trying to discourage me from ending my suffering so they can feel virtuous

Yes, also true

Both parties can be selfish

 

[lowinhibragecel]

ah i really dont know man

i don't want to end it

but gradually im feeling like im running out of options

i keep waking up every morning with absolutely no hope for anything, just dread and pain

i keep telling myself things will be better

ive tried therapy or talking to family

nothing changes

Yes, also true

Both parties can be selfish

 

[Ozchyn]

id like to hear some thoughts

because most of the time
they dont know the reason to why they are feeling that way
dont know how to deal with it
they havent raised with skills to cope with certain situations in life, maybe raised too soft, or too hard
anyways

 

[lowinhibragecel]

yes that makes sense

but not everyone suicidal person is like that

of course there are people who don't take suicide seriously and the moment they face any challenge its "muh do i commit suicide"

but they aren't actually committed to thinking about whether it is the right option

some actually evaluate their situation and try as many alternatives to suicide as possible and still reach the conclusion that suicide may be the "best" choice

and you can't really blame someone for how they were raised its out of their control

because most of the time
they dont know the reason to why they are feeling that way
dont know how to deal with it
they havent raised with skills to cope with certain situations in life, maybe raised too soft, or too hard
anyways

 

[itsoverforyoubro]

ah i really dont know man

i don't want to end it

but gradually im feeling like im running out of options

i keep waking up every morning with absolutely no hope for anything, just dread and pain

i keep telling myself things will be better

ive tried therapy or talking to family

nothing changes

Ur just depressed

 

[lowinhibragecel]

no shit really

should i just become happy

Ur just depressed

 

[ceh9]

id like to hear some thoughts

the reason you're here in this world is to learn lessons you have to go through. by sabotaging you break the cycle and the process gets lost. you're going to end up in the same exact spot in the next life

 

[lowinhibragecel]

the reason you're here in this world is to learn lessons you have to go through. by sabotaging you break the cycle and the process gets lost. you're going to end up in the same exact spot in the next life

so life is just suffering and arduous learning in the delusional hope you will achieve meaning or purpose

 

[itsoverforyoubro]

no shit really

should i just become happy

Yeah

 

[ceh9]

so life is just suffering and arduous learning in the delusional hope you will achieve meaning or purpose

the whole meaning of it all is to ascend to a higher realm, the sense of it is to build yourself from the pieces that you get through these lessons to become whole.

if you take your life in the next life you'd have absolutely the same things and so on until you learn things you were supposed to

 

[lowinhibragecel]

ill consider this

the whole meaning of it all is to ascend to a higher realm, the sense of it is to build yourself from the pieces that you get through these lessons to become whole.

if you take your life in the next life you'd have absolutely the same things and so on until you learn things you were supposed to