Why Its Easier To Get Into LTR As A Guy Than Slay

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Ever wondered why average guys have LTR's... Lets deep closer.

Hypergamy means that an average girl can, or in some case will only settle with an above average guy. This does not usually happen the other way around. More broadly, women have access to higher valued men than themselves, while the reverse is generally not true. You can improve your looks as a man and maybe go from a 5 to a 7, but that just means that you'll be able to date other 7's. A 7 girl will go for 8 and 9 guys.

In My experience I've observed that women 'Sex up' and 'Date down'
While guys do the opposite. Because we are the gatekeepers of commitment. If a woman desires commitment, she is willing to forego on looks in order to achieve that.
However, if its about a casual hook-up only a hotter guy will be enough to open her legs.

how it goes usually and this distinction between short vs long term is often the source of misunderstanding between people who are arguing women are pickier on looks vs people who say men are. Women are pickier when it comes to short term (due to much more biological investment/costs) men are pickier for long terms relationships.
 
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sorry boyo thats redpill cope

Women are the gatekeepers of relationships and sex

At any time a woman can get fat/cheat/bitch nonstop/cut off sex/divorce rape and theres nothing you can do unless you are a slayer who can pull another girl as soon as she dumps you
 
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sorry boyo thats redpill cope

Women are the gatekeepers of relationships and sex

At any time a woman can get fat/cheat/bitch nonstop/cut off sex/divorce rape and theres nothing you can do unless you are a slayer who can pull another girl as soon as she dumps you
I heard some people who killed themselves after getting dumped.... and they were good looking

so theres more to that
 
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Women are pickier when it comes to short term (due to much more biological investment/costs) men are pickier for long terms relationships.
legit
 
high iq but very obv thread
 
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I heard some people who killed themselves after getting dumped.... and they were good looking

so theres more to that

That just means men FALL in love harder than woman do

Men are bred to fight, provide, and die for women and children. Without a woman ( and children, a family ), alot of men lead aimless lives
 
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Redpill propaganda bullshit. Cope of the highest cope. Foids have a huge advantage on the average male on every aspect of dating (ONS/LTR). Stop coping.
 
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At any time a woman can get fat/cheat/bitch nonstop/cut off sex/divorce rape and theres nothing you can do unless you are a slayer who can pull another girl as soon as she dumps you
except getting fat if u choose a mental ill whore than its only ur fault
 
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Redpill propaganda bullshit. Cope of the highest cope. Foids have a huge advantage on the average male on every aspect of dating (ONS/LTR). Stop coping.

Tbh I dont agree with you and I don't think what this guy is saying is cope. Men are 100% the gatekeepers of committment. I don't agree with women really "dating down", it's more fair to say that they usually end up dating their looksmatch, if you believe that average foids who end up fucking chadlites on Tinder, actually end up settling down with them, then you are crazy. There is a reason all women seem fucking obsessed with saying that "men are trash", because the chadlites and chads they fuck, they don't actually end up settling down with the women, which is what the women want, and that makes them angry, and eventually they end up settling for looksmatch since they realize that they will never be able to get the chadlites and chads for more than pump and dump.
 
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Tbh I dont agree with you and I don't think what this guy is saying is cope. Men are 100% the gatekeepers of committment. I don't agree with women really "dating down", it's more fair to say that they usually end up dating their looksmatch, if you believe that average foids who end up fucking chadlites on Tinder, actually end up settling down with them, then you are crazy. There is a reason all women seem fucking obsessed with saying that "men are trash", because the chadlites and chads they fuck, they don't actually end up settling down with the women, which is what the women want, and that makes them angry, and eventually they end up settling for looksmatch since they realize that they will never be able to get the chadlites and chads for more than pump and dump.
But still. Who gives a shit about committment. Foids have their fun in their prime and after their pussies are beat up and looking like ham they settle down at 35 with a betabux. Who needs them at that point lol. And btw a lot of beckies in LTR still cheat on their incel husbands while he's at work with chad.
 
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But still. Who gives a shit about committment. Foids have their fun in their prime and after their pussies are beat up and looking like ham they settle down at 35 with a betabux. Who needs them at that point lol. And btw a lot of beckies in LTR still cheat on their incel husbands while he's at work with chad.

Sure. I don't deny any of that, and I agree with you, but the case of what this guy said still stands, regardless if it's after they had all their fun and they are used up and they cheat or whatever. All he said was literally just that they were the gatekeepers of committment, not that they are not used up or will cheat or the guy will betabux or w/e.
 
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If a woman sacrificed on looks to get your commitment, you are 100% beta buxx and will have a low quality relationship as a result. Nobody here wants to be betabuxx, this is bluepill cope, the worst kind of cope there is.
 
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why do u keep making threads like this

ur virgin with 0 experience and 0 ltr
 
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Sure. I don't deny any of that, and I agree with you, but the case of what this guy said still stands, regardless if it's after they had all their fun and they are used up and they cheat or whatever. All he said was literally just that they were the gatekeepers of committment, not that they are not used up or will cheat or the guy will betabux or w/e.
Yeah in that particilar point it's true. But as i explained it still doesn't mean shit. Go to reddit and read about the dead bedrooms. That's what happens when foids settle down for unattractive men.
 
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Yeah in that particilar point it's true. But as i explained it still doesn't mean shit. Go to reddit and read about the dead bedrooms. That's what happens when foids settle down for unattractive men.
It is what it is og
 
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it's because women can't stand being alone, they turn into creepy cat ladies if they do and they know it. They need the confirmation/attention of having a boyfriend, they rather lower their standards for ltrs (often strs) than have no one. Which is why you often see girls hopping from one relationship to another. Always on the lookout for something better, then they get dumped and the cycle repeats itself. Some girls use it as their way of fucking with loads of guys, while still retaining their integrity
 
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If a woman sacrificed on looks to get your commitment, you are 100% beta buxx and will have a low quality relationship as a result. Nobody here wants to be betabuxx, this is bluepill cope, the worst kind of cope there is.
Yeah a becky will sleep with her beta bux the minimum time possible. Who wants that shit. Become gl or stay single and find good copes and hobbies and thailand max.
 
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But still. Who gives a shit about committment. Foids have their fun in their prime and after their pussies are beat up and looking like ham they settle down at 35 with a betabux. Who needs them at that point lol. And btw a lot of beckies in LTR still cheat on their incel husbands while he's at work with chad.
Its not situation in my way
 
Tbh I dont agree with you and I don't think what this guy is saying is cope. Men are 100% the gatekeepers of committment. I don't agree with women really "dating down", it's more fair to say that they usually end up dating their looksmatch, if you believe that average foids who end up fucking chadlites on Tinder, actually end up settling down with them, then you are crazy. There is a reason all women seem fucking obsessed with saying that "men are trash", because the chadlites and chads they fuck, they don't actually end up settling down with the women, which is what the women want, and that makes them angry, and eventually they end up settling for looksmatch since they realize that they will never be able to get the chadlites and chads for more than pump and dump.

Have you ever been outside your house bro? I see tons and tons of tallfags, gymcels, and decent looking guys dating fat/uggo chicks. On top of that average looking girls have so many guys to choose from your head would legit explode, Chad doesnt even compete

So far your logic comes down to this > 10/10 Chad doesn't commit to a 3/10 he fucked when he was drunk and horny, therefore women have trouble dating up

JUST LOL if you think you can post a picture of this girl online and not find 100s of guys willing to wait for marriage to have sex with her
 

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Have you ever been outside your house bro? I see tons and tons of tallfags, gymcels, and decent looking guys dating fat/uggo chicks. On top of that average looking girls have so many guys to choose from your head would legit explode, Chad doesnt even compete

So far your logic comes down to this > 10/10 Chad doesn't commit to a 3/10 he fucked when he was drunk and horny, therefore women have trouble dating up

JUST LOL if you think you can post a picture of this girl online and not find 100s of guys willing to wait for marriage to have sex with her

Tbh, most girls I see outside are better looking than their significant other. I dont think I ever see any uggos with psl 5.5+
 
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Tbh, most girls I see outside are better looking than their significant other. I dont think I ever see any uggos with psl 5.5+

Sounds like cope bro

You probably forgot to adjust to account for

1. The guy's height, Height is like big ass or tits on a girl

2. The girl is wearing make up, possibly giving her an extra PSL 2 or 3 points

3. You are young high T male, so your standards are very low to be sexually attracted to foids rating them higher than objective truth
 
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Sounds like cope bro

You probably forgot to adjust to account for

1. The guy's height, Height is like big ass or tits on a girl

2. The girl is wearing make up, possibly giving her an extra PSL 2 or 3 points

3. You are young high T male, so your standards are very low to be sexually attracted to foids rating them higher than objective truth

Thats true. I am ok with psl 2.5 foids
 
This site is filled with the most based and blackpilled people. (after incels.is ofc)
 
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Have you ever been outside your house bro? I see tons and tons of tallfags, gymcels, and decent looking guys dating fat/uggo chicks. On top of that average looking girls have so many guys to choose from your head would legit explode, Chad doesnt even compete

So far your logic comes down to this > 10/10 Chad doesn't commit to a 3/10 he fucked when he was drunk and horny, therefore women have trouble dating up

JUST LOL if you think you can post a picture of this girl online and not find 100s of guys willing to wait for marriage to have sex with her

There is coping, then there is this. Overreaction to everything
 
There is coping, then there is this. Overreaction to everything

You're right boyo there is no evidence an average girl can have 100s of guys lining up to compete for her approval, it's all just internet hyperbole

OH WAIT A SECOND

 
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You're right boyo there is no evidence an average girl can have 100s of guys lining up to compete for her approval, it's all just internet hyperbole

OH WAIT A SECOND



JFL at all these cucks doing pushups and running LMAOO
 
Are you ever gonna stop coping?
 
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Are you ever gonna stop coping?
no bcuz he legit low iq

i said this the first time he started posting and hes still just as dumb
 
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he will get his surgeries its just going to take him 5y to realise
I think I found a legit source for the peptides but I'll go to my doctor first to talk about it.
 
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This girl is goodlooking, avg girls dont get as much attention

She is not that good looking bro she is like dead average 5/10 at best. Chubby face, big eyes, heavily caked on makeup, Cute at best

Too many guys over inflate these chicks ratings, just like the cucks in the video hence why she has so many dudes on her. Even the cucked video refers to her as " a beautiful actress " JUST LOL

If any girl should have that many thirsty dudes chasing it should be a 10/10 girl not a 5/10, hence why so many men struggle to find a gf nowadays

This is a 10/10 for refrence btw
 

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YOU CAN GET A GF IF YOURE CUCK. MOST LTRS ARE BASED ON BETABUXING OR DUDE BEING. EMOTIONAL TAMPON. CHAD GETS ONS, CUCKS GETS LTR AND GET CUCKED
 
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YOU CAN GET A GF IF YOURE CUCK. MOST LTRS ARE BASED ON BETABUXING OR DUDE BEING. EMOTIONAL TAMPON. CHAD GETS ONS, CUCKS GETS LTR AND GET CUCKED
Ok thats nice I like that
 
Women enjoy their biggest advantages when online and looking for uncommitted sex.

The gap does narrow for women offline and looking for committed sex, but not all the way because women have less need for sex to make them happy, greater levels of emotional support and validation outside of relationships, and ability to have casual sex with men above their looks level.

With that said... women do put a great amount of value on commitment due to their biology, and because the validation they get from fucking a guy is nothing compared to the validation they get from LTRing him.

That's my theory from reading what women say to eachother online.

r/femaledatingstrategy would not exist if the female advantage in dating were as high as the female advantage in slaying.
 
Good post. Note that GOOD LOOKING guys are the gatekeepers of relationships.

Chad > Stacy when speaking LTR
 
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Women enjoy their biggest advantages when online and looking for uncommitted sex.
Theres a lot of risk in that.

I know girls and talked to my schoolmates about it and they or she said all the guys there are just really lowvalued and all they want is sex.
Good post. Note that GOOD LOOKING guys are the gatekeepers of relationships.

Chad > Stacy when speaking LTR
No... All guys including average are gatekeepers fo relationship...
Also theres no stacy or chad, its only a syptom, it also objectifies people heavily
 
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Ever wondered why average guys have LTR's... Lets deep closer.

Hypergamy means that an average girl can, or in some case will only settle with an above average guy. This does not usually happen the other way around. More broadly, women have access to higher valued men than themselves, while the reverse is generally not true. You can improve your looks as a man and maybe go from a 5 to a 7, but that just means that you'll be able to date other 7's. A 7 girl will go for 8 and 9 guys.

In My experience I've observed that women 'Sex up' and 'Date down'
While guys do the opposite. Because we are the gatekeepers of commitment. If a woman desires commitment, she is willing to forego on looks in order to achieve that.
However, if its about a casual hook-up only a hotter guy will be enough to open her legs.

how it goes usually and this distinction between short vs long term is often the source of misunderstanding between people who are arguing women are pickier on looks vs people who say men are. Women are pickier when it comes to short term (due to much more biological investment/costs) men are pickier for long terms relationships.
Bluepilled cope. Ltr or slaying women choose and average men loose. Just lol if you think non chads get laid.
 
YOU CAN GET A GF IF YOURE CUCK. MOST LTRS ARE BASED ON BETABUXING OR DUDE BEING. EMOTIONAL TAMPON. CHAD GETS ONS, CUCKS GETS LTR AND GET CUCKED
post physique
seriosly stop speaking like someone getting laid every night with different women.
 
both is easy tbh
 
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seriosly stop speaking like someone getting laid every night with different women.
yeh bro sorry you can only get a LTR if you have a dad bod it is what it is
 
Ltr, looksmatched or male slightly better is the norm.
Slaying, male is way hotter or both are gl is the norm.

Just go outside and see for yourself.
Just yesterday, i saw many young couples that were looksmatched with the guy looking average and the woman too.
I have also seen the girl mogging the guy often, but there's some bitchy controlling vibe about the woman usually.
both is easy tbh
Nope, only with ugly girls if you look normal and have good social skills or if you're gl with good social skills.
Or simply look like a model.
 
Ltr, looksmatched or male slightly better is the norm.
Slaying, male is way hotter or both are gl is the norm.

Just go outside and see for yourself.
Just yesterday, i saw many young couples that were looksmatched with the guy looking average and the woman too.
I have also seen the girl mogging the guy often, but there's some bitchy controlling vibe about the woman usually.

Nope, only with ugly girls if you look normal and have good social skills or if you're gl with good social skills.
Or simply look like a model.
Exactly, average guys ussaly get average. Its been a study about that
 
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Bluepilled cope. Ltr or slaying women choose and average men loose. Just lol if you think non chads get laid.
Lol i get sex from my gf any time i want.
I'm not chad.
Slightly above average guys can ltr easily if they have good social skills and can meet new people easily.
Ltr is way easier and accessible to the average guy unlike slaying, slaying is for elite men.
Exactly, average guys ussaly get average. Its been a study about that
And the average woman is attractive to the average man unless you've fried yourbrain with porn overuse.
 
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And the average woman is attractive to the average man unless you've fried yourbrain with porn overuse.
I ruined my brain with porn and developed insanely high standards. I date up with girls facially, but down body wise. My body is 100% better than the girls equivalent, but their faces have always been better than my male equivalent.

Above average height and low inhibness halos me a bit.
 
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