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FatmanO
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Ever wondered why average guys have LTR's... Lets deep closer.
Hypergamy means that an average girl can, or in some case will only settle with an above average guy. This does not usually happen the other way around. More broadly, women have access to higher valued men than themselves, while the reverse is generally not true. You can improve your looks as a man and maybe go from a 5 to a 7, but that just means that you'll be able to date other 7's. A 7 girl will go for 8 and 9 guys.
In My experience I've observed that women 'Sex up' and 'Date down'
While guys do the opposite. Because we are the gatekeepers of commitment. If a woman desires commitment, she is willing to forego on looks in order to achieve that.
However, if its about a casual hook-up only a hotter guy will be enough to open her legs.
how it goes usually and this distinction between short vs long term is often the source of misunderstanding between people who are arguing women are pickier on looks vs people who say men are. Women are pickier when it comes to short term (due to much more biological investment/costs) men are pickier for long terms relationships.
Hypergamy means that an average girl can, or in some case will only settle with an above average guy. This does not usually happen the other way around. More broadly, women have access to higher valued men than themselves, while the reverse is generally not true. You can improve your looks as a man and maybe go from a 5 to a 7, but that just means that you'll be able to date other 7's. A 7 girl will go for 8 and 9 guys.
In My experience I've observed that women 'Sex up' and 'Date down'
While guys do the opposite. Because we are the gatekeepers of commitment. If a woman desires commitment, she is willing to forego on looks in order to achieve that.
However, if its about a casual hook-up only a hotter guy will be enough to open her legs.
how it goes usually and this distinction between short vs long term is often the source of misunderstanding between people who are arguing women are pickier on looks vs people who say men are. Women are pickier when it comes to short term (due to much more biological investment/costs) men are pickier for long terms relationships.