Why "just be NT" is so hard for me and autists

[horsefacin]

I dont doubt NT is a major part of ascension and general social success, for autists like me its so fucking hard man. My entire life ive had autism and trouble talking to others, even to the point where I prefer online school rather than irl school even tho i have lots of good friends irl. U can fake being NT as much as you want but if ur truly autistic you will always think and prefer a certain strange way of life like me. At this point its like fuck any success from this, I just dont feel happy in this state at all

I always feel "gross" or unnatural after adopting an NT change. I cant handle change at all, any small change or movement to my routines makes me panic. Theres no amount of advice that can cure this - autistic people are born and not made and therefore the damage is irreversible

 

[sub5outsider]

nt can smell that your autistic fr you cant fake it

 

[Deleted member 29167]

nt can smell that your autistic fr you cant fake it

you can fake it pretty well though, but people will always sense that something is off unless they're autistic too.

 

[Deleted member 28904]

I dont doubt NT is a major part of ascension and general social success, for autists like me its so fucking hard man. My entire life ive had autism and trouble talking to others, even to the point where I prefer online school rather than irl school even tho i have lots of good friends irl. U can fake being NT as much as you want but if ur truly autistic you will always think and prefer a certain strange way of life like me. At this point its like fuck any success from this, I just dont feel happy in this state at all

I always feel "gross" or unnatural after adopting an NT change. I cant handle change at all, any small change or movement to my routines makes me panic. Theres no amount of advice that can cure this - autistic people are born and not made and therefore the damage is irreversible

Do you have autism or are you just another fakeist? So many people nowaday see a video on tiktok talking about the symptoms of autism and then they say "I struggle to talk to other people therefore I have autism "

 

[Orc]

I don't mask anything and no one cares.

 

[Deleted member 29167]

I don't mask anything and no one cares.

bro look at your physique. are they supposed to be rude and point it out or what?

 

[Orc]

bro look at your physique. are they supposed to talk back or what?

whenever I say dumb shit women just assume I'm simple and think it's attractive.

the key to getting away with autism is himbomaxing.

 

[Deleted member 29167]

whenever I say dumb shit women just assume I'm simple and think it's attractive.

the key to getting away with autism is himbomaxing.

what's your body count?

 

[Johanjohan]

I used to be aspie / aloof when I was depressed, but after socializing daily the past year I’ve become super extroverted

 

[Orc]

what's your body count?

lost track before I was 18.

 

[Quachil]

whenever I say dumb shit women just assume I'm simple and think it's attractive.

the key to getting away with autism is himbomaxing.

If your PFP is your actual body, then gtfo of this site, you are a fakecel regardless of what your face looks like

 

[Deleted member 29167]

lost track before I was 18.

how does that even happen if you're an autist? u said u were neanderthal yesterday

 

[Quachil]

I used to be aspie / aloof when I was depressed, but after socializing daily the past year I’ve become super extroverted

Who's the bitch in your pfp
I need to see those milk generators

 

[Deleted member 29167]

If your PFP is your actual body, then gtfo of this site, you are a fakecel regardless of what your face looks like

this site is about looksmaxxing and blackpill, not inceldom.

 

[Johanjohan]

Who's the bitch in your pfp
I need to see those milk generators

 

[Orc]

If your PFP is your actual body, then gtfo of this site, you are a fakecel regardless of what your face looks like

this isn't a site for incels, it's for people improving their appearance.

how does that even happen if you're an autist? u said u were neanderthal yesterday

women like cavemen apparently, I have a high match rate as well.

 

[midlatinocel]

lost track before I was 18.

at nigh 17 I am gunna be in your position brah

 

[Deleted member 26410]

I used to be aspie / aloof when I was depressed, but after socializing daily the past year I’ve become super extroverted

That's called social anxiety and following NT trends. I might have social anxiety or might be a coping mentalcel not sure

 

[Orc]

at nigh 17 I am gunna be in your position brah

if you're autistic as well that's more lifefuel for the forum.

 

[Deleted member 24789]

@Arborist u're not autistic, u're low inhib as hell two different things

social anxiety is being autistic

 

[midlatinocel]

if you're autistic as well that's more lifefuel for the forum.

nah I just fuck girls and make no other interactions with them and most of them assume im rainbow cuz of that

 

[Johanjohan]

That's called social anxiety and following NT trends. I might have social anxiety or might be a coping mentalcel not sure

Ye I used to have social anxiety because I was unhappy with my looks. It might be that I was extroverted all along but wasnt comfortable before.

Now after looksmaxxing and always being the most popular guy, I became much more extroverted

 

[Orc]

@Arborist u're not autist, u're low inhib as hell two different things

I'm too retarded to have any inhibition.

I've been officially diagnosed for 20+ years.

nah I just fuck girls and make no other interactions with them and most of them assume im rainbow cuz of that

I suck at maintaining relationships long term, but short term I never have any issues at all.

 

[horsefacin]

Do you have autism or are you just another fakeist? So many people nowaday see a video on tiktok talking about the symptoms of autism and then they say "I struggle to talk to other people therefore I have autism "

No medical diagnosis from jews but for sure I know those comments youre talking about and its way deeper than that. i have a thread which is a list of behaviors people have told me arent normal at all

I realise its not a dick measuring contest but recently i picked up age regression jfl. ive set all my clocks back to 2020, try to convince myself that im 13 again, only listen to and play games i did years ago, only talk to people i did years ago, only use peripherals from years ago, and am doing online school in a couple of months to imitate distance learning during covid

 

[Deleted member 26410]

Ye I used to have social anxiety because I was unhappy with my looks. It might be that I was extroverted all along but wasnt comfortable before.

Now after looksmaxxing and always being the most popular guy, I became much more extroverted

Your looks are your personality. Reason why Chads are always ESTP or ESFP and incels are INTP or INTJ. It's over.

 

[Deleted member 24789]

I'm too retarded to have any inhibition.

The fact that you can talk and fuck women proves that you are not autistic , thats all

 

[midlatinocel]

I'm too retarded to have any inhibition.

I suck at maintaining relationships long term, but short term I never have any issues at all.

yea I don't really care about keeping them long term I only have five rn and two want to be fwbs but I suck at getting gfs

 

[Johanjohan]

Your looks are your personality. Reason why Chads are always ESTP or ESFP and incels are INTP or INTJ.

I used to behave like an ISTJ when I was depressed, I was really stiff and cold like a robot

Now I get ESFP/ESFJ

 

[Orc]

The fact that you can talk and fuck women proves that you are not autistic , thats all

they diagnosed me long ago way before it became a meme.

it's not a self diagnose.

 

[Deleted member 26410]

Ye I used to have social anxiety because I was unhappy with my looks. It might be that I was extroverted all along but wasnt comfortable before.

Now after looksmaxxing and always being the most popular guy, I became much more extroverted

Lifefuel though. I used to be an NT extrovert back in elementary school but after middle school girls became more blackpilled so I became an introvert. Hopefully, this looksmaxxing thing works to turn back to my real self.

 

[horsefacin]

The fact that you can talk and fuck women proves that you are not autistic , thats all

Yeah theres a line between primal and unstoppable low inhib and the autistic and bad kind

 

[Deleted member 26410]

I used to behave like an ISTJ when I was depressed, I was really stiff and cold like a robot

Now I get ESFP/ESFJ

Was an ENFJ in my childhood. INFJ now.

 

[Deleted member 26410]

Yeah theres a line between primal and unstoppable low inhib and the autistic and bad kind

How about the routine thing? I can relate to some of the things on the spectrum, such as having a hard time making friends and being a voicecel, but I don't really have any issue with being spontaneous or the noise of a room

 

[Johanjohan]

Was an ENFJ in my childhood. INFJ now.

ENFJ or ESFJ is pronably the best personality type for socialising tbh

I am ESFP but I can be quite reckless and rude. It’s better to be friendly to everyone and inclusive so you dont step on anyone’s foot

 

[Deleted member 26410]

ENFJ or ESFJ is pronably the best personality type for socialising tbh

I am ESFP but I can be quite reckless and rude. It’s better to be friendly to everyone and inclusive so you dont step on anyone’s foot

Based. Although, you wanna strike a fine balance. For example, if you are too nice or too mature, that would be non-NT. Follow a general rule but adapt as the social situation arises

 

[tombradylover]

this isn't a site for incels, it's for people improving their appearance.

women like cavemen apparently, I have a high match rate as well.

What do you rate your face? Htn? Chad? Insane body/height so it prob doesn't matter but I'm curios.

 

[Deleted member 24789]

they diagnosed me long ago way before it became a meme.

it's not a self diagnose.

have you ever had a gf? by omitting all your APP DATING slays (that can also works if you are autistic)

 

[Orc]

have you ever had a gf? by omitting all your APP DATING slays

many but none lasted very long, few months at best.

 

[horsefacin]

How about the routine thing? I can relate to some of the things on the spectrum, such as having a hard time making friends and being a voicecel, but I don't really have any issue with being spontaneous or the noise of a room

Ofc some symptoms are more severe than others u should be able to just read in between the lines like if u suffer from the more uncommon and disabling ones as well u probably got it but if its just shyness that u can overcome then it doesnt matter

Have you ever found yourself deeply obsessed with "meaningless" things or being stuck in the past and doing shit like hoarding belongings from that period and holding them to a high sentimental value? Even though those times werent objectively significant?

 

[Deleted member 24789]

many but none lasted very long, few months at best.

Here u go

months or years doesnt matter lol

you used your tongue, which an autistic person does not do

 

[Quachil]

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Brutal nonamepill, but thanks for trying at least

 

[Orc]

What do you rate your face? Htn? Chad? Insane body/height so it prob doesn't matter but I'm curios.

some people are really into me and others are not at all, all of my features on their own are pretty good too but it's a pretty weird distinguished combination, neanderthal-esque.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

I used to be aspie / aloof when I was depressed, but after socializing daily the past year I’ve become super extroverted

Exposure therapy

 

[Quachil]

this site is about looksmaxxing and blackpill, not inceldom.

Bruh, inceldom is literally all about the blackpill
This site, as I'm seeing, is more about redpill shit and basically just normies or high tier normies trying to optimize their game (which makes sense I guess)
But if you fall below a certain cutoff, there is no game for your face or your height. You are incel by definition, past a certain point of ugliness.

 

[Deleted member 26410]

Ofc some symptoms are more severe than others u should be able to just read in between the lines like if u suffer from the more uncommon and disabling ones as well u probably got it but if its just shyness that u can overcome then it doesnt matter

Have you ever found yourself deeply obsessed with "meaningless" things or being stuck in the past and doing shit like hoarding belongings from that period and holding them to a high sentimental value? Even though those times werent objectively significant?

I like reminiscing about the past when things were better but I don't really hoard items or do anything else from that period. As for my special interests, I wouldn't say looksmaxxing or politics (formerly) would be my special interests. I look through looksmaxxing threads and Twitter threads but I still have other interests like listening to music and wouldn't say they overtake my life or are everything

 

[Deleted member 29167]

Bruh, inceldom is literally all about the blackpill
This site, as I'm seeing, is more about redpill shit and basically just normies or high tier normies trying to optimize their game (which makes sense I guess)
But if you fall below a certain cutoff, there is no game for your face or your height. You are incel by definition, past a certain point of ugliness.

aight you're retarded. you can still softmaxx through hair, style, and gym which can boost smv heavily. also surgerymaxxing and fillers exist for people who want to improve their face. i agree that after a certain point no softmaxxing or surgerymaxxing will save you, but that's honestly very rare.

this site isn't redpilled just because we talk about improving ourselves. we accept the blackpill and base our self improvement on its principles. if you just wanna rot go to incels.is

 

[horsefacin]

aight you're retarded. you can still softmaxx through hair, style, and gym which can boost smv heavily. also surgerymaxxing and fillers exist for people who want to improve their face. i agree that after a certain point no softmaxxing or surgerymaxxing will save you, but that's honestly very rare.

this site isn't redpilled just because we talk about improving ourselves. we accept the blackpill and base our self improvement on its principles. if you just wanna rot go to incels.is

Brother offtopic is .is 2

 

[Deleted member 29167]

Brother offtopic is .is 2

yeah true jfl but we aren't on offtopic

 

[Chinlet Ascension]

"NT" isn't "hard" for autists. It is, by definition, the opposite of autism.

 

[Lucid]

If your PFP is your actual body, then gtfo of this site, you are a fakecel regardless of what your face looks like

Stfu clown. This is looksmax, incels.is is legit a url away fat boy