Woman talks about how life went downhill for her after uni, and wishes she were a uni student again

[Xangsane]

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I'm (23 F) not adjusting well to life after college.

I graduated with a bachelor's degree one year ago, and have been working full-time ever since. I have an office job with an average entry-level salary, a nice supervisor, and friendly colleagues. I even have my own large office with a huge window, a luxury many people don't have.

I know I have it good and am blessed to be in such a situation, but in the back of my mind I'm always thinking: "life was better in college."

In college, I enjoyed learning new things, studying for long hours, and writing papers and such. I enjoyed being able to walk a half mile to a friends house on a weeknight. I enjoyed meeting new men. I enjoyed the schedule being broken up into blocks of time.

Now, I'm too mentally depleted after work to want to learn anything new. Now all my friends are tired after work too, and we hardly see each other. Now I am 20lbs fatter and I don't feel attractive. Now I sit in the same spot in front of a computer for 8 hours.

Work dominates my life, and I am completely disengaged by my work. I have no career ambitions. I dread waking up Sunday through Thursday, because I know I have another day of mundane, pointless work ahead of me. Life is not exciting anymore like it was in college. Just work, work, work, commute.

I think perhaps I should leave my administrative job, and find something better suited. But it doesn't matter what job I'm in, because I'll bring my spoiled attitude with me wherever I go.

I just want to go back to college.

UPDATE: Since I wrote this post, I've been going to the gym everyday. Though I haven't lost any weight yet, my energy level has improved. I also take time in the mornings before work to pray and say thank you for what I have—my family, food on the table, a safe place to live. Doing so puts things in perspective.

Thank you everyone for the kind words and for the advice.

 

[Deleted member 30942]

It doesn't if you make a lot of money

It does if you dont

 

[Xangsane]

It doesn't if you make a lot of money

It does if you dont

Just be in the 1% theory

 

[pentamogged9000]

No more young chad dick

 

[5.5psl]

She now doesn't has plethora of chads hitting her and hooking up which makes her depressed
I as a male could only imagine such life.

 

[Deleted member 30942]

Just be in the 1% theory

If you're at a top tier university you can definitely get a high paying job right out of uni

 

[Xangsane]

No more young chad dick

A lot of women like these, in @Blackgymmax 's own words, spam young professional Chads on hinge likes.

 

[Xangsane]

She now doesn't has plethora of chads hitting her and hooking up which makes her depressed
I as a male could only imagine such life.

A lot of women like these, in @Blackgymmax 's own words, spam young professional Chads on hinge likes.

She said she is now 20lbs fatter

 

[Xangsane]

If you're at a top tier university you can definitely get a high paying job right out of uni

Or working multiple remote jobs (automated and using Gpt secretly) at the same time from home.

 

[Deleted member 30942]

Or working multiple remote jobs (automated and using Gpt secretly) at the same time from home.

You can get in trouble if you get caught tho

 

[Deleted member 23115]

its over for her future husband

 

[Xangsane]

You can get in trouble if you get caught tho

Yes I know. A black guy I know did because some white woman snitched on him for not "getting involved" with office social life.

Most people I know who do this are ethnics.

 

[Xangsane]

its over for her future husband

Why

 

[Deleted member 30942]

Yes I know. A black guy I know did because some white woman snitched on him for not "getting involved" with office social life.

Most people I know who do this are ethnics.

Better to studymax and go into a high paying profession

 

[Xangsane]

Better to studymax and go into a high paying profession

Tbh some people I know who do this haven't been caught

 

[Deleted member 30942]

Tbh some people I know who do this haven't been caught

Haven't been caught yet*

 

[Xangsane]

Haven't been caught yet*

They're smart af though. Doing that is a dream

@WishIwasChico

 

[Deleted member 30942]

They're smart af though. Doing that is a dream

@WishIwasChico

What field are they working in?
Tech?

 

[Xangsane]

What field are they working in?
Tech?

Yes

 

[Acne Victim]

She now doesn't has plethora of chads hitting her and hooking up which makes her depressed
I as a male could only imagine such life.

We only value it because we don't have it tbh

 

[Deleted member 30942]

Yes

It's like the only field you can do this lol

 

[Xangsane]

It's like the only field you can do this lol

Correct.

 

[Chadeep]

Maybe guys not hitting her up is the reason for not feeling good. Many people in professional environments avoid having more than platonic relationships

 

[Krakowski]

Depends on if you have friends outside of uni and money

Maybe guys not hitting her up is the reason for not feeling good. Many people in professional environments avoid having more than platonic relationships

Can you explain I’m trash at English

 

[Krakowski]

She now doesn't has plethora of chads hitting her and hooking up which makes her depressed
I as a male could only imagine such life.

 

[Krakowski]

She shouldn’t worry TBH, women can peak at 42 if they put in the work

 

[Xangsane]

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Taking butt selfies in the gym

 

[Xangsane]

Maybe guys not hitting her up is the reason for not feeling good. Many people in professional environments avoid having more than platonic relationships

I know one white woman who snitched on a black guy I know as being possibly overemployed in tech because he "didn't get involved with social life at the office". He had 4 remote jobs (through networking with other ethnics)

 

[Humble Oligarch]

Omor.

 

[Xangsane]

Omor.

?

 

[manlet cUnt]

I enjoyed meeting new men.

whore.

 

[Sprinkles]

I know one white woman who snitched on a black guy I know as being possibly overemployed in tech because he "didn't get involved with social life at the office". He had 4 remote jobs (through networking with other ethnics)

These mfers despise introverts

 

[Xangsane]

These mfers despise introverts

exactly.

Chinese woman who earned $7M from 16 WFH tech jobs, outsourced each job, and bought a mansion gets arrested

https://www.asiaone.com/china/chinese-woman-16-jobs-never-turns-work-manages-buy-shanghai-villa?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook&fbclid=IwAR3e7dfugH-U4CZduAB0Pn82Zvh6d3is7wD_X18x8U-5X21S1TVJxwmWgpA#Echobox=1693984369...

looksmax.org

 

[Harakiri Fellatio]

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I'm (23 F) not adjusting well to life after college.

I graduated with a bachelor's degree one year ago, and have been working full-time ever since. I have an office job with an average entry-level salary, a nice supervisor, and friendly colleagues. I even have my own large office with a huge window, a luxury many people don't have.

I know I have it good and am blessed to be in such a situation, but in the back of my mind I'm always thinking: "life was better in college."

In college, I enjoyed learning new things, studying for long hours, and writing papers and such. I enjoyed being able to walk a half mile to a friends house on a weeknight. I enjoyed meeting new men. I enjoyed the schedule being broken up into blocks of time.

Now, I'm too mentally depleted after work to want to learn anything new. Now all my friends are tired after work too, and we hardly see each other. Now I am 20lbs fatter and I don't feel attractive. Now I sit in the same spot in front of a computer for 8 hours.

Work dominates my life, and I am completely disengaged by my work. I have no career ambitions. I dread waking up Sunday through Thursday, because I know I have another day of mundane, pointless work ahead of me. Life is not exciting anymore like it was in college. Just work, work, work, commute.

I think perhaps I should leave my administrative job, and find something better suited. But it doesn't matter what job I'm in, because I'll bring my spoiled attitude with me wherever I go.

I just want to go back to college.

UPDATE: Since I wrote this post, I've been going to the gym everyday. Though I haven't lost any weight yet, my energy level has improved. I also take time in the mornings before work to pray and say thank you for what I have—my family, food on the table, a safe place to live. Doing so puts things in perspective.

Thank you everyone for the kind words and for the advice.

"NO I CAN'T GET PUMPED AND DUMPED BY CHAD EVERY WEEK!" This is what I love about modern society. It encourages women to work jobs which in turn leads them to hitting the wall sooner and they have to live with the misery of being overweight and no access to chad. It makes me so happy.

 

[Xangsane]

"NO I CAN'T GET PUMPED AND DUMPED BY CHAD EVERY WEEK!" This is what I love about modern society. It encourages women to work jobs which in turn leads them to hitting the wall sooner and they have to live with the misery of being overweight and no access to chad. It makes me so happy.

 

[Xangsane]

"NO I CAN'T GET PUMPED AND DUMPED BY CHAD EVERY WEEK!" This is what I love about modern society. It encourages women to work jobs which in turn leads them to hitting the wall sooner and they have to live with the misery of being overweight and no access to chad. It makes me so happy.

Also most young women like to work from the office rather than at home (unlike older women with children).

 

[Sprinkles]

Also most young women like to work from the office rather than at home (unlike older women with children).

And then complain about interactions with men.

They are annoyed with sub chads interacting with them, and are even more annoyed when they ignore them.

That nigga who got reported to HR for not interacting with his foid coworkers and keeping things professional come to mind.

Hell, they’ll report you just for being ugly or accuse you of sexual assault and harrassment.

women should never have been given rights.

 

[Kamui]

She now doesn't has plethora of chads hitting her and hooking up which makes her depressed
I as a male could only imagine such life.

Her male looksmatch is currently loading in the shells into the double barrel shotgun he’s about to blow his brains out McNutt style with

 

[Xangsane]

And then complain about interactions with men.

They are annoyed with sub chads interacting with them, and are even more annoyed when they ignore them.

That nigga who got reported to HR for not interacting with his foid coworkers and keeping things professional come to mind.

Hell, they’ll report you just for being ugly or accuse you of sexual assault and harrassment.

women should never have been given rights.

Bear in mind he was MTN.

Why do white women target ethnic remote workers and think they're working multiple remote jobs using ChatGPT-generated code?

They are the main reason why some Western-born brown, east Asian and black remote workers get fired. Someone that my friend knows (he is British of Nigerian descent) was working three remote tech jobs at once, taking home ~£60k yearly, and got fired from two of them this month because some...

looksmax.org

 

[Xangsane]

And then complain about interactions with men.

They are annoyed with sub chads interacting with them, and are even more annoyed when they ignore them.

That nigga who got reported to HR for not interacting with his foid coworkers and keeping things professional come to mind.

Hell, they’ll report you just for being ugly or accuse you of sexual assault and harrassment.

women should never have been given rights.

Why do white women try so desperately hard to bring back university dynamics to work?

 

[JohnDoe]

Foid realizes human beings aren't meant to sit for 8h a day "working". It's unnatural, we're social creatures who should spend our time socializing or hunting food. Working is a trap, unless you absolutely have to work to put food on the table, don't bother.

 

[Xangsane]

Foid realizes human beings aren't meant to sit for 8h a day "working". It's unnatural, we're social creatures who should spend our time socializing or hunting food. Working is a trap, unless you absolutely have to work to put food on the table, don't bother.

Also most young women like to work from the office rather than at home (unlike older women with children).

 

[JohnDoe]

This is what the foid should be doing, barefoot and pregnant at home.

 

[Xangsane]

This is what the foid should be doing, barefoot and pregnant at home.

I'm all for driven women who want to excel in their careers

 

[JohnDoe]

I'm all for driven women who want to excel in their careers

No that's not their role.

 

[Xangsane]

No that's not their role.

I'm supportive of them doing this

 

[MoggerGaston]

I'm supportive of them doing this

Women never contribute when they work.

They are literally carried by their gender and the sexism that comes from it. It's fucking disgusting.


So many companies that I was interested in working at, have 90%+ male employees. Not much different than my 95% male physics studies. Completely normal and expected.

But due to government sexism, companies are now FORCED to hire at least 30% women in the top-tier positions in the company. Despite 90% of people in the sector being male, such as PHYSICS.

HOW DOES THIS HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH EQUALITY YOU ANTI-MALE HATING FUCKS?

I hate society, I hate government, I hate the police, I hate everything. I want worldwar3 and see this retarded world burn to the ground.

 

[Xangsane]

Women never contribute when they work.

They are literally carried by their gender and the sexism that comes from it. It's fucking disgusting.


So many companies that I was interested in working at, have 90%+ male employees. Not much different than my 95% male physics studies. Completely normal and expected.

But due to government sexism, companies are now FORCED to hire at least 30% women in the top-tier positions in the company. Despite 90% of people in the sector being male, such as PHYSICS.

HOW DOES THIS HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH EQUALITY YOU ANTI-MALE HATING FUCKS?

I hate society, I hate government, I hate the police, I hate everything. I want worldwar3 and see this retarded world burn to the ground.

A white woman got my friend's friend (black) fired for holding 4 remote jobs (despite keeping them all a secret) because he didn't want to socialise with the coworkers

 

[MoggerGaston]

A white woman got my friend's friend (black) fired for holding 4 remote jobs (despite keeping them all a secret) because he didn't want to socialise with the coworkers

I hate women

 

[Xangsane]

I hate women

You hate your mother who gave birth to you?