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EckhartTollemaxx
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I have talked with my long term gf about me obsessing over analyzing looks and facial structure and i have talked to her about her choosing me because of looks and she completely denied it, told me she didn't even look at my features when meeting me for the first time and saying she's just attracted to my personality. She rejected loads of men before me because she has unrealistic standards which i just happened to perfectly meet.
She also calls me cute and compliments my looks everyday and tells me i look good when we have sex and gets crazy about me when ovulating.
I've lost weight and she definitely compliments me more than before but tells me looks doesn't matter and thinks it's scary i'm getting leaner, she's probably scared about me potentially attracting other women by improving my looks.
The dissonance between what bluepilled people say and what women really choose is ridiculous.
I had a gay man (short and muscular with chad-tier face) tell me once a female friend of his wanted to have sex with him immediately after seeing him before talking anything and being disappointed when she realized he was gay after he talked with his clearly gay voice and knowing they won't have sex.
Women tend to talk with each other about guys looks but don't tell men about it when asked, claiming you're not their type or some shit like that.
I once approached a group of girls outside with my friends in the dark when drinking and the first thing they ask is if any of us is good looking.
I also know a guy who is unemployed, living with his parents, abusing drugs but with a really good face who fucks a new girl every week.
I think he has good social skills though, i wonder how big of a part it really plays in the process. 20%?
She also calls me cute and compliments my looks everyday and tells me i look good when we have sex and gets crazy about me when ovulating.
I've lost weight and she definitely compliments me more than before but tells me looks doesn't matter and thinks it's scary i'm getting leaner, she's probably scared about me potentially attracting other women by improving my looks.
The dissonance between what bluepilled people say and what women really choose is ridiculous.
I had a gay man (short and muscular with chad-tier face) tell me once a female friend of his wanted to have sex with him immediately after seeing him before talking anything and being disappointed when she realized he was gay after he talked with his clearly gay voice and knowing they won't have sex.
Women tend to talk with each other about guys looks but don't tell men about it when asked, claiming you're not their type or some shit like that.
I once approached a group of girls outside with my friends in the dark when drinking and the first thing they ask is if any of us is good looking.
I also know a guy who is unemployed, living with his parents, abusing drugs but with a really good face who fucks a new girl every week.
I think he has good social skills though, i wonder how big of a part it really plays in the process. 20%?