would u rather ur romantic partner be better or worse looking than u

[jc0]

less attractive romantic partner means u will have security since ur the "desired" one and shell be attracted to u (she'll chase u)

if shes better looking shes the desired one. itll be more satisfying for u to look at a hot partner but theres less security.

does it change w longterm vs shorterm?

 

[Littlepickel2]

less attractive romantic partner means u will have security since ur the "desired" one and shell be attracted to u (she'll chase u)

if shes better looking shes the desired one. itll be more satisfying for u to look at a hot partner but theres less security.

does it change w longterm vs shorterm?

I, in all honesty, don't really experience romance, but I think from an outside perspective, a less attractive partner would be better. Some people need a sense of security in their happy place (partner); it makes sense to want to look better than your partner. I also think that if you are better looking than your partner, your partner will be more subconsciously grateful towards you and will probably experience a much stronger amount of attraction to you.

 

[Saint ER]

less attractive romantic partner means u will have security since ur the "desired" one and shell be attracted to u (she'll chase u)

if shes better looking shes the desired one. itll be more satisfying for u to look at a hot partner but theres less security.

does it change w longterm vs shorterm?

why not just work on your fragile self esteem?

 

[americanpakitruvcel]

I’d prefer to be slightly more attractive

 

[emire]

I would want to be more attractive but without a huge difference

 

[5.5psl]

Better why would anyone want worse

 

[Androgynous]

Better why would anyone want worse

So the spotlight is on you, and you get away with more shit in the relationship.