Discussion Would you be okay with your girlfriend finding other men attractive?

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like ofc i dont want her drooling over guys and watchin tt edits of them while imagining their intercourse but just finding them attractive, how tf am i supposed to stop her thinking that brad pitt is attractive when I myself think he hot as shit
 
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Listen, It's in their nature to find other men attractive, we are all humans after all and we all have our own types, but that doesn't mean she has to tell you that every guy she sees is attractive to her, she must keep it to herself and even if other guys are attractive to her she has her free will to chose you over all of them, just don't be insecure about it, it's not okay that she will find them attractive but not you neither her can choose who is attractive to her but she CAN choose you over all of the others. Hope this helped, coming from a guy that's in a relationship for 2 years and 4 months.
 
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she shouldnt even be thinking that way

first i would tell her honey when you have me at your side why even bother pondering about these other men?

she would then cook up some random female automated AI chatgpt crypto scheme memecoin dexscreener mrbewasf response like “OH NO YOU SEE UHH HEHH”

afterwards i would then ask what does he have that i dont? youre grinding my gears here wife

then i woildnt waste no time bitch slapping her and leave going on a joy ride
 
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Listen, It's in their nature to find other men attractive, we are all humans after all and we all have our own types, but that doesn't mean she has to tell you that every guy she sees is attractive to her, she must keep it to herself and even if other guys are attractive to her she has her free will to chose you over all of them, just don't be insecure about it, it's not okay that she will find them attractive but not you neither her can choose who is attractive to her but she CAN choose you over all of the others. Hope this helped, coming from a guy that's in a relationship for 2 years and 4 months.
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she shouldnt even be thinking that way

first i would tell her honey when you have me at your side why even bother pondering about these other men?

she would then cook up some random female automated AI chatgpt crypto scheme memecoin dexscreener mrbewasf response like “OH NO YOU SEE UHH HEHH”

afterwards i would then ask what does he have that i dont? youre grinding my gears here wife

then i woildnt waste no time bitch slapping her and leave going on a joy ride
Exactly, why do you even need to think about other men if you love me?
 
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Impossible to fully control sexual desire unless you chemically castrate
Ofc i understand it's human nature, we're controlled by our hormones, lust and desire are very powerful but we can limit such things by not just freely and openly staring at the opposite sex. Also if both the husband and wifes sexual needs are met, we are less inclined to bother looking at the opposite sex, aka post-nut you don't care about looking at other women.
 
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Also if both the husband and wifes sexual needs are met, we are less inclined to bother looking at the opposite sex, aka post-nut you don't care about looking at other women.
Less inclined but will still happen

The way you act on urges is more important
 
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Ofc i understand it's human nature, we're controlled by our hormones, lust and desire are very powerful but we can limit such things by not just freely and openly staring at the opposite sex. Also if both the husband and wifes sexual needs are met, we are less inclined to bother looking at the opposite sex, aka post-nut you don't care about looking at other women.
Thats no way to live tbh
If u cant control yourself to the point you have to blind yourself u shouldnt even be in a relationship
 
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Exactly, why do you even need to think about other men if you love me?
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speaking of facts fun fact im stickign mythumb thruinout myasshole rn since ive heard the feeling u get out of it satisyfying as a fuck
 
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Nobody said blind yourself but you are disrespecting your wife by openly just staring at some foids ass when she walks by, you need to practice some level of self-control/restraint.
I agree but isnt blinding yourself avoiding the actual problem
 
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Her finding other guys attractive won't matter if I look better, likewise there are going to be girls that I think are attractive
 

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