wtf is my issue

[proximaspilled]

i don't want to hate on my friends at all, but this is just an objective analysis. i'm better looking than the dudes i hang around(again, not meant to put them down in any way), and i'm also the tallest/have the best physique in my group. however, whenever we approach girls to talk to them in public, they're so confident and it seems so easy for them. i always stand around in the back and can't find a way to keep the conversation going. i'm so awkward around girls and i can't find a way to be confident without being embarrassed of myself or scared of rejection. i hate the way that i just have to laugh awkwardly and stay quiet while they get all the attention. why am i like this, and is there anything i can do to fix it? i'm so scared and i have no idea what to do at this point

 

[PSL_Ascend]

Let them approach you.

 

[FarhanHere]

Never be afraid if you know you got no game

 

[myoglobin]

Let them approach you.

only happens if youre htn+

 

[WonkyChin186]

You need a short girl

take them

 

[Vyvanese]

i don't want to hate on my friends at all, but this is just an objective analysis. i'm better looking than the dudes i hang around(again, not meant to put them down in any way), and i'm also the tallest/have the best physique in my group. however, whenever we approach girls to talk to them in public, they're so confident and it seems so easy for them. i always stand around in the back and can't find a way to keep the conversation going. i'm so awkward around girls and i can't find a way to be confident without being embarrassed of myself or scared of rejection. i hate the way that i just have to laugh awkwardly and stay quiet while they get all the attention. why am i like this, and is there anything i can do to fix it? i'm so scared and i have no idea what to do at this point

pregabalin!!!!

 

[Ascensionbegger]

read the sex pill guide

 

[proximaspilled]

only happens if youre htn+

i'm mtn so this is never happening

 

[htnframemax]

i don't want to hate on my friends at all, but this is just an objective analysis. i'm better looking than the dudes i hang around(again, not meant to put them down in any way), and i'm also the tallest/have the best physique in my group. however, whenever we approach girls to talk to them in public, they're so confident and it seems so easy for them. i always stand around in the back and can't find a way to keep the conversation going. i'm so awkward around girls and i can't find a way to be confident without being embarrassed of myself or scared of rejection. i hate the way that i just have to laugh awkwardly and stay quiet while they get all the attention. why am i like this, and is there anything i can do to fix it? i'm so scared and i have no idea what to do at this point

Low inhib pill is brutal, also you prolly don't mog as hard as you think

 

[proximaspilled]

Low inhib pill is brutal, also you prolly don't mog as hard as you think

i'm only mtn but it's a lil bit above my friends, it's a tiny bit noticeable but not enough to make a huge difference. but they're extremely low inhib compared to me so i just always get the short end of the stick in those kinds of encounters

 

[proxxyy11]

ask them to teach you, they're ur friends anyways

and ask them to wingman, you just have no game/personality (which, unlike many people say, is very important if you don't look like chico)

don't be afraid to say where your flaws are

 

[proximaspilled]

ask them to teach you, they're ur friends anyways

and ask them to wingman, you just have no game/personality (which, unlike many people say, is very important if you don't look like chico)

don't be afraid to say where your flaws are

i've tried to ask them. all they say is "just go talk to her" and "it should be easy you look good", but that doesn't actually help. i'm only mtn so i'm nowhere close to any actual mogger status, just above average. they think it should be so simple and easy for me just bc i look slightly better, but i can't help being terrified of talking to girls. i hate the fact that i'm so scared i just want to be confident but it's so hard idk what to do

 

[proximaspilled]

You need a short girl

take them

i'm 5'10.5 i don't want to go for a 5'2 girl and potentially destroy my son's life

 

[proximaspilled]

read the sex pill guide

can u link it here?

 

[proxxyy11]

i've tried to ask them. all they say is "just go talk to her" and "it should be easy you look good", but that doesn't actually help. i'm only mtn so i'm nowhere close to any actual mogger status, just above average. they think it should be so simple and easy for me just bc i look slightly better, but i can't help being terrified of talking to girls. i hate the fact that i'm so scared i just want to be confident but it's so hard idk what to do

nigga are u just not close with your "friends" at all?

just say that advice is dogshit n for them to deadass help you out + wingman you

are you afraid of talking back to your friends?

 

[proxxyy11]

can u link it here?

best guide for socialmaxxing with girls is Zherka's Date IQ course. There are leaked videos, pretty sure they're on rumble, but they are extremely fucking helpful.

Watch some of Zherka's shit on youtube as well, if you really wajnt to social interaction maxx, but it's mainly just practice (no this isn't cope, practice is obviously the best thing)

I used to go to the malls with my mogger friends and practice cold approaching every bitch i saw. I was comfortable since I was with them and I just slowly built up my confidence over time to the point where I didn't need them

 

[proximaspilled]

nigga are u just not close with your "friends" at all?

just say that advice is dogshit n for them to deadass help you out + wingman you

are you afraid of talking back to your friends?

it's not like that, objectively they're pretty right that i should be decent looking enough to be confident and get girls and all i need is practice. they try to wingman for me but it sometimes doesn't go well bc i'm so nervous. every time i try to talk to a girl, i'll have short bursts of convo and then just awkward silence while i try to think of something to say. it's not necessarily that their advice is bad, the issue is on me.

 

[lookingforadvicecel]

You just need to stop being in your head

 

[proxxyy11]

it's not like that, objectively they're pretty right that i should be decent looking enough to be confident and get girls and all i need is practice. they try to wingman for me but it sometimes doesn't go well bc i'm so nervous. every time i try to talk to a girl, i'll have short bursts of convo and then just awkward silence while i try to think of something to say. it's not necessarily that their advice is bad, the issue is on me.

idk how to explain this without sounding retarded

but maybe they take the wingmanning too serious? do they isolate themselves from you and the girl quickly where you're alone?

if so they shouldn't do that. you guys should always be together, and stop making it seem so serious. it should be fun at the end of the day, finding girls, talking to them, etc.

you're supposed to troll with the bitches and that's how u break the barrier, you can't do so when they treat it like a fucking mission

What i wrote might sound retarded but i'm trying to help the best that I can (based on my own personal experiences, how I got pussy, and what I did exactly with my friends)

 

[proximaspilled]

but maybe they take the wingmanning too serious? do they isolate themselves from you and the girl quickly where you're alone?

yeah that's actually a good way to put it, it makes me feel like i just get dropped in the deep end ykwim? one of my jester hbs always clutches by saying some corny/embarrassing shit to shift the attention to him when things get awkward, and i really appreciate that, but sometimes they just back away to let me work my magic ig. sometimes it goes well(this pattern started a few very short term relationships for me), but sometimes just went wrong

you're supposed to troll with the bitches and that's how u break the barrier, you can't do so when they treat it like a fucking mission

you right, i want to stop taking it so serious but i'm nervous asf. being an ugly fat short pos in childhood doesn't do you any favors when talking to girls ig

What i wrote might sound retarded but i'm trying to help the best that I can (based on my own personal experiences, how I got pussy, and what I did exactly with my friends)

dw bro, thanks for all the help i'll definitely use this advice

 

[metalhitter]

i feel like you may have a self loathing problem and ur insecure but also narcissistic asf

 

[proximaspilled]

i feel like you may have a self loathing problem and ur insecure but also narcissistic asf

i try my best to not be narcissistic, i'm giving my most objective and unbiased review of my situation with my friends as possible and i really don't want it to come off as putting them down, bc i love them and i alr felt like an asshole making this post. i'm very insecure for sure tho

 

[metalhitter]

I’m saying narcissistic as in looking at yourself in the mirror too much. You might also want to stop putting girls in a pedestal bc to me it sound like you’re they’re bitch. Really look into that self loathing part. No hard feelings.

 

[ts brutal]

i don't want to hate on my friends at all, but this is just an objective analysis. i'm better looking than the dudes i hang around(again, not meant to put them down in any way), and i'm also the tallest/have the best physique in my group. however, whenever we approach girls to talk to them in public, they're so confident and it seems so easy for them. i always stand around in the back and can't find a way to keep the conversation going. i'm so awkward around girls and i can't find a way to be confident without being embarrassed of myself or scared of rejection. i hate the way that i just have to laugh awkwardly and stay quiet while they get all the attention. why am i like this, and is there anything i can do to fix it? i'm so scared and i have no idea what to do at this point

probably either have slight autism or a past that hindered your ability to socialize (like me). nothing you cant fix just start small and try forcing urselves into situations u have to socialize like sports because ur probably still pretty young

 

[proximaspilled]

probably either have slight autism or a past that hindered your ability to socialize (like me). nothing you cant fix just start small and try forcing urselves into situations u have to socialize like sports because ur probably still pretty young

i was tested and i have adhd, but i definitely don't have autism. it's most likely because i was fat short and ugly for most of my life so i was too scared to approach girls. interestingly enough, multiple girls were interested in me first in middle school(i have no idea why i had literally zero redeeming qualities), but after i started looking good in hs it didn't really happen

 

[proximaspilled]

I’m saying narcissistic as in looking at yourself in the mirror too much. You might also want to stop putting girls in a pedestal bc to me it sound like you’re they’re bitch. Really look into that self loathing part. No hard feelings.

ok, thanks

 

[Marksbubba]

yeah that's actually a good way to put it, it makes me feel like i just get dropped in the deep end ykwim? one of my jester hbs always clutches by saying some corny/embarrassing shit to shift the attention to him when things get awkward, and i really appreciate that, but sometimes they just back away to let me work my magic ig. sometimes it goes well(this pattern started a few very short term relationships for me), but sometimes just went wrong



you right, i want to stop taking it so serious but i'm nervous asf. being an ugly fat short pos in childhood doesn't do you any favors when talking to girls ig

dw bro, thanks for all the help i'll definitely use this advice

canon event bro i was prob sub 5 in freshman year now im mtn the past has destroyed my social life and im trying to rebuild till now. So I understand where youre coming from; my advice shoot from dms, helps build confidence then slowly transition that person on text to irl.

 

[proximaspilled]

canon event bro i was prob sub 5 in freshman year now im mtn the past has destroyed my social life and im trying to rebuild till now. So I understand where youre coming from; my advice shoot from dms, helps build confidence then slowly transition that person on text to irl.

dude i wish but my ig got banned for no reason and i'm forced to use my computer for ig so i can't really post stories and highlights like that

 

[atomstetic]

There are pharmaceuticals that fix that

If your issue is that deep or stems from something else, get a therapist

 

[GODFATHER_0]

i don't want to hate on my friends at all, but this is just an objective analysis. i'm better looking than the dudes i hang around(again, not meant to put them down in any way), and i'm also the tallest/have the best physique in my group. however, whenever we approach girls to talk to them in public, they're so confident and it seems so easy for them. i always stand around in the back and can't find a way to keep the conversation going. i'm so awkward around girls and i can't find a way to be confident without being embarrassed of myself or scared of rejection. i hate the way that i just have to laugh awkwardly and stay quiet while they get all the attention. why am i like this, and is there anything i can do to fix it? i'm so scared and i have no idea what to do at this point