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Deleted member 2607
Zephir
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The amount of self loathing and geo centrism it takes to be a serious member of this site is very high.
I think I have discovered that I can not be truly happy and accepting of myself, looks or otherwise, unless I feel like I contribute to the well being of others.
Everyone should be trying to serve others in some way, like Vargas said. We should strive to make a stranger laugh, we should leap at the opportunity to hold a door or do a favor, without expectation of anything in return.
The more you stare and frown at the mirror, the more you fixate on the unfairness of it all, the more you selfishly claw for power and control and attention, the more unhappy you will eventually be.
I'm not saying give up looksmaxx. I'm saying stop obsessing. Learn to smile, learn to give thanks for what you have instead of prodding for things you don't. Learn to be content WHILE self improving, not as a result of it.
Sincerely, a guy who has found happiness
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I think I have discovered that I can not be truly happy and accepting of myself, looks or otherwise, unless I feel like I contribute to the well being of others.
Everyone should be trying to serve others in some way, like Vargas said. We should strive to make a stranger laugh, we should leap at the opportunity to hold a door or do a favor, without expectation of anything in return.
The more you stare and frown at the mirror, the more you fixate on the unfairness of it all, the more you selfishly claw for power and control and attention, the more unhappy you will eventually be.
I'm not saying give up looksmaxx. I'm saying stop obsessing. Learn to smile, learn to give thanks for what you have instead of prodding for things you don't. Learn to be content WHILE self improving, not as a result of it.
Sincerely, a guy who has found happiness