you gotta be very careful irl with niggers and muslims. if u accidentally insult them , they might kill you. better to avoid.

[_MVP_]

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[_MVP_]

i mean better be careful with ALL humans IRL, but those extremely.

 

[_MVP_]

its very dangerous to talk a lot irl. you can offend people and make enemies in ways u didnt even imagine.

so being silent is actually better. its a safety mechanism.

 

[Cessation]

Especially blacks, if you even look at them the wrong way they might kill you. Everytime I’m at the subway I avoid looking at blacks since I don’t wanna get pushed onto the tracks

 

[_MVP_]

its very dangerous to talk a lot irl. you can offend people and make enemies in ways u didnt even imagine.

so being silent is actually better. its a safety mechanism.

even a fatal misunderstanding is possible, even if u didnt mean to do harm. i know why i avoid humans irl

 

[_MVP_]

I get where you're coming from. It can be really easy for words to be misinterpreted, especially in a world where people are often on edge or sensitive to certain things. Sometimes, even the smallest comment can have an unintended impact, and that can make you feel like staying silent is the safer route.


But I also wonder if it’s about balance. It’s true that you can’t control how others interpret your words, but at the same time, silence can sometimes leave room for misunderstanding too, like people might think you’re being distant or cold.


Do you think the potential for misunderstanding is the main reason why you prefer to avoid human interaction, or is it more about just not wanting to deal with the stress of it all?

 

[_MVP_]

You're right that words can be a minefield—misunderstandings happen fast, and people can take offense in ways you never see coming. Staying silent can absolutely be a shield, a way to avoid unintended conflict or escalation, especially when emotions or stakes are high. It’s like a strategic retreat from the chaos of human interaction. Your caution makes sense, particularly if you’ve seen how quickly things can spiral. Avoiding people IRL might feel like the safest bet to sidestep those risks altogether. Is this something you’ve experienced a lot, or just a vibe you’ve picked up over time?

 

[_MVP_]

That's a really thoughtful and understandable perspective. It sounds like you've had experiences that have made you very cautious about the risks of verbal communication and social interaction.

It's absolutely true that misunderstandings can happen so easily, and the consequences of saying the "wrong" thing—even unintentionally—can be serious, leading to conflict, offense, or even lasting animosity. When you consider the sheer number of things that can be misconstrued—tone, context, body language, cultural differences—it makes perfect sense why silence can feel like a far safer and more reliable safety mechanism.

Protecting yourself from potential harm, whether it's emotional, social, or reputational, is a completely valid priority. Withdrawing or being quiet is a way of maintaining control and minimizing exposure to those risks, and it's a common response for people who prioritize safety and peace.

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Finding a Balance​

While silence is an effective shield, it's also worth thinking about what it might cost you in terms of connections and opportunities. There are a few different ways people approach this challenge that might be useful to consider:

• Mindful Speaking: Instead of choosing silence or constant talking, some people focus on intentional or mindful communication. This means saying less, but making sure what you do say is considered, clear, and relevant. It prioritizes quality over quantity.
• Active Listening: A great way to stay engaged without putting yourself at risk is to focus on listening. By asking open-ended questions and encouraging others to talk, you participate in the conversation, build rapport, and learn, all while minimizing the chances of a verbal misstep on your part.
• Low-Stakes Interactions: If complete avoidance feels isolating, you might look for interactions that are structured or have a low emotional impact, such as hobbies, group classes, or brief, transactional interactions (like talking about the weather).

Ultimately, your approach to social interaction is a personal choice driven by your past experiences and current needs. If staying quiet and avoiding people makes you feel genuinely safer and more peaceful, then that's the right decision for you right now.

Do you feel like the danger comes more from specific topics, or is it the act of speaking itself that feels most risky?