You guys need to stop worrying about your looks

[Arceus300]

Ok, i know what you’re thinking: Arceus stop your cope thread. But guys give me a chance to explain something to you, it will be very useful for everyone. I will start with a story, my bf he’s non muscular manlet with honnestly average face(nothing handsome) he’s not very masculine too. He’s slays almost as I slay, he fucked more than 20 girls and he’s 19. The girls he fucked are between 5 and 7 on a 10 scale. How? He’s very nt and charismatic, but charisma isn’t genetic you all can develop it. Now speak about real things, my case. I’m gl that’s a fact, and I got jb appeal that’s another fact. Okay, but that’s not only about looks. I appeal also non jb girls, although I don’t look very dom or masculine, why? It’s about your attitude. The way of speaking, I got a masculine attitude. @dogtown thats for u, you have on of the best eye area of the forum, but one of the ugliest sig, why? Cause you’re totaly autistic and got an aspie stare. The eyes are the reflect of our state of mind. Learn how to express emotion through your eyes and look people with an appropriate look > top tier eye area, but aspie. Dogtown for your age you’re gl, you should stop looksmax and started ntmax, if you’re rejected it’s not cause your look, look around you how many subhuman have friends and gf? Many. It’s the case of a big part of the forum, if you’re a 5/10 or a 6/10 stop lookmax and go slay but before try to be nt. Charisma, charm isn’t a cope, it’s sometimes more powerful than look. I will finish this thread with a video of me speaking in front of a camera to see what I mean by all this shit.


https://streamable.com/48zhb
See, how my gracile pretty face is forgotten your behavior is a big part of how people perceived you. Looks 60%, 40% the other things bodylangage, faciale expression voices etc.

It will be with great pleasure that I will debate with you guys if someone doesn’t agree with me. But try to avoid trolling or aggressive behavior.

 

[androidcel]

PSL disproved lmao

 

[dogtown]

Tbh is not that bad of thread
I respect what your saying ngl

 

[Hebbe wem]

Charisma is genetic. And big part of it

 

[future chadlite]

you cant convince incels @Arceus300 , everything you said is right,

 

[AntiSocial-Fakecel]

[Blue-pill]

 

[TeaGuy]

Who the fuck talks with a cigarette in his mouth?
btw good thread

 

[Autist]

PSL disproved lmao

SHUT IT DOWN

 

[RIPPED IRL]

Any charismaxing guide ?

 

[elfmaxx]

I try but my mum always reminds me that I am ugly lol.

 

[Arceus300]

Charisma is genetic. And big part of it

Not that’s not I all my life was an introverted person, invisible with no charisma. I decided to change that learn about body language way of speaking and i suddenly improve my self and became nt. If you were rejected all your life of course you will be a non charismatic dude. Socialise and know how to convince people is something that you can learn. I have the chance of being very high iq, when something interested me I learn very fast, I totaly change myself in 1 year. I personnaly started to be confident at the age of 15 when i first get laid and then I became more confident but I was a bit autistic at the age of 16 i started to ntmax and charisma max.

Any charismaxing guide ?

I can do it bro no problem, i personnaly find a way to charisma max, so yeah maybe tomorrow i will write a thread

 

[Deleted member 611]

You are an idiot

 

[badromance]

everyone knows that,becoming nt is hard suddenly

 

[Arceus300]

I try but my mum always reminds me that I am ugly lol.

That’s the fact if you’re depressed and don’t have confidence you will never asscend socialy. Everyone has the potential to became charismatic it’s just not easy

you cant convince incels @Arceus300 , everything you said is right,

I will try cause honnestly many people of this looking are gl enough to slay if they are nt

 

[future chadlite]

I suggest that everyone here takes kickboxing or boxing, biggest game changer ever, you're always in a relaxed state when you know you can fight everyone in the room and win.
and foids can see that in your body language,

 

[Arceus300]

Think about chad, why are they so successful in life? Only cause looks? No everyone since they born told them that they are handsome and they just built an extreme self confidence. What stop you to go and trying to laugh and have a good time or to tell an interesting story to people? Your looks, you’re to worried about your look, not comfortable and people feel it you can dissimulate it. Think about your experience how many not good looking guy or average looking guy get laid and have many friends in ur circle/high school? Many, that’s not about their face. I will push the thing further, someone ugly can make people forgot his ugliness by his charisma, the fact that there is not many people charismatic that they are ugly, cause automatically they will be insecure

 

[dodt]

The guy is legit mentally ill, after this thread I believe that tbh

 

[vodka]

Do a charismamaxx thread pleaseeee

 

[Deleted member 611]

The guy is legit mentally ill, after this thread I believe that tbh

 

[Arceus300]

Look at this video, without your lookism shit in your head, just watch it like a normal person? What do you see? I see an extremely charismatic person extremely likable and very charmant with high sex appeal, hovewer he looks like shit. Think about it, he’s serge Gainsbourg and he fucked the prettiest chicks in France, not cause money or statut. Cause most of the chicks were famous than him and richer

Tbh is not that bad of thread
I respect what your saying ngl

I appreciate it bro, for real you need to stop looksmax, you maybe mog 85% of the boy at your age tbh, start ntmax, just an advice

The guy is legit mentally ill, after this thread I believe that tbh

You just get blackpilled not my fault

 

[Deleted member 470]

SHUT IT DOWN

 

[Deleted member 701]

.

I agree with what you're saying, but i also think you're taking this forum a little too serious. About 1/4of the stuff posted here is actually serious

 

[Phad]

I agree with what you're saying, but i also think you're taking this forum a little too serious. About 1/4of the stuff posted here is actually serious

?couldn’t agree more. 95% are average and just are lazy

 

[Deleted member 281]

Arceus stop your cope thread

 

[dodt]

You just get blackpilled not my fault

You are only coping cuz you are insecure lil autistic bitch crying about when someone even attempts to disregard your looks by half a psl point
You obv dont have that confidence or NT good personality independent of your looks and validation level so that you start spreading shit here.

 

[future chadlite]

Sounds like Hassan II eventhough kinda ugly, girls still wanna be around him, even HIGHER status girls

 

[Arceus300]

You are only coping cuz you are insecure lil autistic bitch crying about when someone even attempts to disregard your looks by half a psl point
You obv dont have that confidence or NT good personality independent of your looks and validation level so that you start spreading shit here.

Im just trying to help so guys here but nevermind

 

[Phad]

Your biting your own tail with these threads my friend

 

[dodt]

Im just trying to help so guys here but nevermind

Dont worry, people who are somewhat GL or ascended and did not rope will eventually find a way out of "low self esteem and autism" by reinforecement cycles of validation and their own will. Thats not applicable to you though.

 

[Deleted member 611]

Your biting your own tail with these threads my friend

OP is a furry? I knew it

 

[Deleted member 176]

It’s 2019 and people are still falling for the confidence meme. JFL

 

[Nibba]

So basically u stole everything I told u yesterday and posted it? Lol

 

[Lorsss]

Charisma is genetic. And big part of it

yes but you can improve it.
until 17 I was completely autistic and I was literally afraid of having social interactions with other guys.
at 18 I started to build a decent social life and to lose inhibition.
at 19 I tried to flirt with a girl explicitly for the first time in my life, I continued to try and finally at 20 I got engaged for the first time.

It’s 2019 and people are still falling for the confidence meme. JFL

it's not about confidence.
low inhibition and degeneracy are essential to get laid

 

[Hebbe wem]

yes but you can improve it.
until 17 I was completely autistic and I was literally afraid of having social interactions with other guys.
at 18 I started to build a decent social life and to lose inhibition.
at 19 I tried to flirt with a girl explicitly for the first time in my life, I continued to try and finally at 20 I got engaged for the first time.

it's not about confidence.
low inhibition and degeneracy are essential to get laid

Yeah you can improve it i never denied it. I wrote it because areus wrote charisma isent genetic

 

[Arceus300]

So basically u stole everything I told u yesterday and posted it? Lol

Wtf? When did you told me that ?

 

[sorrowfulsad]

I can do it bro no problem, i personnaly find a way to charisma max, so yeah maybe tomorrow i will write a thread

Im curious to see what you come up with

 

[Arceus300]

Yeah you can improve it i never denied it. I wrote it because areus wrote charisma isent genetic

It isn’t everyone can be charismatic

Im curious to see what you come up with

Cupcake

 

[Deleted member 281]

This retarded thread needs deleting, tbh. @11gaijin

 

[Phad]

OP is a furry? I knew it

Kekekeke u made laugh. Nice

 

[Hebbe wem]

It isn’t everyone can be charismatic


Cupcake

And no everyone cant be charidmatic .

 

[HorseFace]

everyone knows that,becoming nt is hard suddenly

Yes but you know its possible. You can't change your personality. Its hardwired into your brain how you react and respond to diffrent people and all kinds of stuff. but you can practice seeing yourself from the outside and behaving diffrently, creating new neurological pathways and shit, and to some degree in a kind of way change your personality. Atleast this is my understanding of it?
These things generally become harder if you have a lot of mental issues, poor health, little social life or things putting you down in some way or another tho. But i think you've got to improve your life and work out your problems before maybe being able to improve your personality and shit. Like its a process.

 

[Dude420]

If you read the scientific studies on the factors creating attraction you would know as a matter of fact that confidence matter marginally in the creation of attraction. If you combine this with the understanding of personality development you would also know that your level of confidence is caused by your biological predisposition interacting with reinforcement feedback loops, the main feedback loops are; parental projection (upbringing), life success/failures (abilities), and positive/negative social interactions. All of those feedback loops are affected by your looks level particularly the latter. Following this understanding, your general confidence level can also be broken down situationally, depending on the related contextually based events; in regards to approaching women, looks have an especially high prevalence in his effect.
Therefore, out of all the factors creating attraction, confidence matter marginally and the marginal impact is largely dependant on your looks level.
Thus, you can practically say that sexual attraction(putting betabuxxing aside) is pretty much all about looks.

 

[11gaijin]

This retarded thread needs deleting, tbh. @11gaijin

People seem to like the thread. It doesn't violate any rules either.

 

[Arceus300]

If you read the scientific studies on the factors creating attraction you would know as a matter of fact that confidence matter marginally in the creation of attraction. If you combine this with the understanding of personality development you would also know that your level of confidence is caused by your biological predisposition interacting with reinforcement feedback loops, the main feedback loops are; parental projection (upbringing), life success/failures (abilities), and positive/negative social interactions. All of those feedback loops are affected by your looks level particularly the latter. Following this understanding, your general confidence level can also be broken down situationally, depending on the related contextually based events; in regards to approaching women, looks has an espacially high prevalent in his effect.
Therefore, out of all the factors creating attraction, confidence matter marginally and the marginal impact is largely dependant on your looks level.
Thus, you can practically say that sexual attraction(putting betabuxxing aside) is pretty much all about looks.

There is the voice, the way of speaking it’s not only look dude

 

[RedPilledStemcel]

mods ban this faggot

 

[Deleted member 176]

There is the voice, the way of speaking it’s not only look dude

Teach me how to be a charismatic Chad.

 

[Dude420]

There is the voice, the way of speaking it’s not only look dude

+

GigaSlayer

 

[AstroSky]

true. I've had ex's get obessed with me at the start but then I started acting obessed back then they no longer wanted me. how you act and how you handle things really makes a difference.

once I stopped thinking a girl defines me is when it becomes just a lot easier to keep someone around.

just be mentally healthy bro

 

[TeaGuy]

If you read the scientific studies on the factors creating attraction you would know as a matter of fact that confidence matter marginally in the creation of attraction. If you combine this with the understanding of personality development you would also know that your level of confidence is caused by your biological predisposition interacting with reinforcement feedback loops, the main feedback loops are; parental projection (upbringing), life success/failures (abilities), and positive/negative social interactions. All of those feedback loops are affected by your looks level particularly the latter. Following this understanding, your general confidence level can also be broken down situationally, depending on the related contextually based events; in regards to approaching women, looks has an espacially high prevalent in his effect.
Therefore, out of all the factors creating attraction, confidence matter marginally and the marginal impact is largely dependant on your looks level.
Thus, you can practically say that sexual attraction(putting betabuxxing aside) is pretty much all about looks.

attraction doesn't equal getting laid, it's a prerequisite but on it's own is not enough most of the times(e.g you are sub chad). I also disagree that looks determine your personality and confidence level. it's probably 50% environmental and 50% genetic. I know lots of ugly to average people who are confident and have no problem socializing while I seem to not be able to do it despite never getting any negative feedback during my upbringing. In fact most of the feedback I received during my school years was positive yet it didn't turn me into a charismatic confident guy.

 

[Arceus300]

Teach me how to be a charismatic Chad.

I cannot teach you that cause I’m not charismatic myself, but I can teach how to improve your behavior and being better perceived by people. First you need to be find confidence, I know it’s hard but that’s capital. Then you need to do/act/speak like you want, to say you that if you’re laughing like that or smil’ing like that it’s great and you oook great, you know what I mean just don’t worry about how other people perceive you, you need to find your thing, your personality. Developed it, learn how to be eloquent(dunno the world in English but speak like everyone is listening to you) good body language. The khey of that is confidence.