You should never cry in public as a man (unless its an extreme situation)

[Deleted member 11126]

I used to think this was a meme but I have seen several relationships get ruined when a guy cries. Also even beyond women when you see a man cry that you respect you will always even if only subconsciously have less respect for him.

There is no value in seeming weak to anyone except for maybe at a funeral. For women this is the opposite showing weakness induces sympathy. For a man weakness will do one of two things either it will serve to make others pity you and thus feel better about themselves and have contempt for you or they will view it as a chink in your armor and it will attract bullies and bad people who wish to take advantage of you.

Only acceptable time to cry is maybe at a funeral. The most brutal story I heard was this chad tier football guy I knew in HS who was on roids he ended up messing up his cycle and got ED. He cried in front of his gf when he couldn't get it up and she cheated on him multiple times after that. The guy was an actual 8 psl chad getting cheated on. If you show weakness even as a GL guy its over maybe pretty boys could get away with this but I doubt it.

 

[Deleted member 11126]

Jordan Peterson is a good example of this. The guy is out of whack on benzo withdraws to be fair. But look at how crying in public ruined that guys image really tho if your crying that much you probably are not mentally well to begin with it will get you no virtue to cry as a man.

You need to accept as a man no one will ever feel great sympathy for you naturally. Women naturally get sympathy from society for men this will never be the case. Nowadays people lie more but just know when you reveal your cards at the weakest moment not only will all respect be gone for you but people will have contempt for you and take advantage of this. You can get away with a lot of things if you look good enough or have good status but weakness is the one thing no one can get away with unless its with your closest family members