24 y/o living in regret everyday. AMA if you need an advice from oldcel

[Bitterschön]

Can you talk a bit more about Nardil and how it helped you? Aren’t you worried about totally losing your inhibitions in social situations?

I will begin taking it sometime next week, can tell you more than. But Im not really worried about losing inhibition tbh

 

[Bitterschön]

Where do you think "it all went wrong" and why?

Childhood trauma, abuisive father, and then again at start of puberty with gaming.

 

[Bitterschön]

I am asking for your opinion. At 19 years I wasted my time on useless things and I regret. I can do a average job for 2-3 years but will not be able to go to UNI as the job is in daytime. Is it worth sacrificing youth for 22 years and get some money or should I hope for CS which is for 4 years but above average pay. ?

Go to uni. How old will be your peers in uni?

 

[Lefty Rankin]

If OP's not old, what are you ?

37

 

[kief]

Not adressing my mental disorders, gaming, wasting youth, not knowing about other antidepressants except SSRIs and SNRIs and that I let my father manipulate me too much


Hop on MAOIs, lose fat, focus on school and never touch any video game after 15

What other anti depressants do u recommend

 

[kief]

Work in a boring office job

Can you get me a reference

 

[Bitterschön]

What other anti depressants do u recommend

I can only recommend MAOIs. I have no experience with others.

I’m 17 rn, what should I do during my summer break and during my last year of school

You are living peak. Just enjoy every minute and go out everyday.

 

[sub5outsider]

at least your not 26 like me

 

[Richard Cheese]

Who gave you internet access grandpa. Go back to the nursery home and never contact us again.

 

[Soter]

you're only old if you can't fuck jbs anymore

 

[Bitterschön]

at least your not 26 like me

Doesnt matter Ill be 25 soon and then 26.

 

[NEET_Emperor]

24
oldcel
old in the middle school .org hallways

 

[hollowlight]

Feel free if you are bored

what should be my focus as of now? im 18 and my current goals are to look better and continue w school, but thing is i procastrinate a lot and start playing games or js stay on socials, sometimes I focus sometimes I can't it's weird

 

[JohnnyRamone]

Not adressing my mental disorders, gaming, wasting youth, not knowing about other antidepressants except SSRIs and SNRIs and that I let my father manipulate me too much


Hop on MAOIs, lose fat, focus on school and never touch any video game after 15

I don’t play video games, but they’re fine in moderation.

 

[Deleted member 130915]

im 26 bro

 

[Popstar867]

What are your goals for the next 5 years ? Will you work in the same place have the same routine. Will you do something to change that . Because I’m currently 20 in university , and I don’t want my life to be like that forever

 

[Bitterschön]

what should be my focus as of now? im 18 and my current goals are to look better and continue w school, but thing is i procastrinate a lot and start playing games or js stay on socials, sometimes I focus sometimes I can't it's weird

Focus on mental health, school and relationships and make memories. Either play in moderation or sell everything right now. Else you will regret it when you are my age. I quit them at 20 because I was heavily addicted and that was too late. Figure out why your concentration isnt stable. Get your bloods and body checked. See if its your discipline. If nothing helps, get checked for mental disorders like (atypical) depression or ADHD.

 

[hollowlight]

Focus on mental health, school and relationships and make memories. Either play in moderation or sell everything right now. Else you will regret it when you are my age. I quit them at 20 because I was heavily addicted and that was too late. Figure out why your concentration isnt stable. Get your bloods and body checked. See if its your discipline. If nothing helps, get checked for mental disorders like (atypical) depression or ADHD.

sometimes it's js games some it's js social media, i personally think i lack discipline but bc there are days when I can concentrate fully, but what has getting my blood and body checked to do with this? if nothing works after this i'll consider getting checked for mental disorders

 

[gooner23]

Work in a boring office job

do you think this job will help you integrate socially and what did games do to you

 

[Phantasm]

It scares me that your age is starting to not sound that far off for me now despite the fact that I've accomplished nothing, still incredibly immature and have no clue what to do with my life. Turned 20 this month

 

[Bitterschön]

What are your goals for the next 5 years ? Will you work in the same place have the same routine. Will you do something to change that . Because I’m currently 20 in university , and I don’t want my life to be like that forever

* Mental health
* TRT
* Moneymaxxing
* Reading / learning / networking
* Change work place

 

[Bitterschön]

sometimes it's js games some it's js social media, i personally think i lack discipline but bc there are days when I can concentrate fully, but what has getting my blood and body checked to do with this? if nothing works after this i'll consider getting checked for mental disorders

To exclude deficiencies or things like hypothyroidism, which can have a big impact on your brain and body

 

[Bitterschön]

do you think this job will help you integrate socially and what did games do to you

Not really, Ill change my work place soon. About games, I was heavily addicted. They are okay in moderation, but I still wouldnt do it. Everyone has to decide that for themselves.

 

[Bitterschön]

It scares me that your age is starting to not sound that far off for me now despite the fact that I've accomplished nothing, still incredibly immature and have no clue what to do with my life. Turned 20 this month

Whats the reason for that? If its mental health, fix it NOW. You dont want to start fixing it in your mid 20s. Lock tf in.

 

[Arminus]

Feel free if you are bored

What should I do with my life at 18..? I feel useless I feel like I’m lost and that I can’t do anything right, I don’t know what to do I don’t wanna end up fat and ugly in my 20s or in my future or suffering alone what’s your advice?

 

[Bitterschön]

What should I do with my life at 18..? I feel useless I feel like I’m lost and that I can’t do anything right, I don’t know what to do I don’t wanna end up fat and ugly in my 20s or in my future or suffering alone what’s your advice?

Implement daily habits. Even if its just reading 1 page per day or 1 push up or save 10 Euros per month. Always have a base. If you have mental health issues, now its your best time to fix them. Work on networking as well. And obviously go out, have fun nights

 

[Arminus]

Implement daily habits. Even if its just reading 1 page per day or 1 push up or save 10 Euros per month. Always have a base. If you have mental health issues, now its your best time to fix them. Work on networking as well.

Should I go to university and study hard and make friends? Like focus on building my physical and mental health?

 

[gooner23]

Not really, Ill change my work place soon. About games, I was heavily addicted. They are okay in moderation, but I still wouldnt do it. Everyone has to decide that for themselves.

damn atleast you have the capability to work hard, i just never had the patience for games like i would play runescape but it would all be in vain cause i couldn't play it for more than 3 hours straight without getting tired or bored and that was with all ranked games play like 3 comp games go onto the next game only to realize people deadass dump like 8 hours a day into these games i just couldn't compete. Same goes with work tbh i think i just had infinite opportunities never had to work too hard but still got god tier jobs just at the right time at the right place

 

[Bitterschön]

Should I go to university and study hard and make friends? Like focus on building my physical and mental health?

You have to decide that. Always listen to your gut. If you want to go uni, do. If you want to work a normal job, do. But always have time in your mind. Always imagine your life 5 years in the future. Work on your physique, yeah. And highest priority is, find out if you have mental health issues and if you do, get them fixed asap. In many cases they wont go away with muh gym. It wasnt enough for me. Some people have really unlucky brain chemistry. I was one of them.

 

[Arminus]

You have to decide that. Always listen to your gut. If you want to go uni, do. If you want to work a normal job, do. But always have time in your mind. Always imagine your life 5 years in the future. Work on your physique, yeah. And highest priority is, find out if you have mental health issues and if you do, get them fixed asap. In many cases they wont go away with muh gym. It wasnt enough for me. Some people have really unlucky brain chemesty. I was one of them.

Yeah it’s just I wanna do well in life overall and not end up in my 20s still a loser

 

[Bitterschön]

Yeah it’s just I wanna do well in life overall and not end up in my 20s still a loser

In worst case you ll wake up with 24-25. But its better to wake up with 18-21

 

[Arminus]

In worst case you ll wake up with 24-25. But its better to wake up with 18-21

Is Looksmaxxing worth it at 18 - 21?

 

[Bitterschön]

Is Looksmaxxing worth it at 18 - 21?

Yeah

 

[hollowlight]

To exclude deficiencies or things like hypothyroidism, which can have a big impact on your brain and body

honestly no idea what that is but ill give it a try if nothing works, thank you either way