30s guy trying to get a gf

[Luciano]

I was pretty much MGTOW for the past 3 years and starting this year I've renewed my efforts to find a gf, since I've never had one. So far this year I've gotten 4 makeouts, 16 numbers and 2 dates. But I've failed to get laid, havent even got close tbh.

My stats are:
34yrs old, face is fucking ugly, body is good, height is 6'0. Money wise I'm doing real good so have plenty to spend on clubbing, trips, etc. Highly neurotypical, good personality and ability to make girls laugh and hold their interest IF given the chance. I run solo game 90% of the time since I have few friends.

Overall I'd rate myself a 4/10, my face is a 3 but I add one point for height, body and money.

 

[Tony]

 

[Deleted member 1182]

wtf is that LMAO

 

[Luciano]

On Friday I hit up the club with my "friend" who I honestly hate but hes the only one who's down to go out. He is 40, cheap, gameless, and dresses like a fucking retard, the type who wears cargo shorts to a club. Anyway I hit on this older chick, she was receptive and we hit the dancefloor for a few songs but she would push me away everytime I got too close, I asked if she wanted a drink but she refused so I ejected.

I hit on another girl, who was a soft 7, around 23. She was receptive to talk but didnt want to dance, that's when my friend came over and inserted himself into our convo, i went to bathroom to show I wasnt threatened by him and when I got back she was already back with her friends. I go and talk to her again and we resume our convo, we go to the bar to buy a drink and that's when this douchebag wearing a chef's outfit butts into our convo trying to impress her saying he runs a gourmet restaurant and whatnot, and he gets her number, but I could tell the girl was just being nice because she made a scowl at him and walked off. I didnt bother talking to her again because I was fucked up and it was almost last call so I bounced, my friend was dancing with some ugly fat bitch who tried to makeout with me earlier in the night but I rejected her. Overall the girls were pretty friendly but I regret not going after the 7 again.

 

[BrettyBoy]

All about the looks, man, all about the looks.

 

[6ft4]

Just escortcel tbh

 

[Darth Cialis]

If you never had a gf at 34 and don't have friends are you sure you are 99% NT? Just asking.

 

[fukmylyf]

if you're getting dates + makeouts, you're probably doing something wrong socially or not escalating enough.

 

[BrettyBoy]

XD

 

[Deleted member 2205]

Sorry.

 

[BigBoy]

If you never had a gf at 34 and don't have friends are you sure you are 99% NT? Just asking.

If you're NT you should've had minimum 1 or 2 ltrs by this point.

My guess is:
1. You're constantly hitting on girls out of your league, which will result in a lot of rejections and maybe 1 lay from time to time. You mentioned there being a landwhale who tried to make out with you, but you rejected her. In your situation you have to start out slow, go with whatever you can get. And start dating up and going for hotties after you get used to it.

2. You're not NT

Read "Models" by Mark Manson or "The Game" since you want to run game. The latter sounds better for you since you have to be mature for the former.

 

[Deleted member 2581]

Ok obviously not the most socially stable.

I’d suggest since your making good money. Invest in surgerymaxxing and skin, roid maxing. If you don’t have a shit base or pheno you can go up 2-3 points psl if you fix all your flaws which is a WORLD of difference.

Secondly go out and get friends and create a social life. Being 34 with no friends or gf is not normal

 

[Luciano]

I just made a tinder for my trip to florida next wkend, it's my second attempt. The first one was a failure, I couldn't get any girls to meet with me but did get a few matches. Doesnt hurt to try again so.

 

[toolateforme]

This guy sounds really fucking sad and toxic.
Looks make not only girls disgusted, make people sad and hate towards other people too.

 

[alien]

You mentioned there being a landwhale who tried to make out with you, but you rejected her. In your situation you have to start out slow, go with whatever you can get. And start dating up and going for hotties after you get used to it.

EXACTLY. People bust my balls all my time for having dated a 2/10 PSL Chink. But you gotta start somewhere bro. I was striking out on dating apps for 2 months. If the first girl that comes along that shows genuine interest is a 2/10 PSL, you gotta take what you get. My dick got hard and I fucked her. And I came. That is what matters.

 

[BigBiceps]

Just escortcel tbh

They got all HIV tho. If you get a hiv there's nothing to do but suicide tbh.

 

[Deleted member 616]

Are you still a virgin? If yes then ogre for you

 

[framecel222]

 

[autistic_tendencies]

But height is everything bro

 

[Luciano]

Are you still a virgin? If yes then ogre for you

Nah ive had 12 one night stands, but that's been over about 19 years of gaming. I've had two 4 year droughts, one 3 year and several 1-2 year droughts. I'm currently on a 1 yr drought.

 

[Pillarman]

 

[BigBoy]

EXACTLY. People bust my balls all my time for having dated a 2/10 PSL Chink. But you gotta start somewhere bro. I was striking out on dating apps for 2 months. If the first girl that comes along that shows genuine interest is a 2/10 PSL, you gotta take what you get. My dick got hard and I fucked her. And I came. That is what matters.

Legit, son. But I want my first girl to me a minimum high-tier normie. I don't want to get deflowered by a subhuman or a landwhale. My consciousness qould get ruined.

 

[alien]

Legit, son. But I want my first girl to me a minimum high-tier normie. I don't want to get deflowered by a subhuman or a landwhale. My consciousness qould get ruined.

I got deflowered by a landwhale at 26. That is if you don't count the <4'8" girl with scoliosis when I was 18 where I couldn't get my dick hard. A man's gotta do what he's gotta do in order to get laid.
I am grateful that I got to fuck a hot slim busty brown girl like Yogapants. But that is like a one hit wonder. I never was able to get a hot girl like that again. And I think I was able to get her since she was crazy (I met her off PSL) and perhaps my PSL status helped.

 

[BigBoy]

I got deflowered by a landwhale at 26. That is if you don't count the <4'8" girl with scoliosis when I was 18 where I couldn't get my dick hard. A man's gotta do what he's gotta do in order to get laid.
I am grateful that I got to fuck a hot slim busty brown girl like Yogapants. But that is like a one hit wonder. I never was able to get a hot girl like that again. And I think I was able to get her since she was crazy (I met her off PSL) and perhaps my PSL status helped.

Wtf? Why is there a girl browsing lookism?

 

[alien]

Wtf? Why is there a girl browsing lookism?

She wanted to get surgery and needed surgery advice

 

[Luciano]

If you're NT you should've had minimum 1 or 2 ltrs by this point.

My guess is:
1. You're constantly hitting on girls out of your league, which will result in a lot of rejections and maybe 1 lay from time to time. You mentioned there being a landwhale who tried to make out with you, but you rejected her. In your situation you have to start out slow, go with whatever you can get. And start dating up and going for hotties after you get used to it.

2. You're not NT

Read "Models" by Mark Manson or "The Game" since you want to run game. The latter sounds better for you since you have to be mature for the former.

I hit on girls that are 2 to 3 points above me because I have height,body, game and money. My face is my only flaw, everything else I'm above average. That has to count for something right?. Besides 2 points above me is only a 6, not like im going for 8s and 9s.

 

[MrGlutton]

this guy said "19 years of gaming."

listen man if you're mgtow, and know all about women etc, why the hell are you even attempting to get a gf at the age of 30

 

[alien]

this guy said "19 years of gaming."

listen man if you're mgtow, and know all about women etc, why the hell are you even attempting to get a gf at the age of 30

MGTOWs are COPING. It is perfectly natural for a man to want female affection, love and sex. This is why I'm still trying to date in my mid-30s. Unfortunately the logistics didn't work out with the Chinese girl. But I am hopeful that I can get another gf. Maybe even a better gf. Maybe I'll even be able to get Yogapants back one day.

 

[Lil_KINJA]

Nah ive had 12 one night stands, but that's been over about 19 years of gaming. I've had two 4 year droughts, one 3 year and several 1-2 year droughts. I'm currently on a 1 yr drought.

Impressive. Did you ever get approached by women? In the sense of them showing interest first by making a move at you?

 

[MrGlutton]

MGTOWs are COPING. It is perfectly natural for a man to want female affection, love and sex. This is why I'm still trying to date in my mid-30s. Unfortunately the logistics didn't work out with the Chinese girl. But I am hopeful that I can get another gf. Maybe even a better gf. Maybe I'll even be able to get Yogapants back one day.

JUST A CHEMICAL MORTY

you should know this at mid 30s my friend

 

[Luciano]

Impressive. Did you ever get approached by women? In the sense of them showing interest first by making a move at you?

lol 12 girls in 18 years is about 1 girl every two years bro. And almost all of them were looks matched, so 4s and 5s. The last girl was a chubby 30yr old wetback and the one before that was a 40yr old fat bitch who was BALDING!

 

[Tony]

hey bro i came to shit on your thread i didn't read a single word.

 

[pisslord]

JUST A CHEMICAL MORTY

you should know this at mid 30s my friend

 

[BigBoy]

She wanted to get surgery and needed surgery advice

Well did she ascend?

I hit on girls that are 2 to 3 points above me because I have height,body, game and money. My face is my only flaw, everything else I'm above average. That has to count for something right?. Besides 2 points above me is only a 6, not like im going for 8s and 9s.

When you're looking for ONS no one is looking at your bank account. They're checking for face, height, frame, and game.

Your face is ogre, I'll take your word for frame and height, which brings you to about average. Which means you're still aiming for women out of your league. Your game is probably bad too if you barely get lays.

 

[alien]

Well did she ascend?

She CLAIMS that she did but she has never shown me proof. lol

 

[BigBoy]

She CLAIMS that she did but she has never shown me proof. lol

Sad shit, man. PSL 6 isn't bad in the first place. There's not reason to get unnecessary surgeries when your face is good looking.

Why did you guys break up?

 

[alien]

JUST A CHEMICAL MORTY

you should know this at mid 30s my friend

Drugs are also a chemical reaction. It still feels good. The pleasure from food or playing video games and gambling (this is why gambling addiction is real) is also a chemical reaction (dopamine).

I'm not going to lie to you and tell you my spirits weren't higher in the 16 days that the Chinese girl and I were dating. And she's a 2/10 PSL. Even after all the gas and mileage I was putting on my car. And the money I was blowing on dates. I even paid for her commuter bus fare to come here on the last date because she is broke and I figured that I would rather give her the $21 CAD for bus fare than be alone (I was burning probably about that much on gas when I would do the two round trips to pick her up and take her to mine anyways. Plus the mileage depreciation on my car, especially my brakes. And the opportunity cost from doing all the driving). My spirits were even higher when I was dating Yogapants. You can see that all chronicled in my lookism post history. And see her post history. But now that is all gone.

Sad shit, man. PSL 6 isn't bad in the first place. There's not reason to get unnecessary surgeries when your face is good looking.

Why did you guys break up?

I stupidly said on another forum (and she was able to find out I posted on this other forum based on my lookism post history) that she was hot but not as hot as some of the hookers I fucked. And this devastated her. It should not shock her that a guy she met off PSL would be somewhat shallow. She was very on and off with me after that. And then eventually dumped me because she got jealous of my female friend. And gave me an ultimatum. I dump my female friend as a friend or it's over between us. I didn't want Yogapants to push me around like that dictating who I can and can't be friends with. So it was over. I love Yogapants. To this day. But she is crazy and needs to be a little less crazy for it to work.

 

[Luciano]

So far on tinder I got 3 numbers from girls that agreed to meet, hopefully they dont ghost as usual. One looks pretty decent like a solid 6, the other two are 5s.

 

[chadpreetcel123]

Ok obviously not the most socially stable.

I’d suggest since your making good money. Invest in surgerymaxxing and skin, roid maxing. If you don’t have a shit base or pheno you can go up 2-3 points psl if you fix all your flaws which is a WORLD of difference.

Secondly go out and get friends and create a social life. Being 34 with no friends or gf is not normal

I have curry pheno

can I fix my flaws?

 

[Luciano]

So I've been texting with two of the tinder matches, one says shes down to go clubbing(black dress girl), I havent really asked the other one. They are latinas which Is my type, I'd give them both a 6. My plan is to meet them during the day for coffee to give them a chance to bail if they find me too ugly in person. They are both 21.

 

[deathtochad]

Do you ever cry at night because you have no foid to hug you while guys 10 years younger than you lick pussy everyday

 

[Luciano]

Both tinder girls ghosted on me after saying they were down to meet.

Just called an escort out of frustration, waiting for her to arrive in my hotel rn.

 

[Luciano]

The escort was a disappointment in looks, she was kinda ugly and had messed up teeth and a huge scar down the middle of her chest. Her attitude was good enough, I fucked her twice in the hour and ate out her pussy which tasted good but for $400 I expect better than a 6/10.

 

[Deleted member 2854]

Just post your damn face OP so we can see what we’re working with here

 

[toolateforme]

Bro go marry

 

[deathtochad]

Imagine eating an escort's std ridden pussy

 

[Luciano]

My stripper fucking thread got deleted but I ended up clubbing with the stripper again on Saturday, I had to turn her down for sex at night cuz I couldn't fuck anymore. Prolly fucked her like 5-6times per day.
She was also saying how she hates short guys and kept complimenting my body and height, so I'm pretty sure running body game is legit.

 

[Deleted member 2581]

I have curry pheno

can I fix my flaws?

your fucked boyo

 

[Mr_Norwood]

$400 on a hooker? Wtf.

U should go to Thailand for a holiday ..