A girl i want to LTR -Help wanted!

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I'll leave behind the background information and get to the point.
She's in my class, slightly taller and literally my ideal.
I dont really talk to her and i'm too scared to even try, so where do i go from here on out?

1.) Slow and safe, i can add her friend on snapchat, hope she adds me back, and then ask her if she has a boyfriend.
could ask irl too but snap first. i slowly try to build up and then ask her in the (near-)perfect (non-existing) situation.

2.) Direct confrontation, i walk up to her after school before we part ways and ask her "..her name.. would you like to do something with me after school?"

I'm doing it either way, i'm tired of always keeping alone and though it can be fun i really need a girlfriend who i'll wife.
No more slaying or ONS shit, LTR mogs. I'm 18 now, the first and last time i tried was 4 years ago, a lot has happened since then.
When you age and become a grown up slowly, you realise how easily you can be late inyour own life's timeline. I wont lose again that i can tell you.
Its now or never for me. This girl really seems kind besides tall, pretty, smart and just all i want and need.
I hope she doesnt see me as revolting, not that i look bad dont get me wrong.
I have the purest intentions with her and i'm pretty goodlooking for those who have seen me. I've rejected like 15 chances at sex with girls i despised (sluts) to wait for the one and i think it's lead up to this. Maybe this is all delusion idk.

I need your help and advice, tick up in the poll and lmk what you think.

@Tomorrow @tuberculosisinmybal @NorwoodAscender @Org3cel @PsychoDsk
 
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if this goes wrong i'm deleting this.
oh and also please idk if anyone knows its myname here, please have mercy and keep to yourself.
These days i can never know.
 
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i'm pretty goodlooking for those who have seen me
Did you get the BSSO you were talking about in one of your threads?
 
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Always go direct. Don't play games. Ask her name, tell her your name and invite her somewhere private on an innocuous excuse then pounce.
 
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i can add her friend on snapchat, hope she adds me back
i mean her friends going to tell her anyways no matter what, i say just go for it

and even if it doesn’t work u saved all the time u would have wasted doing the slow and safe shit my ass CANT be asked to do anymore
 
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Did you get the BSSO you were talking about in one of your threads?
its 3 may.
Always go direct. Don't play games. Ask her name, tell her your name
i'm that far.
and invite her somewhere private on an innocuous excuse then pounce.
i might ask her after school, i got no excuses really.
This all that needs to be said, you should just go for it.:PepeSmile:
thanks for keeping it real guys. ❤️❤️
 
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I'll leave behind the background information and get to the point.
She's in my class, slightly taller and literally my ideal.
I dont really talk to her and i'm too scared to even try, so where do i go from here on out?

1.) Slow and safe, i can add her friend on snapchat, hope she adds me back, and then ask her if she has a boyfriend.
could ask irl too but snap first. i slowly try to build up and then ask her in the (near-)perfect (non-existing) situation.

2.) Direct confrontation, i walk up to her after school before we part ways and ask her "..her name.. would you like to do something with me after school?"

I'm doing it either way, i'm tired of always keeping alone and though it can be fun i really need a girlfriend who i'll wife.
No more slaying or ONS shit, LTR mogs. I'm 18 now, the first and last time i tried was 4 years ago, a lot has happened since then.
When you age and become a grown up slowly, you realise how easily you can be late inyour own life's timeline. I wont lose again that i can tell you.
Its now or never for me. This girl really seems kind besides tall, pretty, smart and just all i want and need.
I hope she doesnt see me as revolting, not that i look bad dont get me wrong.
I have the purest intentions with her and i'm pretty goodlooking for those who have seen me. I've rejected like 15 chances at sex with girls i despised (sluts) to wait for the one and i think it's lead up to this. Maybe this is all delusion idk.

I need your help and advice, tick up in the poll and lmk what you think.

@Tomorrow @tuberculosisinmybal @NorwoodAscender @Org3cel @PsychoDsk

Slow and safe is always better
 
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i mean her friends going to tell her anyways no matter what, i say just go for it

and even if it doesn’t work u saved all the time u would have wasted doing the slow and safe shit my ass CANT be asked to do anymore
Thx NWDy :feelsez:, you're right. kinda tough if she says no and she's still in my class for the entire year though but alr.
i dont think she has a bf. :p:p:p
 
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Did u hit yet?
 
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Hope you’re at least chadlite because anything less don’t get to choose.
 
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I'll leave behind the background information and get to the point.
She's in my class, slightly taller and literally my ideal.
I dont really talk to her and i'm too scared to even try, so where do i go from here on out?

1.) Slow and safe, i can add her friend on snapchat, hope she adds me back, and then ask her if she has a boyfriend.
could ask irl too but snap first. i slowly try to build up and then ask her in the (near-)perfect (non-existing) situation.

2.) Direct confrontation, i walk up to her after school before we part ways and ask her "..her name.. would you like to do something with me after school?"

I'm doing it either way, i'm tired of always keeping alone and though it can be fun i really need a girlfriend who i'll wife.
No more slaying or ONS shit, LTR mogs. I'm 18 now, the first and last time i tried was 4 years ago, a lot has happened since then.
When you age and become a grown up slowly, you realise how easily you can be late inyour own life's timeline. I wont lose again that i can tell you.
Its now or never for me. This girl really seems kind besides tall, pretty, smart and just all i want and need.
I hope she doesnt see me as revolting, not that i look bad dont get me wrong.
I have the purest intentions with her and i'm pretty goodlooking for those who have seen me. I've rejected like 15 chances at sex with girls i despised (sluts) to wait for the one and i think it's lead up to this. Maybe this is all delusion idk.

I need your help and advice, tick up in the poll and lmk what you think.

@Tomorrow @tuberculosisinmybal @NorwoodAscender @Org3cel @PsychoDsk

U overthink too much, Im on a LTR rn and dont really care, going on a date with another girl tonight lol
 
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Make a joke to her after school about one of your teachers and ask her for her ig or snap
U got this bb
 
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Make a joke to her after school about one of your teachers and ask her for her ig or snap
U got this bb
This literally.
Neverrr that deep
 
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archiving this shit. fuck you pussy. you’re not deleting shit :feelshah:
 
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I'll leave behind the background information and get to the point.
She's in my class, slightly taller and literally my ideal.
I dont really talk to her and i'm too scared to even try, so where do i go from here on out?

1.) Slow and safe, i can add her friend on snapchat, hope she adds me back, and then ask her if she has a boyfriend.
could ask irl too but snap first. i slowly try to build up and then ask her in the (near-)perfect (non-existing) situation.

2.) Direct confrontation, i walk up to her after school before we part ways and ask her "..her name.. would you like to do something with me after school?"

I'm doing it either way, i'm tired of always keeping alone and though it can be fun i really need a girlfriend who i'll wife.
No more slaying or ONS shit, LTR mogs. I'm 18 now, the first and last time i tried was 4 years ago, a lot has happened since then.
When you age and become a grown up slowly, you realise how easily you can be late inyour own life's timeline. I wont lose again that i can tell you.
Its now or never for me. This girl really seems kind besides tall, pretty, smart and just all i want and need.
I hope she doesnt see me as revolting, not that i look bad dont get me wrong.
I have the purest intentions with her and i'm pretty goodlooking for those who have seen me. I've rejected like 15 chances at sex with girls i despised (sluts) to wait for the one and i think it's lead up to this. Maybe this is all delusion idk.

I need your help and advice, tick up in the poll and lmk what you think.

@Tomorrow @tuberculosisinmybal @NorwoodAscender @Org3cel @PsychoDsk

1st option is giga gay and you will be seen as a pussy nigga
2nd option is bad too (I mean the part where you instantly invite her, she doesn't know you)

You should just play it cool and just go talk to her, make some small talk and ask for her snap, text her for a couple of days, gauge interest and then offer to do something together
 
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This literally.
Neverrr that deep
There’s literally no right or wrong thing to say in these scenarios
It’s about how you say it and how u look

my go to line was this ‘Tell me rn if I should hop on tren or not, if she said what’s that? I would tell her you’re useless but give me your snap’ Always worked jfl
 
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None of the options are good (they're okay, but there's a high chance of premature rejection without much rational reasoning behind the decision, except that she may consider you ugly or weird or "like the others")

1. Try to get into situations and circumstances where you interact with her (either at school or after school) that are unrelated to your intentions

2. Let her get familiar with you, like small talk, tell her a joke about a situation you both noticed, make her laugh and feel comfortable with you

3. At that point, depending on how she relates to you (is she uncomfortable when you're around her, or does she like your presence, or is she at least indifferent, like she has no problem with you), you start to escalate things (you start to keep your hands closer to her personal space, not necessarily touching her, you start giving her certain indirect hints that you find her attractive, etc. basically, you try to win her over)

4. At that point, she will realize where things are going and will make a decision (either indirectly reject you/say she has a boyfriend or whatever) or she will start to flirt back with you and give you signs that you should continue

5. At that point, you go all in (you start asking her what she does after school, if she's free, if she'd like to go out somewhere with you) and if she says yes, the sky's the limit

Any other more direct approach will only give her the impression that you are desperate, that you do this with every girl and are just waiting for one of them to want you, so you don't find her in particular special at all :veryCat:
 
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No more slaying or ONS shit, LTR mogs.
Based asf.
I'd say: ask her friend whether she has a bf, if she doesn't go in directly and openly.
 
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There’s literally no right or wrong thing to say in these scenarios
It’s about how you say it and how u look

my go to line was this ‘Tell me rn if I should hop on tren or not, if she said what’s that? I would tell her you’re useless but give me your snap’ Always worked jfl
Literally all about looks vibe inhibition, never what u say, its creepier to say a made up line in your head then just saying the wrong thing in a funny way.
I used to mock her friends in class and she would just laugh lol, people who try too hard end up not making anyyy progress with girls
 
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None of the options are good (they're okay, but there's a high chance of premature rejection without much rational reasoning behind the decision, except that she may consider you ugly or weird or "like the others")

1. Try to get into situations and circumstances where you interact with her (either at school or after school) that are unrelated to your intentions

2. Let her get familiar with you, like small talk, tell her a joke about a situation you both noticed, make her laugh and feel comfortable with you

3. At that point, depending on how she relates to you (is she uncomfortable when you're around her, or does she like your presence, or is she at least indifferent, like she has no problem with you), you start to escalate things (you start to keep your hands closer to her personal space, not necessarily touching her, you start giving her certain indirect hints that you find her attractive, etc. basically, you try to win her over)

4. At that point, she will realize where things are going and will make a decision (either indirectly reject you/say she has a boyfriend or whatever) or she will start to flirt back with you and give you signs that you should continue

5. At that point, you go all in (you start asking her what she does after school, if she's free, if she'd like to go out somewhere with you) and if she says yes, the sky's the limit

Any other more direct approach will only give her the impression that you are desperate, that you do this with every girl and are just waiting for one of them to want you, so you don't find her in particular special at all :veryCat:
Yeah alr, f my low iq response, @Hernan do what this guy says jfl
 
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None of the options are good (they're okay, but there's a high chance of premature rejection without much rational reasoning behind the decision, except that she may consider you ugly or weird or "like the others")

1. Try to get into situations and circumstances where you interact with her (either at school or after school) that are unrelated to your intentions

2. Let her get familiar with you, like small talk, tell her a joke about a situation you both noticed, make her laugh and feel comfortable with you

3. At that point, depending on how she relates to you (is she uncomfortable when you're around her, or does she like your presence, or is she at least indifferent, like she has no problem with you), you start to escalate things (you start to keep your hands closer to her personal space, not necessarily touching her, you start giving her certain indirect hints that you find her attractive, etc. basically, you try to win her over)

4. At that point, she will realize where things are going and will make a decision (either indirectly reject you/say she has a boyfriend or whatever) or she will start to flirt back with you and give you signs that you should continue

5. At that point, you go all in (you start asking her what she does after school, if she's free, if she'd like to go out somewhere with you) and if she says yes, the sky's the limit

Any other more direct approach will only give her the impression that you are desperate, that you do this with every girl and are just waiting for one of them to want you, so you don't find her in particular special at all :veryCat:
HOLYYYY MOLY, women are not a complex equation holy fuck, chill dude🥺
 
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Things like that is doesn't really matter, you can fail and your life would be pretty much the same. Just go and make your shit clear.
 
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Tell her that you are a Nazi tho
 
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HOLYYYY MOLY, women are not a complex equation holy fuck, chill dude🥺
he needs to meet a daily word count for his daily posting quota
 
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Literally all about looks vibe inhibition, never what u say, its creepier to say a made up line in your head then just saying the wrong thing in a funny way.
I used to mock her friends in class and she would just laugh lol, people who try too hard end up not making anyyy progress with girls
You’re right
Inhibition lowkey key here
It’s so funny cuz 90% of ppl still believe you need to say the right thing at the right time while all u need to do is exist and make fun of her in a joking way
 
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None of the options are good (they're okay, but there's a high chance of premature rejection without much rational reasoning behind the decision, except that she may consider you ugly or weird or "like the others")

1. Try to get into situations and circumstances where you interact with her (either at school or after school) that are unrelated to your intentions

2. Let her get familiar with you, like small talk, tell her a joke about a situation you both noticed, make her laugh and feel comfortable with you

3. At that point, depending on how she relates to you (is she uncomfortable when you're around her, or does she like your presence, or is she at least indifferent, like she has no problem with you), you start to escalate things (you start to keep your hands closer to her personal space, not necessarily touching her, you start giving her certain indirect hints that you find her attractive, etc. basically, you try to win her over)

4. At that point, she will realize where things are going and will make a decision (either indirectly reject you/say she has a boyfriend or whatever) or she will start to flirt back with you and give you signs that you should continue

5. At that point, you go all in (you start asking her what she does after school, if she's free, if she'd like to go out somewhere with you) and if she says yes, the sky's the limit

Any other more direct approach will only give her the impression that you are desperate, that you do this with every girl and are just waiting for one of them to want you, so you don't find her in particular special at all :veryCat:
I'm doing this with my oneitis, she has fallen asleep on my shoulder twice when we are on the train to university :owo:
 
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You’re right
Inhibition lowkey key here
It’s so funny cuz 90% of ppl still believe you need to say the right thing at the right time while all u need to do is exist and make fun of her in a joking way
Kek i'm fucked
 
HOLYYYY MOLY, women are not a complex equation holy fuck, chill dude🥺

POV: Op if he doesn't listen to my advice.. :veryCat:


 
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None of the options are good (they're okay, but there's a high chance of premature rejection without much rational reasoning behind the decision, except that she may consider you ugly or weird or "like the others")

1. Try to get into situations and circumstances where you interact with her (either at school or after school) that are unrelated to your intentions

2. Let her get familiar with you, like small talk, tell her a joke about a situation you both noticed, make her laugh and feel comfortable with you

3. At that point, depending on how she relates to you (is she uncomfortable when you're around her, or does she like your presence, or is she at least indifferent, like she has no problem with you), you start to escalate things (you start to keep your hands closer to her personal space, not necessarily touching her, you start giving her certain indirect hints that you find her attractive, etc. basically, you try to win her over)

4. At that point, she will realize where things are going and will make a decision (either indirectly reject you/say she has a boyfriend or whatever) or she will start to flirt back with you and give you signs that you should continue

5. At that point, you go all in (you start asking her what she does after school, if she's free, if she'd like to go out somewhere with you) and if she says yes, the sky's the limit

Any other more direct approach will only give her the impression that you are desperate, that you do this with every girl and are just waiting for one of them to want you, so you don't find her in particular special at all :veryCat:
Yeah brb in 2030 when I’ve done all that.
 
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I'll leave behind the background information and get to the point.
She's in my class, slightly taller and literally my ideal.
I dont really talk to her and i'm too scared to even try, so where do i go from here on out?

1.) Slow and safe, i can add her friend on snapchat, hope she adds me back, and then ask her if she has a boyfriend.
could ask irl too but snap first. i slowly try to build up and then ask her in the (near-)perfect (non-existing) situation.

2.) Direct confrontation, i walk up to her after school before we part ways and ask her "..her name.. would you like to do something with me after school?"

I'm doing it either way, i'm tired of always keeping alone and though it can be fun i really need a girlfriend who i'll wife.
No more slaying or ONS shit, LTR mogs. I'm 18 now, the first and last time i tried was 4 years ago, a lot has happened since then.
When you age and become a grown up slowly, you realise how easily you can be late inyour own life's timeline. I wont lose again that i can tell you.
Its now or never for me. This girl really seems kind besides tall, pretty, smart and just all i want and need.
I hope she doesnt see me as revolting, not that i look bad dont get me wrong.
I have the purest intentions with her and i'm pretty goodlooking for those who have seen me. I've rejected like 15 chances at sex with girls i despised (sluts) to wait for the one and i think it's lead up to this. Maybe this is all delusion idk.

I need your help and advice, tick up in the poll and lmk what you think.

@Tomorrow @tuberculosisinmybal @NorwoodAscender @Org3cel @PsychoDsk

Rape
 
Make a joke to her after school about one of your teachers and ask her for her ig or snap
U got this bb
Yeah I’ll just talk to her ngl I’m a man with a ballsack fuck am I stressing for?
 
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I'll leave behind the background information and get to the point.
She's in my class, slightly taller and literally my ideal.
I dont really talk to her and i'm too scared to even try, so where do i go from here on out?

1.) Slow and safe, i can add her friend on snapchat, hope she adds me back, and then ask her if she has a boyfriend.
could ask irl too but snap first. i slowly try to build up and then ask her in the (near-)perfect (non-existing) situation.

2.) Direct confrontation, i walk up to her after school before we part ways and ask her "..her name.. would you like to do something with me after school?"

I'm doing it either way, i'm tired of always keeping alone and though it can be fun i really need a girlfriend who i'll wife.
No more slaying or ONS shit, LTR mogs. I'm 18 now, the first and last time i tried was 4 years ago, a lot has happened since then.
When you age and become a grown up slowly, you realise how easily you can be late inyour own life's timeline. I wont lose again that i can tell you.
Its now or never for me. This girl really seems kind besides tall, pretty, smart and just all i want and need.
I hope she doesnt see me as revolting, not that i look bad dont get me wrong.
I have the purest intentions with her and i'm pretty goodlooking for those who have seen me. I've rejected like 15 chances at sex with girls i despised (sluts) to wait for the one and i think it's lead up to this. Maybe this is all delusion idk.

I need your help and advice, tick up in the poll and lmk what you think.

@Tomorrow @tuberculosisinmybal @NorwoodAscender @Org3cel @PsychoDsk

She might be a non virgin but i would ask friend if she has bf and is virgin. if both of these are correct than try but idk you arent looksmaxed yet
 
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I'll leave behind the background information and get to the point.
She's in my class, slightly taller and literally my ideal.
I dont really talk to her and i'm too scared to even try, so where do i go from here on out?

1.) Slow and safe, i can add her friend on snapchat, hope she adds me back, and then ask her if she has a boyfriend.
could ask irl too but snap first. i slowly try to build up and then ask her in the (near-)perfect (non-existing) situation.

2.) Direct confrontation, i walk up to her after school before we part ways and ask her "..her name.. would you like to do something with me after school?"

I'm doing it either way, i'm tired of always keeping alone and though it can be fun i really need a girlfriend who i'll wife.
No more slaying or ONS shit, LTR mogs. I'm 18 now, the first and last time i tried was 4 years ago, a lot has happened since then.
When you age and become a grown up slowly, you realise how easily you can be late inyour own life's timeline. I wont lose again that i can tell you.
Its now or never for me. This girl really seems kind besides tall, pretty, smart and just all i want and need.
I hope she doesnt see me as revolting, not that i look bad dont get me wrong.
I have the purest intentions with her and i'm pretty goodlooking for those who have seen me. I've rejected like 15 chances at sex with girls i despised (sluts) to wait for the one and i think it's lead up to this. Maybe this is all delusion idk.

I need your help and advice, tick up in the poll and lmk what you think.

@Tomorrow @tuberculosisinmybal @NorwoodAscender @Org3cel @PsychoDsk

Doesn’t have to be either or, but if she literally doesn’t know you at all, she won’t say yes to a date most likely and you open yourself up to being gigaroasted socially. I would go up to her and cold approach a conversation where you don’t ask her on a date. Just try to rizz her a bit, then later add her friend, not her, creating what women love: competition between other foids
 
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I'll leave behind the background information and get to the point.
She's in my class, slightly taller and literally my ideal.
I dont really talk to her and i'm too scared to even try, so where do i go from here on out?

1.) Slow and safe, i can add her friend on snapchat, hope she adds me back, and then ask her if she has a boyfriend.
could ask irl too but snap first. i slowly try to build up and then ask her in the (near-)perfect (non-existing) situation.

2.) Direct confrontation, i walk up to her after school before we part ways and ask her "..her name.. would you like to do something with me after school?"

I'm doing it either way, i'm tired of always keeping alone and though it can be fun i really need a girlfriend who i'll wife.
No more slaying or ONS shit, LTR mogs. I'm 18 now, the first and last time i tried was 4 years ago, a lot has happened since then.
When you age and become a grown up slowly, you realise how easily you can be late inyour own life's timeline. I wont lose again that i can tell you.
Its now or never for me. This girl really seems kind besides tall, pretty, smart and just all i want and need.
I hope she doesnt see me as revolting, not that i look bad dont get me wrong.
I have the purest intentions with her and i'm pretty goodlooking for those who have seen me. I've rejected like 15 chances at sex with girls i despised (sluts) to wait for the one and i think it's lead up to this. Maybe this is all delusion idk.

I need your help and advice, tick up in the poll and lmk what you think.

@Tomorrow @tuberculosisinmybal @NorwoodAscender @Org3cel @PsychoDsk

direct confrontation (if ur not shy-appealing) will always be better tbh.
 
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I'll leave behind the background information and get to the point.
She's in my class, slightly taller and literally my ideal.
I dont really talk to her and i'm too scared to even try, so where do i go from here on out?

1.) Slow and safe, i can add her friend on snapchat, hope she adds me back, and then ask her if she has a boyfriend.
could ask irl too but snap first. i slowly try to build up and then ask her in the (near-)perfect (non-existing) situation.

2.) Direct confrontation, i walk up to her after school before we part ways and ask her "..her name.. would you like to do something with me after school?"

I'm doing it either way, i'm tired of always keeping alone and though it can be fun i really need a girlfriend who i'll wife.
No more slaying or ONS shit, LTR mogs. I'm 18 now, the first and last time i tried was 4 years ago, a lot has happened since then.
When you age and become a grown up slowly, you realise how easily you can be late inyour own life's timeline. I wont lose again that i can tell you.
Its now or never for me. This girl really seems kind besides tall, pretty, smart and just all i want and need.
I hope she doesnt see me as revolting, not that i look bad dont get me wrong.
I have the purest intentions with her and i'm pretty goodlooking for those who have seen me. I've rejected like 15 chances at sex with girls i despised (sluts) to wait for the one and i think it's lead up to this. Maybe this is all delusion idk.

I need your help and advice, tick up in the poll and lmk what you think.

@Tomorrow @tuberculosisinmybal @NorwoodAscender @Org3cel @PsychoDsk

The “help wanted” part made me laugh out loud
 
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I'll leave behind the background information and get to the point.
She's in my class, slightly taller and literally my ideal.
I dont really talk to her and i'm too scared to even try, so where do i go from here on out?

1.) Slow and safe, i can add her friend on snapchat, hope she adds me back, and then ask her if she has a boyfriend.
could ask irl too but snap first. i slowly try to build up and then ask her in the (near-)perfect (non-existing) situation.

2.) Direct confrontation, i walk up to her after school before we part ways and ask her "..her name.. would you like to do something with me after school?"

I'm doing it either way, i'm tired of always keeping alone and though it can be fun i really need a girlfriend who i'll wife.
No more slaying or ONS shit, LTR mogs. I'm 18 now, the first and last time i tried was 4 years ago, a lot has happened since then.
When you age and become a grown up slowly, you realise how easily you can be late inyour own life's timeline. I wont lose again that i can tell you.
Its now or never for me. This girl really seems kind besides tall, pretty, smart and just all i want and need.
I hope she doesnt see me as revolting, not that i look bad dont get me wrong.
I have the purest intentions with her and i'm pretty goodlooking for those who have seen me. I've rejected like 15 chances at sex with girls i despised (sluts) to wait for the one and i think it's lead up to this. Maybe this is all delusion idk.

I need your help and advice, tick up in the poll and lmk what you think.

@Tomorrow @tuberculosisinmybal @NorwoodAscender @Org3cel @PsychoDsk

No offense but you most likely won’t find your wife at 18. You’ll probably go through a few relationships before then.
 
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you have to show her your authority instantly after you engage with her to mitigate the effects of the brutal hightmog
tell her you are a mod on an incel forum and she will have no choice but to fall for you
you mods have it so easy jfl
 
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I'll leave behind the background information and get to the point.
She's in my class, slightly taller and literally my ideal.
I dont really talk to her and i'm too scared to even try, so where do i go from here on out?

1.) Slow and safe, i can add her friend on snapchat, hope she adds me back, and then ask her if she has a boyfriend.
could ask irl too but snap first. i slowly try to build up and then ask her in the (near-)perfect (non-existing) situation.

2.) Direct confrontation, i walk up to her after school before we part ways and ask her "..her name.. would you like to do something with me after school?"

I'm doing it either way, i'm tired of always keeping alone and though it can be fun i really need a girlfriend who i'll wife.
No more slaying or ONS shit, LTR mogs. I'm 18 now, the first and last time i tried was 4 years ago, a lot has happened since then.
When you age and become a grown up slowly, you realise how easily you can be late inyour own life's timeline. I wont lose again that i can tell you.
Its now or never for me. This girl really seems kind besides tall, pretty, smart and just all i want and need.
I hope she doesnt see me as revolting, not that i look bad dont get me wrong.
I have the purest intentions with her and i'm pretty goodlooking for those who have seen me. I've rejected like 15 chances at sex with girls i despised (sluts) to wait for the one and i think it's lead up to this. Maybe this is all delusion idk.

I need your help and advice, tick up in the poll and lmk what you think.

@Tomorrow @tuberculosisinmybal @NorwoodAscender @Org3cel @PsychoDsk

i'd just add her on snap first and see if she replies, if you have good game it's easy to get someone interrested if ur good looking enough. And just take each step slow:02Pat:
 
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Chat her up and gauge interest while at it then ask for her insta/snap.
Or better try to get around her during some event so she can see you and after getting a bunch of IOIs, you'd approach
 
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Fraud height on first encounter too don't be shorter than her jfl
 
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also, why the FUCK am i stressing over this?
i just came back from training, i can BTFO of half planet earth and i'm stressing over something that hasnt even happened yet.
@Tomorrow



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literally me rn HAHA LMFAO realisation is so real. @PsychoDsk

i aint gonna stress over some girl, i can give her tenfold what she can give me on P Diddy and everybody's soul.:p:p:p
 
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No offense but you most likely won’t find your wife at 18. You’ll probably go through a few relationships before then.
"most likely" is not applicable to me lil nigga i decide this shit, i decide where i am in the percentages. :ogre::ogre::feelsez::feelsez::p:p:p
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