Asked her to be my gf she said yes, then I couldnt fuck her properly

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We were cuddling in bed talking about stuff and I asked how she'd feel about being my girl, she thought it was a good idea, so we're together now. Idk why but I got super nervous and then when we went to have sex my dick couldn't stay hard, this happened last time I tried to fuck her too, so 2 times in a row now I failed to fuck her, she's used to me giving her really good dick tho, so me being unable to fuck is probably a shock to her.

I told her I think it's cuz I feel more emotional pressure now when having sex with her since I never had feelings like that with her before, whenever we fucked before I had feelings it was easy, now I feel like a nervous wreck.
 
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We were cuddling in bed talking about stuff and I asked how she'd feel about being my girl, she thought it was a good idea, so we're together now. Idk why but I got super nervous and then when we went to have sex my dick couldn't stay hard, this happened last time I tried to fuck her too, so 2 times in a row now I failed to fuck her, she's used to me giving her really good dick tho, so me being unable to fuck is probably a shock to her.

I told her I think it's cuz I feel more emotional pressure now when having sex with her since I never had feelings like that with her before, whenever we fucked before I had feelings it was easy, now I feel like a nervous wreck.

It’s performance anxiety which caused PIED. If you watch porn this WILL happen again. I suggest getting used to the foid to be relaxed or using Cialis/Viagra to overcome this
 
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It’s performance anxiety which caused PIED. If you watch porn this WILL happen again. I suggest getting used to the foid to be relaxed or using Cialis/Viagra to overcome this
I am used to her tho, we've been fucking for 5 months. I only recently caught feelings tho, before I kinda just seen her as a fleshlight as fucked up as that sounds. Ever since I caught feelings, I haven't been able to stay hard enough to fuck her. I actually took a break from porn directly after the first time I couldn't fuck her which was like a week or 2 ago, haven't jerked off or watched it since.

Do you think I should maybe take her on some dates and not have sex for a couple weeks? Just to get more used to being in a relationship. I've never been in a real one only random hookups/fwbs.
 
Weak beta Gen Z man that's been built by social media.

Only one solution. One that you shall not follow, but one that I shall of course mention.

Detox.

From social media.

Fix brain chemistry, increase testosterone with gym and watch what you put into your inner world.
 
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its a good mind game. next time you fuck her and get hard, try not to cum at all. her self esteem will die, she will think its cuz shes ugly or bad in bed and be emotionally attached to you
 
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its a good mind game. next time you fuck her and get hard, try not to cum at all. her self esteem will die, she will think its cuz shes ugly or bad in bed and be emotionally attached to you
No I told her it's not because of her, I said I think it's cuz I like her now so there's more pressure
 
Weak beta Gen Z man that's been built by social media.

Only one solution. One that you shall not follow, but one that I shall of course mention.

Detox.

From social media.

Fix brain chemistry, increase testosterone with gym and watch what you put into your inner world.
Yeah that would probably help but I had no problem fucking her like a dog up until recently
 
I am used to her tho, we've been fucking for 5 months. I only recently caught feelings tho, before I kinda just seen her as a fleshlight as fucked up as that sounds. Ever since I caught feelings, I haven't been able to stay hard enough to fuck her. I actually took a break from porn directly after the first time I couldn't fuck her which was like a week or 2 ago, haven't jerked off or watched it since.

Do you think I should maybe take her on some dates and not have sex for a couple weeks? Just to get more used to being in a relationship. I've never been in a real one only random hookups/fwbs.
did you actually ask the foid who cheated on her boyfriend, and during the LTR let randoms coom inside of her, if she wants to be your girlfriend?

You’ll be in a world of pain - you don‘t date these kinds of women.
 
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did you actually ask the foid who cheated on her boyfriend, and during the LTR let randoms coom inside of her, if she wants to be your girlfriend?

You’ll be in a world of pain, you don‘t date these kinds of women.

Is that who he's fallen in love with?
 
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Is that who he's fallen in love with?
Seems like it.

In another thread OP said that he caught feelings for a FWBs of his, who had a boyfriend for half a year, even regularly posted the boyfriend on her socials, while on the same evening letting OP ram her raw.
 
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has she seen your side profile, esp maxillary recession?
 
did you actually ask the foid who cheated on her boyfriend, and during the LTR letting randoms coom inside of her, if she wants to be your girlfriend?

You’ll be in a world of hurt, you don‘t date these kinds of women.
Yeah I straight up told her im prepared for her to do me dirty but figured I'd give dating her a shot cuz I like her and am getting tired of sleeping around. I'm a fucking retard I know.
 
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Yeah I straight up told her im prepared for her to do me dirty but figured I'd give dating her a shot cuz I like her and am getting tired of sleeping around. I'm a fucking retard I know.
Low IQ. But good luck.

You also better get your dick-game fixed ASAP, she’s a whore and won‘t wait a few weeks until you fixed your ED, to get dicked down again.
 
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Yeah I straight up told her im prepared for her to do me dirty but figured I'd give dating her a shot cuz I like her and am getting tired of sleeping around. I'm a fucking retard I know.
you will raise a black child
 
why doesnt any girl want to do this me? i talk to girls and only end up being an emotional tampon
 
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hows ur bimax route btw
Haven't been thinking about it tbh. I ended up not getting the braces for it and just ignored it, I'm gonna wait til I'm in a better spot financially, like close to 6 figures or more before I do anything like that
 
Low IQ. But good luck.

You also better get your dick-game fixed ASAP, she’s a whore and won‘t wait a few weeks until you fixed your ED, to get dicked down again.
Yeah I have been worrying about that tbh. Is there anything like viagra that can be bought over the counter?
 
its a good mind game. next time you fuck her and get hard, try not to cum at all. her self esteem will die, she will think its cuz shes ugly or bad in bed and be emotionally attached to you
But how? It’s really hard not to bust and do it consistently
 
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