Being funny doesn’t get you girls

There is a distinction to be made.
What does it mean to be funny? I don't dwell on why one is funny.

Taking the commonly used meaning, then making fun of others means being funny, the rest are personal scruples.
Another issue is that since making fun of others may not be an example of social status (sometimes it is), then it would not be advisable to try to be funny in this way (with women).

When does being funny work with women? When it signals nonchalance
Which means: don't be a jester, don't try to be forcibly funny
 
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Girls used to say I'm really funny all the time but if you're ugly like me, it doesn't make women attracted to you.

And no, making fun of people does NOT make you funny. If your humor revolves around making fun of others, or humiliating them, then you're not actually funny. Then you are just a piece of shit.

Funny guys can make people laugh with zero effort, without making fun of anyone, without hurting anyone's feelings.

My favorite compliment is still that one, when I was in college as 20 years old and this girl I barely spoke to said to me "You know, you don't talk much.. but when you do, you say the funniest things."

Bless that girl, hoping the best for her.
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What happens when funny+chad=?
 
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Girls used to say I'm really funny all the time but if you're ugly like me, it doesn't make women attracted to you.

And no, making fun of people does NOT make you funny. If your humor revolves around making fun of others, or humiliating them, then you're not actually funny. Then you are just a piece of shit.

Funny guys can make people laugh with zero effort, without making fun of anyone, without hurting anyone's feelings.

My favorite compliment is still that one, when I was in college as 20 years old and this girl I barely spoke to said to me "You know, you don't talk much.. but when you do, you say the funniest things."

Bless that girl, hoping the best for her.
Being gl makes you funny automatically
 
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Ik this cute girl in my uni, even thought I'm not nt or sm but whenever I say something or crack a light joke, she laughs her ass out like naturally, but only at my words. Maybe she likes me
 
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Ik this cute girl in my uni, even thought I'm not nt or sm but whenever I say something or crack a light joke, she laughs her ass out like naturally, but only at my words. Maybe she likes me
Maybe so, but females often laugh to signal social proactivity
 
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What about 6’7 HTN ?
Fucking chad but ngl, that's for male gaze only and appeal migh be low cz at that height girls feel intimidated or scared by the guy in general
 
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Fucking chad but ngl, that's for male gaze only and appeal migh be low cz at that height girls feel intimidated or scared by the guy in general
Nah
6’7 is the perfect height for a man
 
Maybe so, but females often laugh to signal social proactivity
Yeah maybe ig, but the weird thing is whenever I go to her group to meet our friends, they all dip after a while leaving just me and her alone
 
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Girls used to say I'm really funny all the time but if you're ugly like me, it doesn't make women attracted to you.
But if you're attractive it's an amplifying effect.
And no, making fun of people does NOT make you funny. If your humor revolves around making fun of others, or humiliating them, then you're not actually funny. Then you are just a piece of shit.

Funny guys can make people laugh with zero effort, without making fun of anyone, without hurting anyone's feelings.

My favorite compliment is still that one, when I was in college as 20 years old and this girl I barely spoke to said to me "You know, you don't talk much.. but when you do, you say the funniest things."
Not talking a lot is unattractive to women.

They've done studies, the guys who say the most words per minute, get the most girls in speed dating. But it's the same for pickup artists, you need a constant flow of words to keep their brain occupied.


Bless that girl, hoping the best for her.
You can compliment people too. It's a social skill.
 
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Yeah maybe ig, but the weird thing is whenever I go to her group to meet our friends, they all dip after a while leaving just me and her alone
Well, then get a move on
 
Nigga maybe you're 6'7 or you're trying to be 6'7 fs
Nah nigga

Tall begins at 6’5
6’4 is enough only if you’re Chadlite / Chad
If HTN n shit, 6’5 minimum
 
Nah nigga

Tall begins at 6’5
6’4 is enough only if you’re Chadlite / Chad
If HTN n shit, 6’5 minimum
I mean ngl, 6'5 is the most perfect height a man can ever have ,ideal height for me, but after that things starts to get more difficult, fitting into things and all that shit isn't that worth it
 
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But if you're attractive it's an amplifying effect
Probably talked shit behind his back
Happened to me a lot of times
Dem bitches in hs be tellin me that I was funny etc and told my friend that I was ugly af
 
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I mean ngl, 6'5 is the most perfect height a man can ever have ,ideal height for me, but after that things starts to get more difficult, fitting into things and all that shit isn't that worth it
6’5 ain’t a halo tbh
It’s a great height but the halo begins at 6’7

Austin Wayne and King68TheGreat
Insane iois they receive when they go outside
 
6’5 ain’t a halo tbh
It’s a great height but the halo begins at 6’7

Austin Wayne and King68TheGreat
Insane iois they receive when they go outside
Bruh how tall are you?
 
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6’5 ain’t a halo tbh
It’s a great height but the halo begins at 6’7

Austin Wayne and King68TheGreat
Insane iois they receive when they go outside
I fs know you're 14 or 13 lol
 
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Yeah, but the rest is way harder in dating, your personality can turn them off, speaking from my experience, i missed a good foid because i said some dumb shit, she was syrian that looked white passing.
Yes, if you have a good personality then it's game over. Women don't like good guys, especially when they're ugly. (Not saying I perceive myself as good or as someone with a good personality). Being nice is the ultimate drier of puss puss.
 
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Being a funny ugly male will get you punched

Ugly guys who try to be funny are perceived as annoying try hards
Well I don't try to be funny. I simply am. So... how are ugly guys like me perceived? Maybe slightly better but it doesn't matter when you're ugly like me.
 
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Keep telling yourself that to cope with the fact u put in 0 effort

I saw ugly ass niggas with gfs in school

Ugly guys do punch above their weight, especially with JBs
No, really. In the case of my former oneitis I only got rejected because I was and am too ugly for that person. Even though it's in the past now, pretty much the only reason that was valid back then and which is valid still is the fact I'm ugly. None of the rest matters then.
 
water post tbh:Comfy:
Is it really water? People still think they are funny simply because their "humor" consists of ripping on people.
 
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I look like Adrien Brody, according to a bunch of people. I don't see it, but yeah. Look, I understand there are plenty of girls and women who are attracted to him, but he's also white-passing, 6'1" and holds the record of being the youngest male actor to win an Oscar. If it wasn't for his fame, the same girls and women who deem him attractive wouldn't even make eye contact with him in the streets.
 
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There is a distinction to be made.
What does it mean to be funny? I don't dwell on why one is funny.

Taking the commonly used meaning, then making fun of others means being funny, the rest are personal scruples.
Another issue is that since making fun of others may not be an example of social status (sometimes it is), then it would not be advisable to try to be funny in this way (with women).

When does being funny work with women? When it signals nonchalance
Which means: don't be a jester, don't try to be forcibly funny
What it means to be funny: having people laugh with you, you put in zero effort.

What it means to be a jester: having people laugh at you, you put in effort and/or you make fun of others.
 
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Ik this cute girl in my uni, even thought I'm not nt or sm but whenever I say something or crack a light joke, she laughs her ass out like naturally, but only at my words. Maybe she likes me
If you aren't ugly, then yeah maybe she likes you. If you're ugly you're just funny. That or you're incredibly non NT and she's laughing at how retarded you are but highly doubt it.
 
Yeah maybe ig, but the weird thing is whenever I go to her group to meet our friends, they all dip after a while leaving just me and her alone
Okay sounds like she likes you. Her friends know this and so they leave so you two can talk to each other. Classic high school tactic.
 
But if you're attractive it's an amplifying effect.

Not talking a lot is unattractive to women.

They've done studies, the guys who say the most words per minute, get the most girls in speed dating. But it's the same for pickup artists, you need a constant flow of words to keep their brain occupied.



You can compliment people too. It's a social skill.
Yes, I'm saying it won't do anything for you if you're ugly like I am. I didn't know not talking a lot is unattractive to women. Like, if someone talks to me I'll start a convo but I sure as shit won't start on. Brootal. I'm already ugly and considered even more unattractive simply because I don't talk.
 
Yes, if you have a good personality then it's game over. Women don't like good guys, especially when they're ugly. (Not saying I perceive myself as good or as someone with a good personality). Being nice is the ultimate drier of puss puss.
Depends on what type they do have, but for most of them yeah it's indeed this case.
 
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