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Unless you have model looks DO NOT approach girls in these places
1. Grocery Store, Supermarket: In these places 99% of the time girls are busy shopping or just flat out not in the mood to talk to guys regardless of your approach. Also, if you ask a lady in front of a worker, the worker is probably going to white-knight and ask some question like "is he bothering you?"
2. Library, Classroom: Most of the guys here are probably still in school and have crushes in the classroom, and think this would be a comfortable environment to approach these girls. However, assuming she has her friends around and everyones staring, that's unnecessary pressure you're putting onto yourself. Also, even if nobody is paying attention, if she's busy with her studies she's going to tell you to fuck off.
3. Anywhere where she is with her family: This is probably the worst fucking idea you can have. Why would you think it's smart to go up to a girl asking for her number in front of her Mom or Dad or whoever. 90% of the time she is going to say NO even though she would have said yes if she was alone just because her family is with her.
4. Restaurant: Nobody wants to be bothered while they are eating, guy or girl.
5. Work: Same as I said earlier, you do not want to bother a girl while she is working, she is already frustrated with dealing with customers all day and her manager is probably watching her, also if you are holding up the line she's going to tell you to leave.
6. Gym: Countless videos online of girls recording guys at the gym that are making them uncomfortable and labelling them as "creeps" even if they are just looking at them.
Unless you have subhuman looks, DO approach girls in these places:
1. Bar, Club, Party: Probably the most common place where guys approach girls because of the energy and increased confidence, since this is a social setting, girls are going to be more open to socialize with you, but remember this does not guarantee you will be taking her home or getting her socials.
2. Dog Park: If you have a cute dog and you take it to the public park, this is going to ascend you lol. Girls like dogs, plain and simple. So if you take your dog to the park this is a gateway to a conversation with a girl who is admiring your dog.
3. Concert, Festival: Unless the girl is with her friends or she is heavily invested into the music, this is a great place to approach a girl, she's going be in a good mood and extremely energetic. People are going to be distracted with the music and this is a perfect chance for you to make a move without immense pressure, if you somehow fuck this chance up then its on you.
4. Amusement Park, Arcade, etc: This is also a great place to approach a girl, and you have great opportunities to go on rides with her, play games etc. Just make sure you don't approach her while she's distracted.
5. Museum: This is a solid place to approach a girl, if she's at a museum she's probably an open minded person and won't mind you going up to her, just be careful with your approach and don't say anything corny like "I don't know what's beautiful you or the art" lmaoo, it might work if you're a Chad though.
Let me know any places that you might suggest fall into one of these categories, or from your personal experiences.
1. Grocery Store, Supermarket: In these places 99% of the time girls are busy shopping or just flat out not in the mood to talk to guys regardless of your approach. Also, if you ask a lady in front of a worker, the worker is probably going to white-knight and ask some question like "is he bothering you?"
2. Library, Classroom: Most of the guys here are probably still in school and have crushes in the classroom, and think this would be a comfortable environment to approach these girls. However, assuming she has her friends around and everyones staring, that's unnecessary pressure you're putting onto yourself. Also, even if nobody is paying attention, if she's busy with her studies she's going to tell you to fuck off.
3. Anywhere where she is with her family: This is probably the worst fucking idea you can have. Why would you think it's smart to go up to a girl asking for her number in front of her Mom or Dad or whoever. 90% of the time she is going to say NO even though she would have said yes if she was alone just because her family is with her.
4. Restaurant: Nobody wants to be bothered while they are eating, guy or girl.
5. Work: Same as I said earlier, you do not want to bother a girl while she is working, she is already frustrated with dealing with customers all day and her manager is probably watching her, also if you are holding up the line she's going to tell you to leave.
6. Gym: Countless videos online of girls recording guys at the gym that are making them uncomfortable and labelling them as "creeps" even if they are just looking at them.
Unless you have subhuman looks, DO approach girls in these places:
1. Bar, Club, Party: Probably the most common place where guys approach girls because of the energy and increased confidence, since this is a social setting, girls are going to be more open to socialize with you, but remember this does not guarantee you will be taking her home or getting her socials.
2. Dog Park: If you have a cute dog and you take it to the public park, this is going to ascend you lol. Girls like dogs, plain and simple. So if you take your dog to the park this is a gateway to a conversation with a girl who is admiring your dog.
3. Concert, Festival: Unless the girl is with her friends or she is heavily invested into the music, this is a great place to approach a girl, she's going be in a good mood and extremely energetic. People are going to be distracted with the music and this is a perfect chance for you to make a move without immense pressure, if you somehow fuck this chance up then its on you.
4. Amusement Park, Arcade, etc: This is also a great place to approach a girl, and you have great opportunities to go on rides with her, play games etc. Just make sure you don't approach her while she's distracted.
5. Museum: This is a solid place to approach a girl, if she's at a museum she's probably an open minded person and won't mind you going up to her, just be careful with your approach and don't say anything corny like "I don't know what's beautiful you or the art" lmaoo, it might work if you're a Chad though.
Let me know any places that you might suggest fall into one of these categories, or from your personal experiences.