zerotohero
Roping soon
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Lately, I've been struggling with this weird dependency issue. It's like I can only find motivation to do things when I feel like this girl I'm talking to is into me. But the moment she goes silent or ghosts me, my entire drive just plummets, and I end up in a vicious cycle of procrastination and self-indulgence.
Instead of working on my projects, hitting the gym, or just doing anything productive, I find myself glued to my bed, mindlessly scrolling through TikTok, Instagram, and Looksmax.org. It's like I'm stuck in this rut, and I hate feeling like this.
So, my question is, how do I break free from this unhealthy reliance on external validation? How do I find the motivation to pursue my goals and passions regardless of whether she's interested or not?
Instead of working on my projects, hitting the gym, or just doing anything productive, I find myself glued to my bed, mindlessly scrolling through TikTok, Instagram, and Looksmax.org. It's like I'm stuck in this rut, and I hate feeling like this.
So, my question is, how do I break free from this unhealthy reliance on external validation? How do I find the motivation to pursue my goals and passions regardless of whether she's interested or not?