can't fucking get over my ltb oneitis

[lowinhibragecel]

its been like 2 years and at most she just gave me a bunch of iois nothing serious

even when another girl was talking to me i still kept thinking about my oneitis a lot

and now im in her class kinda near to her

my high inhib ass gets so fucking nervous i must look retarded to her

 

[incomplete]

can't we all?

 

[lowinhibragecel]

can't we all?

i think the only person i will ever love is her

 

[jflmeister]

stop developing oneitis for your own sake

 

[jflmeister]

watch rehab's video on lust induced cringemaxx syndrome

 

[lowinhibragecel]

watch rehab's video on lust induced cringemaxx syndrome

it is not lust

shes an amazing and kind person and her personality was so bubbly and joyful it was like pure lifefuel

 

[lowinhibragecel]

but we rehab room anyways

watch rehab's video on lust induced cringemaxx syndrome

 

[jflmeister]

it is not lust

shes an amazing and kind person and her personality was so bubbly and joyful it was like pure lifefuel

all of it is lust bro. that bubbly personality is just something she does with everyone. i had to learn this the hard way

 

[lowinhibragecel]

stop developing oneitis for your own sake

all of it is lust bro. that bubbly personality is just something she does with everyone. i had to learn this the hard way

wdym how is it lust can u explain

im js struggling a bit to understand am a bit tired

 

[jflmeister]

wdym how is it lust can u explain

im js struggling a bit to understand am a bit tired

all love and attraction is lust you're just rationalizing it to yourself. it's the same way girls will talk about how good a guy's personality when really all their experiencing is lust towards their genetics. it's the same thing here except your lack of SMV will cause you to obsess over her and put her on a pedestal when in reality she's interchangeable with the hundreds of other girls like her. just cut off this cancer before it grows into something that will hurt you. i am TELLING you that this is what you must do

 

[GoodLittleFoidBoy]

its been like 2 years and at most she just gave me a bunch of iois nothing serious

even when another girl was talking to me i still kept thinking about my oneitis a lot

and now im in her class kinda near to her

my high inhib ass gets so fucking nervous i must look retarded to her

I’m quite lucky to never think about past relationships, I only really had one half serious thing when I just turned 14 then I’ve been in a relationship for 3 years straight

 

[lowinhibragecel]

all love and attraction is lust you're just rationalizing it to yourself. it's the same way girls will talk about how good a guy's personality when really all their experiencing is lust towards their genetics. it's the same thing here except your lack of SMV will cause you to obsess over her and put her on a pedestal when in reality she's interchangeable with the hundreds of other girls like her. just cut off this cancer before it grows into something that will hurt you. i am TELLING you that this is what you must do

shit high iq reply

then do you think love is possible at all then or is it always just lust

 

[lowinhibragecel]

I’m quite lucky to never think about past relationships, I only really had one half serious thing when I just turned 14 then I’ve been in a relationship for 3 years straight

mirin the ltr

 

[GoodLittleFoidBoy]

mirin the ltr

My only advice on a relationship is really not communicating constantly, at certain points there’s nothing to talk about at all which just makes it dry

 

[lowinhibragecel]

My only advice on a relationship is really not communicating constantly, at certain points there’s nothing to talk about at all which just makes it dry

will remember if i ever get into a relationship in this life

 

[GoodLittleFoidBoy]

will remember if i ever get into a relationship in this life

Got lucky aswell getting in a relationship young, every girl you try to date now is gonna have 5+ body count, I’m lucky in my relationship the only body is me

 

[jflmeister]

shit high iq reply

then do you think love is possible at all then or is it always just lust

it's not possible and was never possible. get this into your head before you make a fool out of yourself.

i can tell you exactly how this is going to play out: you're going to approach her and she will give you her number or socials (THIS DOES NOT MEAN SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU MOST LIKELY IT IS JUST A WAY OF BEING FRIENDLY) and then you will talk to each other and get to know each other over a long period of time sometimes stretching over the entirety of a year. then you will invest time thinking about her texting her and hanging out with her as friends. then when you finally "confess" (again, she's not attracted to you because if she was she would have already made an attempt to be with you during the long period of time she's been texting/hanging out with you) you will be completely heartbroken. all of your expectations and images of this girl will completely shatter

let's not even get into the fact that girls are promiscuous and will probably get with other dudes WHILE YOU ARE TALKING TO HER. even if attraction was there INITIALLY all it takes is one better looking dude to come in and she will drop you instantly while still having you orbit her from the side.

do not develop oneitis. it will play out exactly how i described. don't even bother trying to find out for yourself whether this is true or not just take my advice at face value and wait for girls to approach you and show you definite IOIs. thank me later

 

[lowinhibragecel]

it's not possible and was never possible. get this into your head before you make a fool out of yourself.

i can tell you exactly how this is going to play out: you're going to approach her and she will give you her number or socials (THIS DOES NOT MEAN SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU MOST LIKELY IT IS JUST A WAY OF BEING FRIENDLY) and then you will talk to each other and get to know each other over a long period of time sometimes stretching over the entirety of a year. then you will invest time thinking about her texting her and hanging out with her as friends. then when you finally "confess" (again, she's not attracted to you because if she was she would have already made an attempt to be with you during the long period of time she's been texting/hanging out with you) you will be completely heartbroken. all of your expectations and images of this girl will completely shatter

let's not even get into the fact that girls are promiscuous and will probably get with other dudes WHILE YOU ARE TALKING TO HER. even if attraction was there INITIALLY all it takes is one better looking dude to come in and she will drop you instantly while still having you orbit her from the side.

do not develop oneitis. it will play out exactly how i described. don't even bother trying to find out for yourself whether this is true or not just take my advice at face value and wait for girls to approach you and show you definite IOIs. thank me later

yeah this reply is brutal and eye opening

i did have to find her socials

and she was dry all the time

and after she stopped talking to me she got with 2 guys who are like the oppsoite of me

fucking over

 

[lowinhibragecel]

it's not possible and was never possible. get this into your head before you make a fool out of yourself.

i can tell you exactly how this is going to play out: you're going to approach her and she will give you her number or socials (THIS DOES NOT MEAN SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU MOST LIKELY IT IS JUST A WAY OF BEING FRIENDLY) and then you will talk to each other and get to know each other over a long period of time sometimes stretching over the entirety of a year. then you will invest time thinking about her texting her and hanging out with her as friends. then when you finally "confess" (again, she's not attracted to you because if she was she would have already made an attempt to be with you during the long period of time she's been texting/hanging out with you) you will be completely heartbroken. all of your expectations and images of this girl will completely shatter

let's not even get into the fact that girls are promiscuous and will probably get with other dudes WHILE YOU ARE TALKING TO HER. even if attraction was there INITIALLY all it takes is one better looking dude to come in and she will drop you instantly while still having you orbit her from the side.

do not develop oneitis. it will play out exactly how i described. don't even bother trying to find out for yourself whether this is true or not just take my advice at face value and wait for girls to approach you and show you definite IOIs. thank me later

a few months ago this girl approached me by stalking and finding my instagram and she was like spam texting all the time and said she liked me and shit then after 2 months she said she isn't ready for a relationship and what not because she wants to focus on herself

what do you think of that

 

[jflmeister]

a few months ago this girl approached me by stalking and finding my instagram and she was like spam texting all the time and said she liked me and shit then after 2 months she said she isn't ready for a relationship and what not because she wants to focus on herself

what do you think of that

yeah like i said she probably found a better looking dude. but then again girls have bpd and will change their minds at the drop of a hat. i can't make any judgements on that kind of schizo.

think of it like this: when you try to find moths do you individually seek out moths and physically bring them to you or do you put up a lamp and wait for them to be attracted to the lamp? it's the same thing here. approaching girls and asking to be with them is essentially begging. it is low test activity and has a nonexistent ROI contrary to popular belief. it is fucking over for you if girls don't show interest