prettyboyswag
Iron
- Joined
- Nov 22, 2020
- Posts
- 159
- Reputation
- 291
College is supposed to be the easiest time of your life to slay. Meanwhile, as a "black" man, I can tell you with complete honesty that this is not the case for men who are non-white.
Who do I see in around campus going on dates with pretty girls and who are the men who have girls lined up for them to hit up on weekends? White normies in frats (not even necessarily top, selective frats) and sports teams. Black men, like myself, Asians, and Indians, are the ones sitting by themselves in class, or hanging out exclusively within their own racial group (and not out of choice).
I joined some organizations, which should have the added benefit of introducing me to women, but I got left on read after texting a white girl about getting lunch (something she suggested to me right before at a party). One funny added brutality is that the message she sent back was "Sorry, whose number is this?" My guess is that she realized she did not want to truly go on a date with a black man. This girl's skin was very pale and her maxilla was narrow, creating this kind of alien skull, but women's ego is so inflated nowadays that a 4 thinks shes a 9.
The other weekend, I tried going to some parties, not really to try and slay, but to try to either validate/contradict my theory of JBW in the dating world. My white friend was making the introductions (they probably would have ignored me if I tried to do it myself) and was kind of being the wingman for me. I would purposefully try creating a lull in the conversations to see how interested they were in keeping it going, but they weren't at all. Jfl at him telling me I need to work on my confidence. Confidence is not somehow learned inorganically. It is created by situations that validate you and make you understand that you should be confident, because you have been successful most times.
Some observations:
- Most of my white friends at least semi-regularly get hit up first by girls. A lot of them have instances that I've seen where a girl just selects them a party and starts grinding and making out with them.
- White men get rejected far less often when compared to their looksmatches across other ethnic groups. One rejection is far less disheartening when you have a stack of girls interested in you that you can hit up after.
Fighting against conditioned racial preferences (whites - the charming Leonardo Decaprio in Titanic, blacks - the hip-hop blasting thugs and rappers) is futile, and I know that, but I wish people stopped denying Just Be White Theory.
We get boosts in jobs and college applications for sure, but money and society are just human constructs, and will never make you happy. White people absolutely get white privilege in the dating world, which means first access to reproduction -- a biological need for your well-being.
Who do I see in around campus going on dates with pretty girls and who are the men who have girls lined up for them to hit up on weekends? White normies in frats (not even necessarily top, selective frats) and sports teams. Black men, like myself, Asians, and Indians, are the ones sitting by themselves in class, or hanging out exclusively within their own racial group (and not out of choice).
I joined some organizations, which should have the added benefit of introducing me to women, but I got left on read after texting a white girl about getting lunch (something she suggested to me right before at a party). One funny added brutality is that the message she sent back was "Sorry, whose number is this?" My guess is that she realized she did not want to truly go on a date with a black man. This girl's skin was very pale and her maxilla was narrow, creating this kind of alien skull, but women's ego is so inflated nowadays that a 4 thinks shes a 9.
The other weekend, I tried going to some parties, not really to try and slay, but to try to either validate/contradict my theory of JBW in the dating world. My white friend was making the introductions (they probably would have ignored me if I tried to do it myself) and was kind of being the wingman for me. I would purposefully try creating a lull in the conversations to see how interested they were in keeping it going, but they weren't at all. Jfl at him telling me I need to work on my confidence. Confidence is not somehow learned inorganically. It is created by situations that validate you and make you understand that you should be confident, because you have been successful most times.
Some observations:
- Most of my white friends at least semi-regularly get hit up first by girls. A lot of them have instances that I've seen where a girl just selects them a party and starts grinding and making out with them.
- White men get rejected far less often when compared to their looksmatches across other ethnic groups. One rejection is far less disheartening when you have a stack of girls interested in you that you can hit up after.
Fighting against conditioned racial preferences (whites - the charming Leonardo Decaprio in Titanic, blacks - the hip-hop blasting thugs and rappers) is futile, and I know that, but I wish people stopped denying Just Be White Theory.
We get boosts in jobs and college applications for sure, but money and society are just human constructs, and will never make you happy. White people absolutely get white privilege in the dating world, which means first access to reproduction -- a biological need for your well-being.
