Confidence maxxing isn’t cope

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I would say I’m a mtn but my inhibition has always been so bad that I’ve never been able to get a girl or approach a girl due to anxiety. For years I thought it was just because of my looks but in reality it’s because of how much I lurked and never took a move. Recently I have started to go up to random women and not care and I have gotten at least 3 women in the past few weeks. I genuinely think if you’re mtn you should confidence maxx and go out there instead of squinting all day and thinking a Stacy will come up to you. I wish the best for all of you brah. (Side note I do still think looks matter more but even a htn can’t pull if he stays in his room all day)
 
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Very true. But it's very hard to have that confidence as a mtn and below
 
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Recently I have started to go up to random women and not care and I have gotten at least 3 women in the past few weeks
how did you lower inhib?
 
how did you lower inhib?
For me ngl it was super hard but idk it just kinda happened. Instead of thinking about what I was gonna say I just do it just don’t even think just go to them as fast as possible so you can’t back out and ask them. The more you do it the easier it becomes. I’d also reccomend doing it to uglier/weirder girls at first so it’s easier and doing it in more secluded areas.
 
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Very true. But it's very hard to have that confidence as a mtn and below
Yeah as a ltn it might not work but try just going for girls you aren’t even attracted to at first like ugly or weird girls
 
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I would say I’m a mtn but my inhibition has always been so bad that I’ve never been able to get a girl or approach a girl due to anxiety. For years I thought it was just because of my looks but in reality it’s because of how much I lurked and never took a move. Recently I have started to go up to random women and not care and I have gotten at least 3 women in the past few weeks. I genuinely think if you’re mtn you should confidence maxx and go out there instead of squinting all day and thinking a Stacy will come up to you. I wish the best for all of you brah. (Side note I do still think looks matter more but even a htn can’t pull if he stays in his room all day)
I'm ltn.

Bro literally I don't even look at girls, just when I walk while they sit on a bench or are driving on their E-Scooter or something across, I start feeling shivers.
I can't walk straight anymore, I begin to sweat like I don't know, which is an issue wearing headphones, I always cheekbite, squint my eyebrows and raise my shoulders.

Happens with ltbs just aswell as some htbs.

Is that true incel?:feelswhy:
 
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Yeah as a ltn it might not work but try just going for girls you aren’t even attracted to at first like ugly or weird girls
a mtn will never understand how bad it can really be...
 
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I'm ltn.

Bro literally I don't even look at girls, just when I walk while they sit on a bench or are driving on their E-Scooter or something across, I start feeling shivers.
I can't walk straight anymore, I begin to sweat like I don't know, which is an issue wearing headphones, I always cheekbite, squint my eyebrows and raise my shoulders.

Happens with ltbs just aswell as some htbs.

Is that true incel?:feelswhy:
Hey dude I know it’s hard I am the same way but remember they REALLY don’t care at all and will forget you in seconds unless you actually do something. Who cares if some random ltb rejects you at least you did something in life. I’d reccomend you signing up for more social things just to get you out there and force yourself and maybe even get a hobby so it’s easier to approach ltbs. just remember although you can and will get rejected at least you know what happened instead of thinking it a thousand times over. You don’t actually know if a girl is gonna reject you unless you actually persue her.
 
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I would say I’m a mtn but my inhibition has always been so bad that I’ve never been able to get a girl or approach a girl due to anxiety. For years I thought it was just because of my looks but in reality it’s because of how much I lurked and never took a move. Recently I have started to go up to random women and not care and I have gotten at least 3 women in the past few weeks. I genuinely think if you’re mtn you should confidence maxx and go out there instead of squinting all day and thinking a Stacy will come up to you. I wish the best for all of you brah. (Side note I do still think looks matter more but even a htn can’t pull if he stays in his room all day)
Defintelly not cope,however if we are running equal hypothesis an equal confidente mtn and cl is always gonna end up on a unbalanced comparison. Having confidence is obviously important, girl are still gonna find you a little weird if you are strange at talking/flirting even if youre like a cl. At the end of the day looks is still the priority.
 
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Defintelly not cope,however if we are running equal hypothesis an equal confidente mtn and cl is always gonna end up on an unbalanced comparison. Having confidence is obviously important, girl are still gonna find you a little weird if you are strange at talking/flirting even if youre like a cl. At the end of the day looks is still the priority.
True but incels on TikTok keep blabbering on about how women should approach them lmao
 
mtn and a tomoko pfp... my culture is not your costume
It’s from a album also I was a ltn and incel (I’m still celibate) but I also don’t claim to be an incel anymore.
 
I would say I’m a mtn but my inhibition has always been so bad that I’ve never been able to get a girl or approach a girl due to anxiety. For years I thought it was just because of my looks but in reality it’s because of how much I lurked and never took a move. Recently I have started to go up to random women and not care and I have gotten at least 3 women in the past few weeks. I genuinely think if you’re mtn you should confidence maxx and go out there instead of squinting all day and thinking a Stacy will come up to you. I wish the best for all of you brah. (Side note I do still think looks matter more but even a htn can’t pull if he stays in his room all day)
this is a good post not “guide how to debloat or other shit “ unless ur a sub human u can approach easy in this days bc most of the mans never do the first step , drugs and alcohol can help a lot with anxiety or overthinking
 
I would say I’m a mtn but my inhibition has always been so bad that I’ve never been able to get a girl or approach a girl due to anxiety. For years I thought it was just because of my looks but in reality it’s because of how much I lurked and never took a move. Recently I have started to go up to random women and not care and I have gotten at least 3 women in the past few weeks. I genuinely think if you’re mtn you should confidence maxx and go out there instead of squinting all day and thinking a Stacy will come up to you. I wish the best for all of you brah. (Side note I do still think looks matter more but even a htn can’t pull if he stays in his room all day)
you are probably not mtn, probably higher. anyways yea confidence does matter but no amount of confidence saving a bad face.
 
Hey dude I know it’s hard I am the same way but remember they REALLY don’t care at all and will forget you in seconds unless you actually do something. Who cares if some random ltb rejects you at least you did something in life. I’d reccomend you signing up for more social things just to get you out there and force yourself and maybe even get a hobby so it’s easier to approach ltbs. just remember although you can and will get rejected at least you know what happened instead of thinking it a thousand times over. You don’t actually know if a girl is gonna reject you unless you actually persue her.
Yeah, thank you, but what I said isn't even about approaching them, just like when I go my way but when there's some foid sitting over there on a bench, maybe also walking in my direction or driving by. :lul:
 
you are probably not mtn, probably higher. anyways yea confidence does matter but no amount of confidence saving a bad face.
Yeah ofc but still sitting in the slums of your room won’t change your looks so might as well try at least lol
 
this is a good post not “guide how to debloat or other shit “ unless ur a sub human u can approach easy in this days bc most of the mans never do the first step , drugs and alcohol can help a lot with anxiety or overthinking
Yeah this is my first post like this kinda. I usually just ask for advice but I’ve noticed change recently.
 
you are probably not mtn, probably higher. anyways yea confidence does matter but no amount of confidence saving a bad face.
The highest rating I’ve got is low htn. But most put me at mtn
 
I would say I’m a mtn but my inhibition has always been so bad that I’ve never been able to get a girl or approach a girl due to anxiety. For years I thought it was just because of my looks but in reality it’s because of how much I lurked and never took a move. Recently I have started to go up to random women and not care and I have gotten at least 3 women in the past few weeks. I genuinely think if you’re mtn you should confidence maxx and go out there instead of squinting all day and thinking a Stacy will come up to you. I wish the best for all of you brah. (Side note I do still think looks matter more but even a htn can’t pull if he stays in his room all day)
Confidence and charisma is key, don’t care.
 
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indeed. mtn's with low inhib gets atleast same relationship ratio equal as chadlite lowinhib alltough they aren't attracted directly
 
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I would say I’m a mtn but my inhibition has always been so bad that I’ve never been able to get a girl or approach a girl due to anxiety. For years I thought it was just because of my looks but in reality it’s because of how much I lurked and never took a move. Recently I have started to go up to random women and not care and I have gotten at least 3 women in the past few weeks. I genuinely think if you’re mtn you should confidence maxx and go out there instead of squinting all day and thinking a Stacy will come up to you. I wish the best for all of you brah. (Side note I do still think looks matter more but even a htn can’t pull if he stays in his room all day)
completely agree.
you see popular kids all the time getting girls while being ugly as fuck.

focus on being nt and you will be fine.
 
completely agree.
you see popular kids all the time getting girls while being ugly as fuck.

focus on being nt and you will be fine.
I agree looks matter but most the time we are just overthinking
 
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