Do you know how nd you are perceived to others?

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I feel like i have a good feeling of how nd i can appear but some nd people really have no idea of it
@Vrilltrum27 @catboy09 @Wicket @blinkers
 
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Ngl I’m very “nd “ in my irl life I talk about it a lot I gotta stop
 
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Muh nd
 
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I’m literally known as “the fuckin weird cunt “ EVERYWHERE I go ,Idgaf I’m tryna mog no time or care for normies
 
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Ngl I’m very “nd “ in my irl life I talk about it a lot I gotta stop
I Act very autistic sometimes but atleast i know that and im conscious of it i feel bad for those who have 0 idea how nd they act
 
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I think ppl just see me as a quiet shy guy
 
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I feel like i have a good feeling of how nd i can appear but some nd people really have no idea of it
@Vrilltrum27 @catboy09 @Wicket @blinkers
I used to be so autistic in social interactions . That i would never approach my freinds if i saw them at mall or sm where. they'll thought that i was a egoistic narcissist :lul::lul:
 
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I used to be so autistic in social interactions . That i would never approach my freinds if i saw them at mall or sm where. they'll thought that i was a egoistic narcissist :lul::lul:
Im gonna stop approaching my friends way too jester
 
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I used to be so autistic in social interactions . That i would never approach my freinds if i saw them at mall or sm where. they'll thought that i was a egoistic narcissist :lul::lul:
Did they approach you?
 
I get seen as standoffish than ND
 
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one girl at my job really has no idea and even the weird fucks at work thinks shes weird.
 
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Im gonna stop approaching my friends way too jester
Nah nga don't do that u should just NTmax

Did they approach you?
Yes they did even then i tried to keep conversation short. But the good thing is now I developed some social skills and can have small conversations with my classmates but I'm still struggling to talk to new peoples
 
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Nah nga don't do that u should just NTmax
Imma just dial it back cuz i dont even view them as friends anymore dislike a majority of mfs i know
 
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What does she do?
All the standard neurodivergent shit. Lack of awareness towards her tone / volume of voice. Can't stay on task / remember something for the life of her. Will randomly start going on tangents about something minor brought up in conversations that have NOTHING to do with her. Hyperfixates about yeast and breadbaking.
 
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Imma just dial it back cuz i dont even view them as friends anymore dislike a majority of mfs i know
Well i was at your shoes last year . What i did was cut-off myself from every " friend " for few months then new school session started and i got myself in a new friend group and now i have pretty good freinds who understands me and even help me in social situations :owo:
 
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90 percent of “Nd” people here haven’t even bothered trying to socialise


They use it as an excuse for their lack of social confidence
 
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What does she do?
And she is slow to get a joke. My boss told a knock knock joke and she didn't get it until someone else broke it down like 7 times and even then she didn't find it funny bc she barely understood it when everyone else did
 
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90 percent of “Nd” people here haven’t even bothered trying to socialise


They use it as an excuse for their lack of social confidence
True true
 
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90 percent of “Nd” people here haven’t even bothered trying to socialise


They use it as an excuse for their lack of social confidence
facts ive met nd people whos been very outgoing
 
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And she is slow to get a joke. My boss told a knock knock joke and she didn't get it until someone else broke it down like 7 times and even then she didn't find it funny bc she barely understood it when everyone else did
Holy shi thats a new level of nd
 
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No matter how much i larp nt and perfect it, they will always be more normal
 
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All the standard neurodivergent shit. Lack of awareness towards her tone / volume of voice. Can't stay on task / remember something for the life of her. Will randomly start going on tangents about something minor brought up in conversations that have NOTHING to do with her. Hyperfixates about yeast and breadbaking.
Well atleast she can make bread thats something atleast
 
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Yes, the constant awareness and shame is extremely painful. I know it’s getting bad when people kind of laugh at me whenever I do something and give each other looks of disgust. A lot of times I don’t even realize what I’m doing wrong so at this point I think it’s just infected every part of who I am. Every single little behavior and micro mannerism must be wrong somehow. I am rotten and putrid to the core. I envy NDs who aren’t aware of it, it really fucks with your head. I just want to crawl under a rock and stay there for the rest of my life most of the time. This whole Looksmaxxing thing is really just a coping mechanism for me to feel even socially desirable by normies, instead of a joke or punching bag.
 
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nah the final level gotta be mute :feelshah: ive never met someone whos nd enough to not speak.
I think they keep those ones in group homes
 

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