Don’t solve problems that haven’t been created

[Dr. Mog]

Sounds like a strange title isn’t it but if you were an overthinker/ people pleaser before you’ll know exactly what I mean. It’s inbuilt that when you thought you hurt the feelings of someone, someone that’s probably has high self esteem and looks down upon you; you’ll try to correct yourself in order to reverse the guilt/ fear that you might have caused by…..over explaining. The moment I started withholding my tongue and kept talking to a minimum and only when required (most importantly with whoever required) my status has ascended further. Do not over explain, do not hold a guilt that you might have hurt someone whom you think has a higher authority than you with your words if they see you as below them. Be sharp and be quick, do not escalate too much but just know you are ready for any situation just in case.

Hence don’t solve problems that haven’t been created

~ coming from an ex over thinker/people pleaser who’s now a “g0 fUCk y0URselF” kind of person.

 

[Ch1gga]

Sounds like a strange title isn’t it but if you were an overthinker/ people pleaser before you’ll know exactly what I mean. It’s inbuilt that when you thought you hurt the feelings of someone, someone that’s probably has high self esteem and looks down upon you; you’ll try to correct yourself in order to reverse the guilt/ fear that you might have caused by…..over explaining. The moment I started withholding my tongue and kept talking to a minimum and only when required (most importantly with whoever required) my status has ascended further. Do not over explain, do not hold a guilt that you might have hurt someone whom you think has a higher authority than you with your words if they see you as below them. Be sharp and be quick, do not escalate too much but just know you are ready for any situation just in case.

Hence don’t solve problems that haven’t been created

~ coming from an ex over thinker/people pleaser who’s now a “g0 fUCk y0URselF” kind of person.

DNRD.

 

[Dr. Mog]

DNRD.

That’s ok, there aren’t much better threads below or above this today so you should probably just log off.

 

[Ch1gga]

That’s ok, there aren’t much better threads below or above this today so you should probably just log off.

DNRD.. zzzzzzzzzzz.

 

[lemureater]

Dr and good advice

 

[Sycophant]

Sounds like a strange title isn’t it but if you were an overthinker/ people pleaser before you’ll know exactly what I mean. It’s inbuilt that when you thought you hurt the feelings of someone, someone that’s probably has high self esteem and looks down upon you; you’ll try to correct yourself in order to reverse the guilt/ fear that you might have caused by…..over explaining. The moment I started withholding my tongue and kept talking to a minimum and only when required (most importantly with whoever required) my status has ascended further. Do not over explain, do not hold a guilt that you might have hurt someone whom you think has a higher authority than you with your words if they see you as below them. Be sharp and be quick, do not escalate too much but just know you are ready for any situation just in case.

Hence don’t solve problems that haven’t been created

~ coming from an ex over thinker/people pleaser who’s now a “g0 fUCk y0URselF” kind of person.

over exertion of effort that isn't reciprocated.

You talk on a point that I think can be interpreted in both ways, the example you used is one of the two extremes - by minimising your own output to make any received effort highly efficient in the input/output ratio.

At the same time maintaining a large amount of output that imposes a more confident mental posture, really disputes the effort you put in to each individual interaction.

These two examples are both extremes, but I think the former is most practical in every sense. Anecdotally, unless I'm associating myself with retards in a particular setting - being efficient with my output/input makes me look less desperate.

Aassociating yourself with people pleasing is also a post-curser of validation seeking (something that deserves an entire thread, discussing how it occurs and the effect it has on how people function differently if they had ample validation). It's hard to combat because the cause of a lack in intrinsic understanding (causing the need for external validation) is cured by something I haven't found myself yet.

- lmk if you have anything to expand on my thoughts piece of validation seeking

This whole post is a good observation - as always Doc.

 

[HXTRED999]

Sounds like a strange title isn’t it but if you were an overthinker/ people pleaser before you’ll know exactly what I mean. It’s inbuilt that when you thought you hurt the feelings of someone, someone that’s probably has high self esteem and looks down upon you; you’ll try to correct yourself in order to reverse the guilt/ fear that you might have caused by…..over explaining. The moment I started withholding my tongue and kept talking to a minimum and only when required (most importantly with whoever required) my status has ascended further. Do not over explain, do not hold a guilt that you might have hurt someone whom you think has a higher authority than you with your words if they see you as below them. Be sharp and be quick, do not escalate too much but just know you are ready for any situation just in case.

Hence don’t solve problems that haven’t been created

~ coming from an ex over thinker/people pleaser who’s now a “g0 fUCk y0URselF” kind of person.

Law 4 - Don't talk too much

 

[DNR_]

Law 4 - Don't talk too much

Law 5 - Humanity needs to be wiped off of the face of the earth.

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

DNRD.

Faggot behind the screen

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

Law 5 - Humanity needs to be wiped off of the face of the earth.

Law 4 is easier to obey

 

[Ch1gga]

Faggot behind the screen
View attachment 4831972

? What’s this? Is this you?

Jester #2 jfled low effort bullshit directed toward me looking like this.

@negativ_canthalshit @Ahmed88

 

[HXTRED999]

Law 5 - Humanity needs to be wiped off of the face of the earth.

I'm doing my best to help this through spreading the blackpill and missinformation

 

[DNR_]

View attachment 4832021
? What’s this? Is this you?

View attachment 4832027
Jester #2 jfled low effort bullshit directed toward me looking like this.

@negativ_canthalshit @Ahmed88

i wasnt even speaking to you, how are you so pressed im not even talking to you

 

[fantasea]

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[i cant lie cant lie]

View attachment 4832021
? What’s this? Is this you?

View attachment 4832027
Jester #2 jfled low effort bullshit directed toward me looking like this.

@negativ_canthalshit @Ahmed88

That's you in guanhong slums

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

i wasnt even speaking to you, how are you so pressed im not even talking to you

The guy is deadass stupid

He insults me with a "no u" and then starts flaming you for absolutely no reason

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

i wasnt even speaking to you, how are you so pressed im not even talking to you

Deadass catching strays

 

[DNR_]

The guy is deadass stupid

He insults me with a "no u" and then starts flaming you for absolutely no reason

i caught a stray for no reason
slow niggas on .org are very common and easy to identify, observe the retard from a distance like a national geographic episode

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

i caught a stray for no reason
slow niggas on .org are very common and easy to identify, observe the retard from a distance like a national geographic episode

Just let these people rot in their slums.

The ricecel is GENIUNELY BEWILDERED.

Bro this nigga tagged his little boyfriends too fagmaxxed

 

[masai jumps enjoyer]

good thread, can be applied on a small scale also. Instead of trying to predict every question and nitpick in advance just keep your message to the minimum and answer all the questions only once they are actually asked

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

good thread, can be applied on a small scale also. Instead of trying to predict every question and nitpick in advance just keep your message to the minimum and answer all the questions only once they are actually asked

There's 2 principles I'd like to employ:
1. Defensive
Call them out and make a statement [that can start a debate]
Example:
Someone says looksmaxxing is dumb
Reply: "Looksmaxxing isn't stupid." then follow with "It's crucial". If they don't reply, whatever. If they reply, they'll attack the importance of looksmax. Rather than the rational/point of looksmaxxing, which is harder to debate since it's more philosophical.

2. Annihilation
Example:
Someone says looks don't matter
"Looks matter. Would you tell the kid with Micrognathia that he shouldn't get DJS since looks dont matter, when he has suffered his whole life, prejudiced?"
This instantly attacks the person and plays with emotion. We use an extremely nuanced example [the micrognathic kid] and exaggerate his suffering [the prejudice, from bullying, etc, although usually micrognathic horror isnt an exaggeration. But you could, for the sake of using even more emotion]

This is actually likely to be answered.

If they reply? Answer every single point, and introduce a new argument every single time you disprove all their points.
If they are Fallacious? Point it out, and mock them. There's tons of logical fallacies.
Or you could say that "that isn't logical btw" or "that makes 0 sense in principle". It puts you back in the defensive. Then when they reply, you just say it was a logical fallacy, hence it's illogical. If you just say "Ad hominem" or "Red herring" instead of defense, they won't care. You could also just start insulting them while explaining how the insults actually have a foundation.

Example:
They end their argument with "you're uneducated hope this helps"

Call them out telling how insufferable and apathetic they are. They don't know if we are educated or not yet they still say it, so they dont care about what they say. Then call them apathetic since They don't care about the magnitude of their words. And end it with "nobody loves you" "people hate you IRL for this"






Seriously, why did I write all this?

 

[clavicular2.0]

Sounds like a strange title isn’t it but if you were an overthinker/ people pleaser before you’ll know exactly what I mean. It’s inbuilt that when you thought you hurt the feelings of someone, someone that’s probably has high self esteem and looks down upon you; you’ll try to correct yourself in order to reverse the guilt/ fear that you might have caused by…..over explaining. The moment I started withholding my tongue and kept talking to a minimum and only when required (most importantly with whoever required) my status has ascended further. Do not over explain, do not hold a guilt that you might have hurt someone whom you think has a higher authority than you with your words if they see you as below them. Be sharp and be quick, do not escalate too much but just know you are ready for any situation just in case.

Hence don’t solve problems that haven’t been created

~ coming from an ex over thinker/people pleaser who’s now a “g0 fUCk y0URselF” kind of person.

stop overexplaining yourself to people who don't even respect you

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

There's 2 principles I'd like to employ:
1. Defensive
Call them out and make a statement [that can start a debate]
Example:
Someone says looksmaxxing is dumb
Reply: "Looksmaxxing isn't stupid." then follow with "It's crucial". If they don't reply, whatever. If they reply, they'll attack the importance of looksmax. Rather than the rational/point of looksmaxxing, which is harder to debate since it's more philosophical.

2. Annihilation
Example:
Someone says looks don't matter
"Looks matter. Would you tell the kid with Micrognathia that he shouldn't get DJS since looks dont matter, when he has suffered his whole life, prejudiced?"
This instantly attacks the person and plays with emotion. We use an extremely nuanced example [the micrognathic kid] and exaggerate his suffering [the prejudice, from bullying, etc, although usually micrognathic horror isnt an exaggeration. But you could, for the sake of using even more emotion]

This is actually likely to be answered.

If they reply? Answer every single point, and introduce a new argument every single time you disprove all their points.
If they are Fallacious? Point it out, and mock them. There's tons of logical fallacies.
Or you could say that "that isn't logical btw" or "that makes 0 sense in principle". It puts you back in the defensive. Then when they reply, you just say it was a logical fallacy, hence it's illogical. If you just say "Ad hominem" or "Red herring" instead of defense, they won't care. You could also just start insulting them while explaining how the insults actually have a foundation.

Example:
They end their argument with "you're uneducated hope this helps"

Call them out telling how insufferable and apathetic they are. They don't know if we are educated or not yet they still say it, so they dont care about what they say. Then call them apathetic since They don't care about the magnitude of their words. And end it with "nobody loves you" "people hate you IRL for this"






Seriously, why did I write all this?

I deploy these methods in TikTok comments, I've never lost an argument on that app. If my comment has 50 replies, 25 of them are mine.

 

[Dr. Mog]

Seriously, why did I write all this?

Instagram comment section final boss. Good comment you’re written here.

Repped all because you are high IQ and thanks for the evisceration of that ching above. I mean bro I’m not pressed but if you aren’t able to read atleast a paragraph of text and only good enough to comment dnrd why are you even in the forum

@DNR_

 

[masai jumps enjoyer]

I deploy these methods in TikTok comments, I've never lost an argument on that app. If my comment has 50 replies, 25 of them are mine.

methods are pretty good but genuinely arguing with tiktok iqcels is retarted in itself tbh

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

methods are pretty good but genuinely arguing with tiktok iqcels is retarted in itself tbh

Especially the "save the polar bear" mfs literally take 3 points to fully shut down

 

[i cant lie cant lie]

Instagram comment section final boss. Good comment you’re written here.

Repped all because you are high IQ and thanks for the evisceration of that ching above. I mean bro I’m not pressed but if you aren’t able to read atleast a paragraph of text and only good enough to comment dnrd why are you even in the forum

@DNR_

That kid is bitter everywhere haha