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How to cope with expectations being so far off from reality in life?

Never would I have thought to end up as a 23yo KHHV incel. Seen as unattractive worthless shit by women.
Never would I have thought to end up as an unvalued, underpaid, overtaxed wageslave. Even though I am top 1% in IQ and academic achievement, it's useless.
Never would I have thought to end up with mediocre to non-existant friendgroups.
Never would I have thought to end up with a boring-ass life.

Etc.

Frankly at this point I am wondering what a man can do that is lead towards a life like this since his childhood. Trained, educated and indoctrinated into this path.

I feel completely alone in life, because most people seem to 'accept' this shit-tier life and tell me to 'accept' it aswell. And as a human I have this trashtier tendency to want to fit in.

Thoughts?
 
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fuck...:feelswhy:
 
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We will win, with frencoin
 
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Never would I have thought to end up as a 23yo KHHV incel. Seen as unattractive worthless shit by women
Stopped reading right there. OP has had sex and a girlfriend.
 
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Stopped reading right there. OP has had sex and a girlfriend.
I briefly had a girlfriend for less than 4 months after being KHHV for 23.5 years.
Idk what your point is, are you envious of my romances and sex-life? Cuz you really shouldn't be.
 
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Idk what your point is, are you envious of my romances and sex-life? Cuz you really shouldn't be.
yes I’m a 32 y/o aspie khhv @WontStopNorwooding
 
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Yea he’s wrong. It resets every month.
It does. No sex for a month is kinda subhuman if you are living in a big city where you 'should' have plenty of opportunities.
 
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yes I’m a 32 y/o aspie khhv @WontStopNorwooding
Then we should relate as we are both part of an incel minority in the world. As a 32yo khhv you are bottom 1%. As a 23yo khhv I was prob something like bottom 3%.

Making further distinctions at this level doesn't serve a purpose.
 
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OP has like 15 slays and good education/job and larps incel and that his life sucks
 
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funny thing is op is a 6’0 SOLID HTN and white

:lul::eek:
 
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OP has like 15 slays and good education/job and larps incel and that his life sucks
op's been going to uni for about 7 years now, wtf is he doing??
 
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Then we should relate as we are both part of an incel minority in the world. As a 32yo khhv you are bottom 1%. As a 23yo khhv I was prob something like bottom 3%.

Making further distinctions at this level doesn't serve a purpose.
I’ll ascend hopefully once I get lifts and skin lightening cream
 
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OP has like 15 slays and good education/job and larps incel and that his life sucks
I am somewhere near 6 slays with no meaningfull relationships so far.

Education/job doesn't matter at all for life quality. Idk what ur point is.
 
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op's been going to uni for about 7 years now, wtf is he doing??
8 years, and in for another 3+ years. Why wageslave? It's no way out of this misery so I don't bother finishing my degree.

Rather ldar. The netherlands is a shit-tier country where you have 0 decent career prospects or life quality prospects.

Tired of being discriminated against for being polish.
 
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poor you

you claimed more slays earlier though
idk why youre on this forum with this incels.is attitude.

'oh my god a girl stared at you? fakecel out reeeee'

this is not an incel forum so fuckoff
 
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How to cope with expectations being so far off from reality in life?

Never would I have thought to end up as a 23yo KHHV incel. Seen as unattractive worthless shit by women.
Never would I have thought to end up as an unvalued, underpaid, overtaxed wageslave. Even though I am top 1% in IQ and academic achievement, it's useless.
Never would I have thought to end up with mediocre to non-existant friendgroups.
Never would I have thought to end up with a boring-ass life.

Etc.

Frankly at this point I am wondering what a man can do that is lead towards a life like this since his childhood. Trained, educated and indoctrinated into this path.

I feel completely alone in life, because most people seem to 'accept' this shit-tier life and tell me to 'accept' it aswell. And as a human I have this trashtier tendency to want to fit in.

Thoughts?

I've seen your pics, you are not ugly nor are the women you attract.

You are just are aspie. The blackpill is real but most of it won't directly effect you.

Above average, tall, white, in prime youth. No physical health ailments. In the past this was the pinnacle of privalage and pretty much is today.

You could be in such a worst state where the blackpill directly effects you.

Join a university society that goes to clubs and bars instead of socialising with indoor stem geeks.

Join a sports society, join a hiking or traveling society.

Go down the degenerate route even and join some porn site as an actor or something.
 
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idk why youre on this forum with this incels.is attitude.

'oh my god a girl stared at you? fakecel out reeeee'

this is not an incel forum so fuckoff
I don't have incel.is attitude you're literally a good looking guy larping as some truecel and whining about how much your life sucks when you have a gf and multiple slays
 
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You looked good with short hair plus lean
get back in shape
 
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I've seen your pics, you are not ugly nor are the women you attract.

You are just are aspie. The blackpill is real but most of it won't directly effect you.

Above average, tall, white, in prime youth. No physical health ailments. In the past this was the pinnacle of privalage and pretty much is today.

You could be in such a worst state where the blackpill directly effects you.

Join a university society that goes to clubs and bars instead of socialising with indoor stem geeks.

Join a sports society, join a hiking or traveling society.

Go down the degenerate route even and join some porn site as an actor or something.
He's not even aspie he's just whiny and pretends that his life sucks to get attention on the internet
 
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He's not even aspie he's just whiny and pretends that his life sucks to get attention on the internet

I think he is aspie his thought patterns are high IQ and is very aware of the blackpill and it's effect in detail.

He takes it to such an extreme that when something good happens to him he will sabotage and distort it with blackpill analysis.
 
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Reminder every OP´s thread is an essay equivalent of “fuck you all“ scene in 25th Hour with Edward Norton. Meanwhile, this guy has lived a greaterlife than most incels here.
 
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He's not even aspie he's just whiny and pretends that his life sucks to get attention on the internet
What no teen pussy does to a MF
 
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I've seen your pics, you are not ugly nor are the women you attract.
I don't attract women, I cope with crumbs and drunk ONS.

You are just are aspie. The blackpill is real but most of it won't directly effect you.
I was tested tested negative on aspie tests.

Above average, tall, white, in prime youth. No physical health ailments. In the past this was the pinnacle of privalage and pretty much is today.
I am not tall for my country. White doesn't mean anything in a white country. I have no family, no friends, and live in poverty. + suffer from personality disorders and depression.


You could be in such a worst state where the blackpill directly effects you.
Which was all my life before I looksmaxxed? it still affects me to this day. Being above average doesn't even mean anything when the average person live the life of a NPC, they arent my competition.

Join a university society that goes to clubs and bars instead of socialising with indoor stem geeks.

Join a sports society, join a hiking or traveling society.
Did all that in 2018-2020 when I socialmaxxed and realized I dont fit in with the privileged university normie crowd.
 
I don't have incel.is attitude you're literally a good looking guy larping as some truecel and whining about how much your life sucks when you have a gf and multiple slays
Because I am a truecel. 23.5yo KHHV. That alone makes me bottom 5% even on this forum since it's mostly just teenagers here where it's still 'normal' to be KHHV.
 
You looked good with short hair plus lean
get back in shape
Unfortunately I was incel untill I grew out my hair. Girls have told me I looked like a 'fuckboy' with short hair which means it's over for you fi you don't also act like a fuckboy.
 
I think he is aspie his thought patterns are high IQ and is very aware of the blackpill and it's effect in detail.
I am not aspie, or I am somehow able to fraud professional aspie tests from psychiatrists?
He takes it to such an extreme that when something good happens to him he will sabotage and distort it with blackpill analysis.
Nothing good has happened to me except 1 mediocre relationships and a few ONS where I got rejected afterwards. And a lot of failed firstdates (30+). I wish good things would start happening to me.
 
How to cope with expectations being so far off from reality in life?

Never would I have thought to end up as a 23yo KHHV incel. Seen as unattractive worthless shit by women.
Never would I have thought to end up as an unvalued, underpaid, overtaxed wageslave. Even though I am top 1% in IQ and academic achievement, it's useless.
Never would I have thought to end up with mediocre to non-existant friendgroups.
Never would I have thought to end up with a boring-ass life.

Etc.

Frankly at this point I am wondering what a man can do that is lead towards a life like this since his childhood. Trained, educated and indoctrinated into this path.

I feel completely alone in life, because most people seem to 'accept' this shit-tier life and tell me to 'accept' it aswell. And as a human I have this trashtier tendency to want to fit in.

Thoughts?
Imagine being born as a white HTN in one of the most advanced countries in the world and still complain and rot on forums? OP you're indeed a loser.

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Reminder every OP´s thread is an essay equivalent of “fuck you all“ scene in 25th Hour with Edward Norton. Meanwhile, this guy has lived a greaterlife than most incels here.
How many incels were 23.5yo khhv's here? I am bottom percentile even on incel forums. Only the likes of @Over compete with my suffering.
 
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Imagine being born as a white HTN in one of the most advanced countries in the world and still complain and rot on forums? OP you're indeed a loser.

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I'd rather slay in India, than be an incel in the netherlands. How 'advanced' your shitty country is, doesnt mean a damn thing. Advanced in what?

The netherlands is a fucking shit country, people cope with how 'rich' it is. But it is only rich for the elites, for the wealthy class. I come from an impoverished shit family and in the netherlands that means you have no way out, no way to climb the social ladder.

It's impossible to go from poor to rich in the netherlands, easier to do this anywhere else.

Also jfl i wasnt born as HTN. I was 3PSL subhuman untill I was 21yo idk why u make up random shit.

I am not even fucking white, I am polish. Slavs aren't white.
 
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He's not even aspie he's just whiny and pretends that his life sucks to get attention on the internet
Good looking
Not a manlet
Fairly Smart
Career on the way
Got slays under bit belt


Happiness mogged by some subhuman indian kid who bath in shit :D
 
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Unfortunately I was incel untill I grew out my hair. Girls have told me I looked like a 'fuckboy' with short hair which means it's over for you fi you don't also act like a fuckboy.
This means your good looking
 
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How to cope with expectations being so far off from reality in life?

Never would I have thought to end up as a 23yo KHHV incel. Seen as unattractive worthless shit by women.
Never would I have thought to end up as an unvalued, underpaid, overtaxed wageslave. Even though I am top 1% in IQ and academic achievement, it's useless.
Never would I have thought to end up with mediocre to non-existant friendgroups.
Never would I have thought to end up with a boring-ass life.

Etc.

Frankly at this point I am wondering what a man can do that is lead towards a life like this since his childhood. Trained, educated and indoctrinated into this path.

I feel completely alone in life, because most people seem to 'accept' this shit-tier life and tell me to 'accept' it aswell. And as a human I have this trashtier tendency to want to fit in.

Thoughts?
What subreddit did you copy this from?
 
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I am not aspie, or I am somehow able to fraud professional aspie tests from psychiatrists?

Nothing good has happened to me except 1 mediocre relationships and a few ONS where I got rejected afterwards. And a lot of failed firstdates (30+). I wish good things would start happening to me.

Study this picture .

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The story is about the conditioning of elephants in the circus, they get beaten down to think that some small peg in the ground can hold them down.

The reality is that, that elephant can easily break free at anytime it wants with ease but its mind has limitations on it.

Yes i know its redpill mantra but i see way too many examples of you having opportunities but then you self sabotage it.

You had countless women on tinder - called them ugly or sometimes you ain't worth it.

No effort to join the clubing society ect to go out 5 times a week ect.


The blackpill is real but you are disproportionately applying its effects onto yourself. Just like the elephant story

If you were a truecel you would have my sympathies.
 

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Then we should relate as we are both part of an incel minority in the world. As a 32yo khhv you are bottom 1%. As a 23yo khhv I was prob something like bottom 3%.

Making further distinctions at this level doesn't serve a purpose.
You have to stop falling for larps. @looksmaxxer234 is 19 yo and slays whenever he wants.
 
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Good looking
Average-Slightly above average. Nothing special.
Not a manlet
Not tall either. Average height.
Fairly Smart
128IQ tested. Which is actually a huge lifemin as I have posted about here many times. The higher your IQ, the lower your life quality. It's a terrible trait.
Career on the way
No. There's no way I will ever function in a career/working-place environment. I have been stuck at the same place in my studies for 5+ years now because I am dysfunctional and gave up after being discriminated by a racist (anti-polish) study-advisor that sabotaged my studies for half a year. Made me realize that it's not about your performance, but about the privileges you are born with, which I am not born with.
Got slays under bit belt
At an age way too late, with no real relationship experience. I am WAY behind in terms of romantic experiences compared to the average person my age. It's a huge disadvantage. 23yo khhv is bottom 3% in romance.
Happiness mogged by some subhuman indian kid who bath in shit :D
Well ofcourse. Because your life circumstances are relative, not absolute.

A millionaire surrounded by billionaires will be unhappier with his wealth than a middle-class person surrounded by poor people. Idk why u find this hard to understand.

The demands of society of what I am supposed to achieve with my 'talents' and 'privileges of being born in the netherlands' are far higher than any demands that kid will ever have and it will make his life much better compared to mine.
 
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Go down the degenerate route even and join some porn site as an actor or something.
This.

How do not incels come to this solution, become porn actor and never be incel again. :feelsuhh:
 
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dnrd but euron greyjoy avi means you're based so i agree
 
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How to cope with expectations being so far off from reality in life?

Never would I have thought to end up as a 23yo KHHV incel. Seen as unattractive worthless shit by women.
Never would I have thought to end up as an unvalued, underpaid, overtaxed wageslave. Even though I am top 1% in IQ and academic achievement, it's useless.
Never would I have thought to end up with mediocre to non-existant friendgroups.
Never would I have thought to end up with a boring-ass life.

Etc.

Frankly at this point I am wondering what a man can do that is lead towards a life like this since his childhood. Trained, educated and indoctrinated into this path.

I feel completely alone in life, because most people seem to 'accept' this shit-tier life and tell me to 'accept' it aswell. And as a human I have this trashtier tendency to want to fit in.

Thoughts?
Youre ugly
 
He’s normie tbh
Nah I don't think so. I've seen worse looking white dudes go viral on tiktok. Requirement for going viral on tiktok is at least HTN. Rate both this dude and @Syobevoli on psl

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