Faking NT

[djr1]

How do I fit in like a normal person? I have never been funny, and I don't think it's a possibility to progress it. It also seems like everyone can tell that I'm nd.

 

[saintdestroyer]

You can't really, it's wired in your brain lol

 

[Odinsen]

How do I fit in like a normal person? I have never been funny, and I don't think it's a possibility to progress it. It also seems like everyone can tell that I'm nd.

the biggest giveaways of you being ND is 1. avoiding eye contact 2. Body posture and finally 3. When you open your mouth. Fixing the first 2 is the most important and easier to do at home (Stare at a mirror if u want to do practice and emulate a relaxed posture). The third is the most difficult one, but I recommend you being more empathic, listening to what people say, and ask / give feedback based on that.

Remember, fake it till you make it. also rep (like) me baby

 

[djr1]

the biggest giveaways of you being ND is 1. avoiding eye contact 2. Body posture and finally 3. When you open your mouth. Fixing the first 2 is the most important and easier to do at home (Stare at a mirror if u want to do practice and emulate a relaxed posture). The third is the most difficult one, but I recommend you being more empathic, listening to what people say, and ask / give feedback based on that.

Remember, fake it till you make it. also rep (like) me baby

What if the people that I want to fit in with are dickheads and iqlets (I only want to fit in with them more bc I play sports with them)

 

[Odinsen]

What if the people that I want to fit in with are dickheads and iqlets (I only want to fit in with them more bc I play sports with them)

you are always an average of the people you commute with. Either 1. You will end up more like them (a dickhead and iqlet, as you say) as time goes, or 2. It won't work out and you'll have to find other groups.

 

[djr1]

you are always an average of the people you commute with. Either 1. You will end up more like them (a dickhead and iqlet, as you say) as time goes, or 2. It won't work out and you'll have to find other groups.

I'm not looking to hang out with them or anything like that, it's just for my prosperity in the sports. If they think I'm a weirdo, they won't pass me the ball.

 

[Canthus23]

If they think I'm a weirdo, they won't pass me the ball.

exactly why 99.999% dont go pro