First successful, unsuccessful, cold-approach in more than a year probably.

[forevergymcelling]

@6ft4 motivation fuel

 

[6ft4]

congrats

You still had reasons outside of your control as to why you were forced to cross paths though
There was evidence for her that you have a job and she also had to remain polite so as not to come across like a bitch since word could get around if she was rude to you for no reason

Anyone reading this who tries an approach like this on a piercings covered girl out of the street is risking an IOD and a rude rejection

 

[Primalsplit]

I think you're legit turning your life around.

 

[MoggerGaston]

congrats

You still had reasons outside of your control as to why you were forced to cross paths though
There was evidence for her that you have a job and she also had to remain polite so as not to come across like a bitch since word could get around if she was rude to you for no reason

Anyone reading this who tries an approach like this on a piercings covered girl out of the street is risking an IOD and a rude rejection

fair enough.
I was also dressed/styled really well for the company event, I often look like a low-class guy wearing a track-suit when I go to the local grocery store lmao. approach with those clothes wouldn't be as well received I guess.

it was indeed a perfect storm, but i can see this work out in less ideal circumstances too.

 

[MoggerGaston]

I think you're legit turning your life around.

innit, life feels easier now these last weeks.

less mental/emotional burden, more open-minded.

 

[6ft4]

fair enough.
I was also dressed/styled really well for the company event, I often look like a low-class guy wearing a track-suit when I go to the local grocery store lmao. approach with those clothes wouldn't be as well received I guess.

it was indeed a perfect storm, but i can see this work out in less ideal circumstances too.

Not trying to discredit what you did, it could have went the same in less ideal circumstances but I feel like hammering the circumstance pill since my circumtsances are shit and causing me to wallow in misery

 

[MoggerGaston]

Not trying to discredit what you did, it could have went the same in less ideal circumstances but I feel like hammering the circumstance pill since my circumtsances are shit and causing me to wallow in misery

I find most of my romantic/social opportunities coming from my job rn, but it's only the (social)-events, trainings, etc. which give them. And there's months in between those. Will be 2 months or so till the next event.

All the normal time working the actual job every week, day, has 0 social/romantic merit. It's fucked tbh. Shitty job.

I am just trying to find ways to get these ideal circumstances more often now. Maybe once every 1-2 weeks instead of every 2-3 months would be pretty massive for life opportunity.

 

[Entschuldigung]

Asian

 

[Eternal_]

She looks revolting

 

[MoggerGaston]

Asian

She looks revolting

and ppl here call me standardcel

strange innit, when I crush on girls like this

 

[Orvka381]

Whatever makes you happy man.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Whatever makes you happy man.

shit reply

 

[Orvka381]

shit reply

Thanks

 

[Tr0ubLe]

Good job bro. I gotta start apporaching bitches

 

[MoggerGaston]

Good job bro. I gotta start apporaching bitches

extreme rarity that women reject you positively. i cant recommend approaching ngl

 

[Tr0ubLe]

extreme rarity that women reject you positively. i cant recommend approaching ngl

I wouldn't approach unless I get IOIs before. Im getting a lot of signals but I don't act on them or anything

 

[MoggerGaston]

I wouldn't approach unless I get IOIs before. Im getting a lot of signals but I don't act on them or anything

mirin chad

i never get any signals, at all, ever. So I can only cold-approach and it's pointless tbh. Only the experience in this topic was nice.

 

[Tr0ubLe]

mirin chad

i never get any signals, at all, ever. So I can only cold-approach and it's pointless tbh. Only the experience in this topic was nice.

Permajut and perma cheek suck. And see the change in IOIs u get lol. It makes me go from cutecel to maesthetic.

 

[vinn98]

One cold approach per week isn't enough. At that rate it could take years to get a gf. You need to hit the grind to make things happen. I plan to start going out 3 nights per week and approach 3 attractive women per night. That's nearly 500 approaches per year. Eventually one has to like me back. It's just a numbers game.

 

[MoggerGaston]

One cold approach per week isn't enough. At that rate it could take years to get a gf. You need to hit the grind to make things happen. I plan to start going out 3 nights per week and approach 3 attractive women per night. That's nearly 500 approaches per year. Eventually one has to like me back. It's just a numbers game.

too much effort. If it doesn't come easy, it ain't worth it tbh. 1 approach a month feels like a good amount.

life is all about taking it easy