mijih
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new short update:
so she asked me how i will go home and it seemed like she wanted me to ask her to give her a ride. first I didn’t ask bcs I socially just can’t. then she noticed she forgot her keys and didn’t know what to do. also she was pissed having to ride by bus. so i asked her if she wanted a ride, but bcs she didn’t even have her key it didn’t made sense bcs she now would have to go to her grandparents.
i now think i could have invited her over to me, but that would seem weird in my head and i would have never had the confidence to do that.
So now it’s summer break. I will prob not see her bc I don’t go out except for going to the gym or going on walks with my dog or food. for the meet-up tomorrow only my boys will come over. kinda sad she doesn’t wanna come or like we didn’t talk abt it anymore.
I don’t rly know what to do. my plan was to ask her for a meet when driving her home but know I didn’t even had a chance. I am considering calling her tonight or group calling and waiting till we have a moment for us two in the group call. but I know she goes out today. I really don’t wanna loose contact and either she was just playing with me bcs I’m chopped or she wants me to pull a move.
Also talked my dad threw my first cycle but that is a topic for another thread
so she asked me how i will go home and it seemed like she wanted me to ask her to give her a ride. first I didn’t ask bcs I socially just can’t. then she noticed she forgot her keys and didn’t know what to do. also she was pissed having to ride by bus. so i asked her if she wanted a ride, but bcs she didn’t even have her key it didn’t made sense bcs she now would have to go to her grandparents.
i now think i could have invited her over to me, but that would seem weird in my head and i would have never had the confidence to do that.
So now it’s summer break. I will prob not see her bc I don’t go out except for going to the gym or going on walks with my dog or food. for the meet-up tomorrow only my boys will come over. kinda sad she doesn’t wanna come or like we didn’t talk abt it anymore.
I don’t rly know what to do. my plan was to ask her for a meet when driving her home but know I didn’t even had a chance. I am considering calling her tonight or group calling and waiting till we have a moment for us two in the group call. but I know she goes out today. I really don’t wanna loose contact and either she was just playing with me bcs I’m chopped or she wants me to pull a move.
Also talked my dad threw my first cycle but that is a topic for another thread