FML, my cousin is in love with me

[Gengar]

Do your parent’s know?

Yes, my parents know and so does her mother. But only after she confessed to me, before that she didn’t share with anyone. You know my former oneitis situation, so I took a lot of pity on her because I could just relate to it, and I know how brutal it was when I got rejected so I at the very least want to try to make her stop liking me rather than acting the way my former oneitis did with me. It was absolutely horrible and I became extremely depressed so there’s no way I’ll let it happen to anyone else. I can’t just say “no I don’t want you,” or something like that. It’s too direct. I’d rather she gets sick and tired of me and leaves me alone on her own accord rather than me purposefully ignoring her and stuff like that (which is what my former oneitis did, but I understand she had no other option, so I don’t have any complaints against her or ill will in general).

 

[brownmutt42]

Marry her

 

[Gengar]

Marry her

 

[Sonneillon]

Are you Pakistani? Otherwise you don’t stand a chance here.

Im a punjabi passing mulatto

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

She’d highkey make a great wife but she’s family and I don’t want to marry a relative. She’s kinda selfish though but I get it.

2nd cousin isn’t even that bad likely won’t have any defects, I’d do it if she was a good woman. I’d especially do it if I couldn’t find my own women like you

 

[LTNUser]

Im a punjabi passing mulatto

Proof?

 

[abumaaan]

Well yeah I’m tryna get rid of her but in a way where she feels good about it rather than her feeling upset etc. you know?

nigga ur getting a mtb for free bruh, everyone in pak marries their cousins
its not that deep

 

[pprimus43]

She’s my second cousin, which means we share one great-grandparent. And she belongs to two different ethnic groups herself, so you’d expect her to continue that tradition instead. I don’t want to marry a relative and I don’t want to break her heart, what the hell do I do?

Lucky You

 

[lastofus123]

bro is proving the stereotypes