For people planning to get surgery(ies), are you concerned about your future girlfriend, or even friends finding out about it?

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I have a fairly long list of surgeries I'm planning to get, and the number of procedures I want is considered extreme by most normies, and it does make me wonder how a future partner/social circle might view it. I think that this is just such a turn off for a woman if man openly cares about his looks enough to undergo an invasive and expensive procedure(s).

If a guy goes from lets say an ltn to htn through surgery, do you think that women/people would care that he needed surgery to get there, or is the improved appearance all that matters?
 
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You won't be able to afford the surgeries
 
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You won't be able to afford the surgeries
What even the point of such a shit response.

And I will able to afford them. I already have a decent amount of money saved up for my rhinoplasty which I plan to undergo in probably next year. We'll see.
 
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does not matter
be ubermensche and do what needs to be done
 
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your friends shouldnt care and should even be enthusiastic about it, ur girlfriend also shouldnt care
 
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I have a fairly long list of surgeries I'm planning to get, and the number of procedures I want is considered extreme by most normies, and it does make me wonder how a future partner/social circle might view it. I think that this is just such a turn off for a woman if man openly cares about his looks enough to undergo an invasive and expensive procedure(s).

If a guy goes from lets say an ltn to htn through surgery, do you think that women/people would care that he needed surgery to get there, or is the improved appearance all that matters?
the amount of halo a true htn would get will probably outweigh that for the most part, nobody actually cares about what you do they just care about your outward appearance.
 
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Don’t tell anyone about your plans and what you’ve done
 
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Certain surgeries are 100% socially acceptable if they can be posed as a health thing. When I get my trimax I'm gonna tell everyone I know it was for breathing (I have 0 airway issues)

Its also worth noting that normies know almost nothing about cosmetic surgery, 90+% of the population would only be able to name BBL, Breast Implants, Buccal Fat Removal and Rhinoplasty. If you got infra-malar implants for example nobody would ever guess that a surgery would exist for that, so they won't even think of it and just assumed you lost weight or something
 
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I have a fairly long list of surgeries I'm planning to get, and the number of procedures I want is considered extreme by most normies, and it does make me wonder how a future partner/social circle might view it. I think that this is just such a turn off for a woman if man openly cares about his looks enough to undergo an invasive and expensive procedure(s).

If a guy goes from lets say an ltn to htn through surgery, do you think that women/people would care that he needed surgery to get there, or is the improved appearance all that matters?
Obviously a possibility but the entire plan of getting surgrey to ascend yourself is for it to look natural and no one be able to tell.

Personally I’m gonna lie and say I got my wisdom teeth removed to justify being in bandages after implants.

from people like Lin00b telling stories most people will just assume you grew up more/late bloomer.
 
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im planning for some surgeries. I don't really give a fuck about what my friends have to think. Im just hoping that my future girlfriend doesn't care at all.
 
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im planning for some surgeries. I don't really give a fuck about what my friends have to think. Im just hoping that my future girlfriend doesn't care at all.
I hope for this too.
 
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I think its ok.
Their subconscious mind just care about the present and the way you look now.
For the girlfriend, the only problem is if you want children with her and she think about the genetics.
But anyway you just need to make your childrens breastfed, + raw meat, raw milk, and you multiply 6'4 htns+ and 5'10 htbs+

Linoob has talked about that and he said that girls just dont care
 
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I think its ok.
Their subconscious mind just care about the present and the way you look now.
For the girlfriend, the only problem is if you want children with her and she think about the genetics.
But anyway you just need to make your childrens breastfed, + raw meat, raw milk, and you multiply 6'4 htns+ and 5'10 htbs+

Linoob has talked about that and he said that girls just dont care
Idk, I think that Linoob is kinda botched, tbh. Especially in motion, he looks too uncanny. Regardless, I think the best possible approach is to just stay silent about it, except for very obvious procedures such as rhinoplasty.

I have an overbite, not too severe, but still. After bimax, I'll probably just say I had a dental overbite that was fixed with braces.

The thing I won't be able to lie about is rhinoplasty, and I'm also heavily considering iris depigmentation (I saw that you're planning to do it too in the about section of your profile. Also, good luck with the bimax in December).
 
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Idk, I think that Linoob is kinda botched, tbh. Especially in motion, he looks too uncanny. Regardless, I think the best possible approach is to just stay silent about it, except for very obvious procedures such as rhinoplasty.

I have an overbite, not too severe, but still. After bimax, I'll probably just say I had a dental overbite that was fixed with braces.

The thing I won't be able to lie about is rhinoplasty, and I'm also heavily considering iris depigmentation (I saw that you're planning to do it too in the about section of your profile. Also, good luck with the bimax in December).
Yeah linoob is kinda botched, its a soft tissue rape basicely.
Staying silent still better yeah. If there is huge difference you can tell leanning down, orthomaxxing and your nose changed of shape because of the braces or something that push your upper jaw, normies will not question that.

But the impostor syndrom can hit so idk if this is the best choice for everyone.

Ty (yeah and maximum in December, it could be October), i will not get the depigementation i think, or minimal.
Good luck to you too
 
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I have a fairly long list of surgeries I'm planning to get, and the number of procedures I want is considered extreme by most normies, and it does make me wonder how a future partner/social circle might view it. I think that this is just such a turn off for a woman if man openly cares about his looks enough to undergo an invasive and expensive procedure(s).

If a guy goes from lets say an ltn to htn through surgery, do you think that women/people would care that he needed surgery to get there, or is the improved appearance all that matters?
the results of it if its a good job will always outweigh the negatives like awkward conversations
 
the results of it if its a good job will always outweigh the negatives like awkward conversations
My concern is not really smth as simple as awkward conversations tho. Beautiful faces signal good genetic quality, that's what makes us attracted to them. It's the subconscious desire to procreate with them. When you reveal that your beauty comes not from your genetics but from surgeries, it will ruin this desire to procreate to an extent. Sure, women might love to have a ONS with you, but for an LTR? idk.
What we are doing is gene frauding, which might be the crime to the highest order ngl, but I can't help myself from wanting to achieve a better life quality, so it is what it is

Also, I think that surgeries among men are either interpreted as a sign of insecurity or associated with gayness, which is a lose lose when it comes to how attractive women find you.

This sucks, since I wanted to do a detailed ascension post in the future after all the surgeries I plan to undergo, but I think I'll just never reveal them to anyone.
 
My concern is not really smth as simple as awkward conversations tho. Beautiful faces signal good genetic quality, that's what makes us attracted to them. It's the subconscious desire to procreate with them. When you reveal that your beauty comes not from your genetics but from surgeries, it will ruin this desire to procreate to an extent. Sure, women might love to have a ONS with you, but for an LTR? idk.
What we are doing is gene frauding, which might be the crime to the highest order ngl, but I can't help myself from wanting to achieve a better life quality, so it is what it is

Also, I think that surgeries among men are either interpreted as a sign of insecurity or associated with gayness, which is a lose lose when it comes to how attractive women find you.

This sucks, since I wanted to do a detailed ascension post in the future after all the surgeries I plan to undergo, but I think I'll just never reveal them to anyone.
yeah ur gonna have to tell ur LTR gf one day bro. she’s gonna be up close fiddling with ur face being all flirty and ask you “oh what’s that scar” or whatever and put the pieces together. also remember women are much more acquainted with the whole concept of cosmetic surgery. she will also see photos of your younger self. even if you lie and pretend it’s natural, she will feel at least on a subconscious level that you’re being untruthful and be weary of you. you could try and fabricate a narrative that it was medically required or that u had a deviated septum or wtv it might be
 
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