Having zero friends is just fucking brutal

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If you have even one friend your life will still be infinitely better than being a friendless chud

If you have like three good friends you’re basically set

I don’t think Ive ever made a genuine friend in my entire life, nobody has ever understood me or reciprocated the way I cared about them. It’s like a constant power imbalance that just shows up again and again. It’s a curse that follows me everywhere.

And once you’re out of high school you’re basically fucked, I have no idea how I will make a social life for myself, Ive been isolated for so long that I’m out of touch with everyone my age so they’ll think I’m even more weird, it’s more hopeless than ever with each passing day I just get more and more alienated and odd picking up weird mannerisms and shit. Extremely bleak.

Might just try to get a shitty minimum wage job if it means having people to talk to and do shit with

But that’s wishful thinking, because as a neurodivergent it’s 100x more likely people would just turn me into a lolcow or pretend I don’t exist
 
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Anyone else generally in this kind of situation

Idk where to even start, I can’t hold a simple 10 minute conversation sober, I’m miserable
 
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Awwww man that sucks
 
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Even online friends?
 
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Even online friends?
It just makes me feel like even more of a loser to try and maintain a friendship with someone online, it’s like a constant reminder that I can’t do it in the real world
 
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If you have even one friend your life will still be infinitely better than being a friendless chud

If you have like three good friends you’re basically set

I don’t think Ive ever made a genuine friend in my entire life, nobody has ever understood me or reciprocated the way I cared about them. It’s like a constant power imbalance that just shows up again and again. It’s a curse that follows me everywhere.

And once you’re out of high school you’re basically fucked, I have no idea how I will make a social life for myself, Ive been isolated for so long that I’m out of touch with everyone my age so they’ll think I’m even more weird, it’s more hopeless than ever with each passing day I just get more and more alienated and odd

Might just try to get a shitty minimum wage job if it means having people to talk to and do shit with

But that’s wishful thinking, because as a neurodivergent it’s 100x more likely people would just turn me into a lolcow or pretend I don’t exist
Not a single friend is brutal just find another autist
 
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Not a single friend is brutal just find another autist
Us penaldo fans are now stealing other users Avis and subconsciously admitting the the inferiority of penaldo
 
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Us penaldo fans are now stealing other users Avis and subconsciously admitting the the inferiority of penaldo
Omg nigga just stfu you annoying ass nigga. Bellingham is my favorite player rn I change it to him just to hear this annoying nigga in my ear.:feelskek:
 
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It just makes me feel like even more of a loser to try and maintain a friendship with someone online, it’s like a constant reminder that I can’t do it in the real world
Was lowk in the same situation around early 2024 also cuz I was socially awkward and just didn't know how to socialize but you can try to make friends with your classmates or some ppl around your age that live in your area
 
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Not a single friend is brutal just find another autist
Anyone I talk to who’s more autistic than me is too severe and end up annoying me / making me feel pity

But anyone I speak to who’s less autistic than me probably sees me the same way
 
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Haven't had friends since 2019
Tried to get a girlfriend also failed
 
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i was not able to make friends in 8th to 9th grade too, i am in 11th grade and now i have a group of 5 friends
 
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Omg nigga just stfu you annoying ass nigga. Bellingham is my favorite player rn I change it to him just to hear this annoying nigga in my ear.:feelskek:
Mulatto chad, I agree

Why are penaldo fans now switching fan bases though? Is it because our goat is old, washed, and not entertaining anymore?
 
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Mulatto chad, I agree

Why are penaldo fans now switching fan bases though? Is it because our goat is old, washed, and not entertaining anymore?
I’ve been liking him since 22/23 season and he literally plays for my club nigga. You don’t even know what you’re saying
 
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If you have even one friend your life will still be infinitely better than being a friendless chud

If you have like three good friends you’re basically set

I don’t think Ive ever made a genuine friend in my entire life, nobody has ever understood me or reciprocated the way I cared about them. It’s like a constant power imbalance that just shows up again and again. It’s a curse that follows me everywhere.

And once you’re out of high school you’re basically fucked, I have no idea how I will make a social life for myself, Ive been isolated for so long that I’m out of touch with everyone my age so they’ll think I’m even more weird, it’s more hopeless than ever with each passing day I just get more and more alienated and odd picking up weird mannerisms and shit. Extremely bleak.

Might just try to get a shitty minimum wage job if it means having people to talk to and do shit with

But that’s wishful thinking, because as a neurodivergent it’s 100x more likely people would just turn me into a lolcow or pretend I don’t exist
I Had a ton of friends in elementary-middle school with a close circle but in highschool I barely talked to any of them
 
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I’ve been liking him since 22/23 season and he literally plays for my club nigga. You don’t even know what you’re saying
Brutal how you were making fun of blacks, yet one is your favorite player

Us penaldo fans are sub80iq
 
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One more post till ure not grey
Nigga I thought i was tripping

Screenshot 20260712 072446
 
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Brutal how you were making fun of blacks, yet one is your favorite player

Us penaldo fans are sub80iq
I’m making fun of YOU


Because you are a coon

Is this such a hard concept to grasp
 
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Was lowk in the same situation around early 2024 also cuz I was socially awkward and just didn't know how to socialize but you can try to make friends with your classmates or some ppl around your age that live in your area
Idk I feel like it’s very doable if you at least know one nigga then you can at least meet people through them

But starting from scratch just feels borderline impossible

And I’m such an abused dog from having so many bad social experiences, if I’m not drunk or high then they see what’s wrong with me and discard me

I hope it will be a little easier after I look better, I have surgery this month
 
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I’m making fun of YOU


Because you are a coon

Is this such a hard concept to grasp
Nope, you've constantly been racist to blacks and called them niggers in past posts. Us penaldo fans have started developing dementia or something?
 
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First and besf option is move to another city and create an alter ego/mask to socialize
the second option is being lucky to find another ND person and be friends with them, which is VERY unlikely to happen
 
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Haven't had friends since 2019
Tried to get a girlfriend also failed
How do you cope?

What does it feel like when you see other people your age with friends?
 
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Nope, you've constantly been racist to blacks and called them niggers in past posts. Us penaldo fans have started developing dementia or something?
I’m calling the coons niggers. Like you. Because you are selling out your own race like a faggot. I am not an actual racist you are just a pussy
 
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I’m calling the coons niggers. Like you. Because you are selling out your own race like a faggot. I am not an actual racist you are just a pussy
I defend blacks on here quite frequently. I am not a coon. Penaldo fans need to do their research. Maybe then they would realize messi is better
 
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How do you cope?

What does it feel like when you see other people your age with friends?
I feel like ER, a deep hatred specially for women cus they rejected me. I wish I had friends to hang out sometimes though. I never go out and I start buying stuff from the internet to cope, I have to stop doing that.
 
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I defend blacks on here quite frequently. I am not a coon. Penaldo fans need to do their research. Maybe then they would realize messi is better
You just said you let Messi call you nword. That is actual coon behavior. You were probably raised in white environment, it’s the same story with folks like you
 
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i was not able to make friends in 8th to 9th grade too, i am in 11th grade and now i have a group of 5 friends
Lucky, it’s so fucking impossible after high school I really regret not at least trying more when I was in hs
 
I feel the same, it literally traumatise you your whole life.

I am pretty social now with people and improved myself socially but I can’t have friends for some reason and nobody wants to hang out with me.
 
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You just said you let Messi call you nword. That is actual coon behavior. You were probably raised in white environment, it’s the same story with folks like you
I said he was allowed to say the n word, not call me it
 
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feels. i went to international schools my whole life with military families so everyone was coming and going within 6 months of meeting them. now ive moved to a new city for uni and everyone just sticks with their highschools groups, havent met a single person.
 
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First and besf option is move to another city and create an alter ego/mask to socialize
the second option is being lucky to find another ND person and be friends with them, which is VERY unlikely to happen
My life is so fucked I can’t afford it

But let’s say I could do it, I don’t even know where to start when it comes to building a social framework from scratch, like I spent so much time in avoidance and isolation I feel like an alien when it comes to microinteractions / mannerisms / body language and so on

And with masking it really just takes one bad day, maybe low energy for example, and boom everyone sees the autist loser you are as you burn out and show your true self, so brutal
 
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I said he was allowed to say the n word, not call it to me.
That is still coon behavior.:feelskek: No it’s not murder it’s manslaughter sayin ahh nih :lul: you should be ashamed of yourself. I thought mulattos we’re high T race but that might only be a select few
 
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My friend groups from school are slowly dwindling

I can imagine by 30 there will be almost nothing left

At least I got a taste of the normie life

Back to the bottle
 
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That is still coon behavior.:feelskek: No it’s not murder it’s manslaughter :lul: you should be ashamed of yourself. I thought mulattos we’re high T race but that might only be a select few
Nope. If he got slightly frustrated and let out a little "nigga" no one should bat an eye. Calling someone else one or the hard r is a diffrent story.
 
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Nope. If he got slightly frustrated and let out a little "nigga" no one should bat an eye. Calling someone else one or the hard r is a diffrent story.
Still coon, true mullato wouldn’t let this slide
 
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I feel like ER, a deep hatred specially for women cus they rejected me. I wish I had friends to hang out sometimes though. I never go out and I start buying stuff from the internet to cope, I have to stop doing that.
Wish you luck, it’s a bitter bitter existence
 
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If you have even one friend your life will still be infinitely better than being a friendless chud

If you have like three good friends you’re basically set

I don’t think Ive ever made a genuine friend in my entire life, nobody has ever understood me or reciprocated the way I cared about them. It’s like a constant power imbalance that just shows up again and again. It’s a curse that follows me everywhere.

And once you’re out of high school you’re basically fucked, I have no idea how I will make a social life for myself, Ive been isolated for so long that I’m out of touch with everyone my age so they’ll think I’m even more weird, it’s more hopeless than ever with each passing day I just get more and more alienated and odd picking up weird mannerisms and shit. Extremely bleak.

Might just try to get a shitty minimum wage job if it means having people to talk to and do shit with

But that’s wishful thinking, because as a neurodivergent it’s 100x more likely people would just turn me into a lolcow or pretend I don’t
 
Someone should just evi us penaldo fans, we need to be euthanized
Nga I’m not even speaking about Ronaldo Messi u are just a traitor to your own race
 
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dude which surgery do you have
 
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If you have even one friend your life will still be infinitely better than being a friendless chud

If you have like three good friends you’re basically set

I don’t think Ive ever made a genuine friend in my entire life, nobody has ever understood me or reciprocated the way I cared about them. It’s like a constant power imbalance that just shows up again and again. It’s a curse that follows me everywhere.

And once you’re out of high school you’re basically fucked, I have no idea how I will make a social life for myself, Ive been isolated for so long that I’m out of touch with everyone my age so they’ll think I’m even more weird, it’s more hopeless than ever with each passing day I just get more and more alienated and odd picking up weird mannerisms and shit. Extremely bleak.

Might just try to get a shitty minimum wage job if it means having people to talk to and do shit with

But that’s wishful thinking, because as a neurodivergent it’s 100x more likely people would just turn me into a lolcow or pretend I don’t exist
Relatable asf lol
 
dude which surgery do you have
Strabismus surgery

Ive been crosseyed all my life, if it goes right my eyes will at least look straight
 
If you have even one friend your life will still be infinitely better than being a friendless chud

If you have like three good friends you’re basically set

I don’t think Ive ever made a genuine friend in my entire life, nobody has ever understood me or reciprocated the way I cared about them. It’s like a constant power imbalance that just shows up again and again. It’s a curse that follows me everywhere.

And once you’re out of high school you’re basically fucked, I have no idea how I will make a social life for myself, Ive been isolated for so long that I’m out of touch with everyone my age so they’ll think I’m even more weird, it’s more hopeless than ever with each passing day I just get more and more alienated and odd picking up weird mannerisms and shit. Extremely bleak.

Might just try to get a shitty minimum wage job if it means having people to talk to and do shit with

But that’s wishful thinking, because as a neurodivergent it’s 100x more likely people would just turn me into a lolcow or pretend I don’t exist
I feel the same.
There's no way to cope tbh.
I've given up on making any friends, it feels so foreign to have them.
 
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If ur in this situation it’s so easy to escape it, all you need is to find only 1 friend and if he likes you he will introduce you to his other friends and if you get along with him chances are high you also get along with at least some of his friends.
 
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My life is so fucked I can’t afford it

But let’s say I could do it, I don’t even know where to start when it comes to building a social framework from scratch, like I spent so much time in avoidance and isolation I feel like an alien when it comes to microinteractions / mannerisms / body language and so on

And with masking it really just takes one bad day, maybe low energy for example, and boom everyone sees the autist loser you are as you burn out and show your true self, so brutal
read books about social engineering and manipulation
Social Engineering by Chirstopher Hadnagy
Pratical Social Engineering by Joe Gray
The Prince by Niccolo Machiavelli
Make people like you by Nicholas Boothman
Influence, the psychology of persuasion by Robert Cialdini
The Deceiver's Bible by Dhruv Mehta
Create an account on every social media and manipulate the algorithm to flood your feed/timeline/fyp with normie's content so u can blend in and have conversation topics at your disposure
Its importantly to highlight that even if u do these things it would fix your isolation and friendships problems but none of your relations would be truthful and real. Even so, its better than nothing
 
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