How arranged marriages work in the UK and why they are a bad deal - Muslimcels will be in denial

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In the UK, at least in the bengali community the way arranged marriages are done aren't typically what you expect e.g. your parents meet a nice guy at mosque and talk to him and ask their daughter to marry you.

No. That isn't how an arranged marriage has ever worked here in 2021. This is how it works

1. Your parents produce a CV/document detailing things like your height, weight, hobbies, job, education level, and a pic of you
2. That CV is passed around via your cousins, aunties and whatnot to other bengali people
3. A woman then hopefully chooses you
4. Woman and you meet (but only in front of parents JFL)
5. Exchange numbers and text to see if you get along
6. Marry

Now there are multiple reasons why this is a shit deal for men, firstly being the fact you can only get with a girl via the use of a CV. This already puts you at a bad spot, since it won't matter if you're NT or funny, you're being judged on looks + betabux potential (it's basically tinder, which we know is a shit deal). Then there's the fact where you only meet her in front of her parents, so you don't know how she is actually. Texting her will be your main form of communication, texting and actually speaking to a girl are totally different.

Arranged marriages are brutal for men, it's just tinder with extra steps. Muslimcels will refuse though and claim they'll get their virgin wife despite looking ugly - only because they compensate their looks with their betabux potential. Essentially it's over
 
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You guys actually make CV’s? And you never meet afterwards? :hnghn:

What type of arranged marriage is this lmao
 
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You guys actually make CV’s? And you never meet afterwards? :hnghn:

What type of arranged marriage is this lmao
Yes dude legit they do this CV cringe bullshit. And you only get to meet her in front of her parents JFL. Be honest, you don't think it's bullshit?
 
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Yes dude legit they do this CV cringe bullshit. And you only get to meet her in front of her parents JFL. Be honest, you don't think it's bullshit?
Don’t know what it’s like for you guys but in other communities they actually let you meet up multiple times afterwards, even without parents so you can see if you are compatible or not

Marriage in Muslim communities isn’t a joke and you have to pick the right one. Meeting a person once in front of your parents and just texting them for the next few months until the engagement/marriage sounds like a recipe for an unhappy marriage
 
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Don’t know what it’s like for you guys but in other communities they actually let you meet up multiple times afterwards, even without parents so you can see if you are compatible or not

Marriage in Muslim communities isn’t a joke and you have to pick the right one. Meeting a person once in front of your parents and just texting them for the next few months until the engagement/marriage sounds like a recipe for an unhappy marriage
@TRUE_CEL would disagree with you, he thinks it's better if you text only because then you won't be nervous (what a fucking retard). The method you describe sounds legit tbh, and sounds like a good deal. Delusional pakis like truecel make me laugh
 
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@TRUE_CEL would disagree with you, he thinks it's better if you text only because then you won't be nervous (what a fucking retard). The method you describe sounds legit tbh, and sounds like a good deal. Delusional pakis like truecel make me laugh
youre a coping bengali cuck who refers himself as either indian or pakistani whenever you feel like it, mfer be having a identity crisis :ROFLMAO:

everyones more comfortable over text, wheres the falseness in statement? @Shrek2OnDvD
 
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youre a coping bengali cuck who refers himself as either indian or pakistani whenever you feel like it, mfer be having a identity crisis :ROFLMAO:

everyones more comfortable over text, wheres the falseness in statement? @Shrek2OnDvD
I literally made a thread about your stupid fucking statement, you should check it out and see how EVERYONE disagrees wtih you
 
Now there are multiple reasons why this is a shit deal for men, firstly being the fact you can only get with a girl via the use of a CV. This already puts you at a bad spot, since it won't matter if you're NT or funny, you're being judged on looks + betabux potential (it's basically tinder, which we know is a shit deal).
What do looks have to do with this, when you arrange a marriage, your money and status matter the most - you're negotiating with the parents basically, and if you give them enough money, land, goats, etc. you can easily get their daughter...
 
muslimcels can't stop losing
 
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What do looks have to do with this, when you arrange a marriage, your money and status matter the most - you're negotiating with the parents basically, and if you give them enough money, land, goats, etc. you can easily get their daughter...
Again dude that isn't how an arranged marriage works here.... The woman has a choice, she can decline if you're too ugly.
 
Again dude that isn't how an arranged marriage works here.... The woman has a choice, she can decline if you're too ugly.
Then this isn't really arranged marriage, at least not how it was in the old times, back then you simply bought a wife, her opinion didn't matter...
 

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