FailedNormieManlet
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In the UK, at least in the bengali community the way arranged marriages are done aren't typically what you expect e.g. your parents meet a nice guy at mosque and talk to him and ask their daughter to marry you.
No. That isn't how an arranged marriage has ever worked here in 2021. This is how it works
1. Your parents produce a CV/document detailing things like your height, weight, hobbies, job, education level, and a pic of you
2. That CV is passed around via your cousins, aunties and whatnot to other bengali people
3. A woman then hopefully chooses you
4. Woman and you meet (but only in front of parents JFL)
5. Exchange numbers and text to see if you get along
6. Marry
Now there are multiple reasons why this is a shit deal for men, firstly being the fact you can only get with a girl via the use of a CV. This already puts you at a bad spot, since it won't matter if you're NT or funny, you're being judged on looks + betabux potential (it's basically tinder, which we know is a shit deal). Then there's the fact where you only meet her in front of her parents, so you don't know how she is actually. Texting her will be your main form of communication, texting and actually speaking to a girl are totally different.
Arranged marriages are brutal for men, it's just tinder with extra steps. Muslimcels will refuse though and claim they'll get their virgin wife despite looking ugly - only because they compensate their looks with their betabux potential. Essentially it's over
No. That isn't how an arranged marriage has ever worked here in 2021. This is how it works
1. Your parents produce a CV/document detailing things like your height, weight, hobbies, job, education level, and a pic of you
2. That CV is passed around via your cousins, aunties and whatnot to other bengali people
3. A woman then hopefully chooses you
4. Woman and you meet (but only in front of parents JFL)
5. Exchange numbers and text to see if you get along
6. Marry
Now there are multiple reasons why this is a shit deal for men, firstly being the fact you can only get with a girl via the use of a CV. This already puts you at a bad spot, since it won't matter if you're NT or funny, you're being judged on looks + betabux potential (it's basically tinder, which we know is a shit deal). Then there's the fact where you only meet her in front of her parents, so you don't know how she is actually. Texting her will be your main form of communication, texting and actually speaking to a girl are totally different.
Arranged marriages are brutal for men, it's just tinder with extra steps. Muslimcels will refuse though and claim they'll get their virgin wife despite looking ugly - only because they compensate their looks with their betabux potential. Essentially it's over