How can I accept being mediocre?

[VohnnyBoy]

Never liked being average. Since a child I hated being middle class, hated living an average lifestyle, hated my average looks, my average abilities....
How do I accept I'm not that guy

 

[areayes]

Never liked being average. Since a child I hated being middle class, hated living an average lifestyle, hated my average looks, my average abilities....
How do I accept I'm not that guy

js look like ts ig?

 

[VohnnyBoy]

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[VohnnyBoy]

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[VohnnyBoy]

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[Jason Voorhees]

As Khalil Ghibran said

Does the seagull not fly across the Sun, alone and without a nest? You must forego your longing for the land of your memories to move into the dwelling place of your greater desires; our love will not bind you nor will our needs hold you.

 

[sub5outsider]

Try to improve yourself every day and if you truly hate it and you wanna change that you will find a way . Most mediocre people dont even have this thought .

 

[VohnnyBoy]

As Khalil Ghibran said

Does the seagull not fly across the Sun, alone and without a nest? You must forego your longing for the land of your memories to move into the dwelling place of your greater desires; our love will not bind you nor will our needs hold you.

wtf
im iqcel what does this mean

Try to improve yourself every day and if you truly hate it and you wanna change that you will find a way

Can't improve my height unfortunately, but objectively good advice

 

[MaracasMogs]

As Khalil Ghibran said

Does the seagull not fly across the Sun, alone and without a nest? You must forego your longing for the land of your memories to move into the dwelling place of your greater desires; our love will not bind you nor will our needs hold you.

Off topic but does anyone have my actual pfp ?
I've seen it on this forum and don't want it to be generic.

 

[Eskorbutin]

You are mediocre, but that's a good thing.

 

[Amaterasu愛]

You got to invest everything (time, money) into yourself and how you look, if that doesn't work just ropemaxx icl

 

[VohnnyBoy]

You are mediocre, but that's a good thing.

average is bad for men
also that quote makes no sense

 

[Deleted member 231621]

You are mediocre, but that's a good thing. View attachment 4270680

i like taoism so such

 

[Jason Voorhees]

wtf
im iqcel what does this mean

seagull is a metaphor for people who are meant to rise higher than the ordinary. The seagull flies alone, far above the world, without needing a home or nest it represents independence and the courage to go beyond what's known.

When he says "forego your longing for the land of your memories,"he means you have to let go of your attachment to your past or your old self your "average" life or the version of you that feels limited.

And "move into the dwelling place of your greater desires" means start living for your higher goals the things you truly want, even if it's uncomfortable or lonely.

Finally, "our love will not bind you nor will our needs hold you" means real love or real self worth doesn't cage you it gives you space to grow and become who you're meant to be.

TLDR-Stop wishing you were someone else or stuck in your old identity. Let go of the comfort zone rise above. The seagull flies alone because greatness often does.

 

[VohnnyBoy]

TLDR-Stop wishing you were someone else or stuck in your old identity. Let go of the comfort zone rise above. The seagull flies alone because greatness often does.

and how can I implement this cope in practice? No solo flying for my looks

 

[VohnnyBoy]

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[VohnnyBoy]

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[Looks over NT]

everyone is special in their own way and has their own path in life. i dont believe in judging people by the metrics people obsess over since i dont believe in anything and therefore nothing stands out as being "better"

 

[VohnnyBoy]

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[chadmanlet04]

You can become exceptionally good at one thing and just ride the joy of that.

 

[5.5psl]

dude doesnt take much to be significantly abv avg yk get a good physique lean with a v taper and make good money
boom top 10% easy asf
its literally only effort thats stopping you unless you are legit chopped like 5'5 ugly face

 

[Jfuzion]

Average means 50% of people are less attractive than you. So you’re doing better than half of the population. At least you’re not ugly.

A benefit to being average is people don’t automatically assume you are too arrogant and are more likely to see you as nice.

Also some women are intimidated by men who are too good looking and find men with some imperfections safer to approach. People with perfect symmetry can look less authentic and less down to earth. Flaws are what make us human and humans want to approach other humans.