How do you find purpose in life?

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How do you guys find purpose in life? 4 to 5 years ago I was a full on normie living my life happily not realising what it all meant. I was fairly religious too, nothing mattered to me much. Now I look back and only feel sad at my past. I'm constantly sad with some pangs of happiness and there seems to be no purpose that I can find, I am not considering roping but neither do I support living, indulging in copes seems like a good recommendation but once i realise that i am only coping by playing vidya etc I feel disheartened and back to just functioning like a robot

Seems like I am not living now I am only surviving, anyone else feel this way and if yes how do you solve it?
 
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Tbh you don’t really find it.

Sometimes i imagine being a religious 75 IQ would be better
 
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Tbh you don’t really find it.

Sometimes i imagine being a religious 75 IQ would be better
Agreed on that, if I had to option of being a zero iq vegetable id rather chose that, existence seems like a curse, I see no point in living or dying. Why is there not nothingness?
 
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Looksmaxxing
 
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Agreed on that, if I had to option of being a zero iq vegetable id rather chose that, existence seems like a curse, I see no point in living or dying. Why is there not nothingness?
Existence is mostly suffering with brief intermissions of joy.
That’s just what how it is.
 
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Looksmaxxing
No point in that either, you'll eventually be forgotten by everyone and the only reason you're looksmaxxing in the first place is to be accepted by society don't say I'm doing it for myself you're not if you were a hermit in the Balkans you wouldn't give two cents about your looks. And since the reason you're looksmaxxing is cuz of being accepted/validation what do you get after you achieve that? You'll still have the brain of a depressed nihilist no?
 
No point in that either, you'll eventually be forgotten by everyone and the only reason you're looksmaxxing in the first place is to be accepted by society don't say I'm doing it for myself you're not if you were a hermit in the Balkans you wouldn't give two cents about your looks. And since the reason you're looksmaxxing is cuz of being accepted/validation what do you get after you achieve that? You'll still have the brain of a depressed nihilist no?
Don't come up with these philo bs shit, I'm way ahead of myself in knowing what is reality and what is wasting my time questioning in the void. I don't accept the whole woke existential ideas like 'finding a purpose', 'meaning' etc. Life is transactional. Yes I need to looksmaxx to be social accepted, i need to be rich to attain freedom, i need to do this to get that. My time is limited too and so is everyone. I can't controll what is to be remembered and what is to be forgotten.
 
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Don't come up with these philo bs shit, I'm way ahead of myself in knowing what is reality and what is wasting my time questioning in the void. I don't accept the whole woke existential ideas like 'finding a purpose', 'meaning' etc. Life is transactional. Yes I need to looksmaxx to be social accepted, i need to be rich to attain freedom, i need to do this to get that. My time is limited too and so is everyone. I can't controll what is to be remembered and what is to be forgotten.
I don't doubt that but do you feel happy when you know you're going to be nothing in a 100 years if yes how do you cope?
 
maybe try a dopamine detox ,I do it every now and again whenever I feel unmotivated, although it does take a lot of discipline its at least worth imo, you feel proud of yourself afterwards and get this strange enthusiastic high where you feel able to tackle any sort of obstacle.
 
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maybe try a dopamine detox ,I do it every now and again whenever I feel unmotivated, although it does take a lot of discipline its at least worth imo, you feel proud of yourself afterwards and get this strange enthusiastic high where you feel able to tackle any sort of obstacle.
I'll try it Def thanks
 
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You need dopamine
 
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Sex is the purpose of life. If you aint having it you're not living
 
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Sex is the purpose of life. If you aint having it you're not living

Long ago I was listening to Tony Robins and he was saying how "Progress is Happiness" and it didn't resonate with me till later in life when I realized that becoming a better version of yourself each day is what constitutes individual happiness,regardless of what your hobby or skill is,even if you are looksmaxxing and make progress each day towards your goals you will feel happy and fulfilled and wake up each day with enthusiasm.Sex is just a powerful painkiller imo but it does not make you feel fulfilled,just speaking from personal experience.
 
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Looksmaxx for prime Caucasoid trad JB or die trying, that is my purpose :Comfy: :Comfy:
 
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Long ago I was listening to Tony Robins and he was saying how "Progress is Happiness" and it didn't resonate with me till later in life when I realized that becoming a better version of yourself each day is what constitutes individual happiness,regardless of what your hobby or skill is,even if you are looksmaxxing and make progress each day towards your goals you will feel happy and fulfilled and wake up each day with enthusiasm.Sex is just a powerful painkiller imo but it does not make you feel fulfilled,just speaking from personal experience.
Good response but aren't you constantly panged by feelings of meaninglessness of doing anything even?
 
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Sex is just a powerful painkiller imo but it does not make you feel fulfilled,just speaking from personal experience.
That's cause you had/have sex. When you don't you think about it every second and you can't focus on anything or move on with your life. Also speaking from personal experience
 
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That's cause you had/have sex. When you don't you think about it every second and you can't focus on anything or move on with your life. Also speaking from personal experience
Thing is I don't think sex would make me satisfied, I'm looking for the reason of our existence and sex would just be a temporary solution to a permanent question
 
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Existence is mostly suffering with brief intermissions of joy.
That’s just what how it is.
i have heard that quote. Which pessimestic retard said that?
 
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No inherent meaning. Just find personal purpose, meaning, or value in whatever inspires you, attracts you, amuses you etc. Doesn't matter if none of it will be remembered.

You're a tourist in this life just milk it. We have all of eternity to be dead so there's no rush.

T'es Français tu connais pas Camus ou Sartre? Nietzsche aussi.
 
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No inherent meaning. Just find personal purpose, meaning, or value in whatever inspires you, attracts you, amuses you etc. Doesn't matter if none of it will be remembered.

You're a tourist in this life just milk it. We have all of eternity to be dead so there's no rush.

T'es Français tu connais pas Camus ou Sartre? Nietzsche aussi.
bonne réponse aussi je sais tout
 
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How do you guys find purpose in life? 4 to 5 years ago I was a full on normie living my life happily not realising what it all meant. I was fairly religious too, nothing mattered to me much. Now I look back and only feel sad at my past. I'm constantly sad with some pangs of happiness and there seems to be no purpose that I can find, I am not considering roping but neither do I support living, indulging in copes seems like a good recommendation but once i realise that i am only coping by playing vidya etc I feel disheartened and back to just functioning like a robot

Seems like I am not living now I am only surviving, anyone else feel this way and if yes how do you solve it?

by trying everything you can (not too much mainstream)

you can nichemaxx too
 
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How do you guys find purpose in life? 4 to 5 years ago I was a full on normie living my life happily not realising what it all meant. I was fairly religious too, nothing mattered to me much. Now I look back and only feel sad at my past. I'm constantly sad with some pangs of happiness and there seems to be no purpose that I can find, I am not considering roping but neither do I support living, indulging in copes seems like a good recommendation but once i realise that i am only coping by playing vidya etc I feel disheartened and back to just functioning like a robot

Seems like I am not living now I am only surviving, anyone else feel this way and if yes how do you solve it?
God
 
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How do you guys find purpose in life? 4 to 5 years ago I was a full on normie living my life happily not realising what it all meant. I was fairly religious too, nothing mattered to me much. Now I look back and only feel sad at my past. I'm constantly sad with some pangs of happiness and there seems to be no purpose that I can find, I am not considering roping but neither do I support living, indulging in copes seems like a good recommendation but once i realise that i am only coping by playing vidya etc I feel disheartened and back to just functioning like a robot

Seems like I am not living now I am only surviving, anyone else feel this way and if yes how do you solve it?
like I was in a deep depression because I couldn't figure out the truth. I just prayed to God to guide me and now Thanks to Him I know. The problem that I have now is just biological
 
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