how to fix confidence problems

[gandylite.]

I’m not ugly, infact even on my bad days i still i would im arguably the best looking guy in my friend group, however on most days when they go out and ask if im coming, i say no, not because im busy but because i just don’t feel as if im looking my very best and thats the only time when i wanna go out, even if i still look “good” to other peoples standards i still feel to embarrassed and ashamed to go out as i don’t want people seeing me like this, how do i make this go away as it’s causing me to feel a bit depressed and isolated

 

[rj_0616]

I’m not ugly, infact even on my bad days i still i would im arguably the best looking guy in my friend group, however on most days when they go out and ask if im coming, i say no, not because im busy but because i just don’t feel as if im looking my very best and thats the only time when i wanna go out, even if i still look “good” to other peoples standards i still feel to embarrassed and ashamed to go out as i don’t want people seeing me like this, how do i make this go away as it’s causing me to feel a bit depressed and isolated

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I struggle with this too

 

[Valkyrjaj]

Try to max every area of your looks. Be a bit cocky. Try to be social.

 

[rj_0616]

Try to max every area of your looks. Be a bit cocky. Try to be social.

All that just for one normie to make a comment that makes u go back to not speaking until spoken to

 

[Valkyrjaj]

All that just for one normie to make a comment that makes u go back to not speaking until spoken to

Huh??? You might think im stupid but I dont get it