how to get out of total social isolation at late twenties

[Deleted member 25059]

I know there's no point in asking something like that here, but I'll give it one last try anyway.

I thought to take a job where you are forced to communicate with people, the problem is that if you have social anxiety and avoidant personality disorder, it can be a double edged sword.

 

[Deleted member 21824]

u dont

 

[orangomango2003]

over

 

[twilight]

if you have social anxiety and avoidant personality disorder, it can be a double edged sword.

cognitive behavioural therapy and improving your looks, i had the most social anxiety when i looked bad, improving your looks leads to better positive feedback cycles, your brain turns less incel after a while

 

[Deleted member 23558]

talk to indians online and llearn interpersonal dynamics

 

[Deleted member 31445]

I know there's no point in asking something like that here, but I'll give it one last try anyway.

I thought to take a job where you are forced to communicate with people, the problem is that if you have social anxiety and avoidant personality disorder, it can be a double edged sword.

do some group activities, mmamaxx for example: you get to talk to people, build a good physique and learn of to fight

You can do jiujitsu with the sexy 40yo as well

 

[Deleted member 26824]

change your personality

 

[Deleted member 27746]

spend every day on this site

 

[Deleted member 16636]

spend every day on this site

fucking loser kys

 

[Deleted member 21735]

u dont

 

[Deleted member 27746]

fucking loser kys

suck my dick nigger

 

[JovenCansao]

The best I've been able to get is revive old friendships from highschool era, and made some new meaningless ones.

Other than that it seems impossible as a man tbh

 

[Deleted member 25059]

The best I've been able to get is revive old friendships from highschool era, and made some new meaningless ones.

so it's over. because I can't do it, the people I used call friends in HS live somewhere else entirely.

 

[Deleted member 23115]

 

[Deleted member 25059]

how is monk doing

 

[Deleted member 23115]

how is monk doing

already forgot about him

 

[der_komische]

rip out the autism part of your brain

 

[twilight]

@Staceymaxxing bro i forgot to give you my discord i asked you for that club video of u ascending with a htb, my user is .pashtun i need to learn how to act in a club setting ngl

 

[St.TikTokcel]

I know there's no point in asking something like that here, but I'll give it one last try anyway.

I thought to take a job where you are forced to communicate with people, the problem is that if you have social anxiety and avoidant personality disorder, it can be a double edged sword.

Bro, you're a HTN. How are you having issues?

 

[Deleted member 28927]

if you can looksmax, this will improve your social skills because it's pretty much linked to how others see and react to you. if you can't, try to interact with a social niche

 

[J o r o]

I know there's no point in asking something like that here, but I'll give it one last try anyway.

I thought to take a job where you are forced to communicate with people, the problem is that if you have social anxiety and avoidant personality disorder, it can be a double edged sword.

Are u tall? Psl?

 

[cytoplasm]

become a low inhib beast

 

[Deleted member 25059]

Are u tall? Psl?

6'1
Im like 5/10 bordeline below average

 

[Deleted member 23115]

rip out the autism part of your brain

my tragic ignorant fellow im afraid thats impossible

op's life mirrors frankenstein's and its partly cuz of his autistic brain

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

I know there's no point in asking something like that here, but I'll give it one last try anyway.

I thought to take a job where you are forced to communicate with people, the problem is that if you have social anxiety and avoidant personality disorder, it can be a double edged sword.

Bro just go to the fucking gym and make friends there.

I've been here on vacay for around 3 mos and have friends already.

Whatever hobby, career, past time you will make friends.

Its basically just be NT.

But instead of classifying yourself as NT or non, take a simple step and start saying “Hi” to people as you pass them. You might be surprised how fast you become popular. Theres more to it but thats a start.

 

[Deleted member 23115]

6'1
Im like 5/10 bordeline below average

-5/10
-borderline below average

pick one

 

[Deleted member 25059]

-5/10
-borderline below average

pick one

Youre obsessed with me

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

Bro just go to the fucking gym and make friends there.

I've been here on vacay for around 3 mos and have friends already.

Whatever hobby, career, past time you will make friends.

Its basically just be NT.

But instead of classifying yourself as NT or non, take a simple step and start saying “Hi” to people as you pass them. You might be surprised how fast you become popular. Theres more to it but thats a start.

Fucking hell bro this site is definitely making me dumb as fuck?!!!

“How to make friends?”

ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME???

JUST SAY “HI” TO PEOPLE, DICKHEAD!!!!

 

[Deleted member 23115]

Bro just go to the fucking gym and make friends there.

I've been here on vacay for around 3 mos and have friends already.

Whatever hobby, career, past time you will make friends.

Its basically just be NT.

But instead of classifying yourself as NT or non, take a simple step and start saying “Hi” to people as you pass them. You might be surprised how fast you become popular. Theres more to it but thats a start.

OP trying to follow these instructions

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

I know there's no point in asking something like that here, but I'll give it one last try anyway.

I thought to take a job where you are forced to communicate with people, the problem is that if you have social anxiety and avoidant personality disorder, it can be a double edged sword.

Hey bro I know it can be hard but I think you might have forgotten to claim some more of the many free non-proof existing disorders:

In any given year the estimated percent of U.S. adults with various anxiety disorders are*:

• Specific Phobia: 8% - 12% (U.S.)
• Social Anxiety Disorder: 7% (U.S.)
• Panic Disorder: 2% - 3% (U.S.)
• Agoraphobia: 1-1.7% (adolescents and adults; worldwide)
• Generalized Anxiety Disorder: 0.9% (adolescents)' 2.9% (adults)
• Separation Anxiety Disorder: 4% (children); 1.6% (adolescents); 0.9%-1.9% (adults)
• Selective mutism: 0.03-1.9% (U.S., Europe, Israel)

JUST HAVE “GENERALIZED ANXIETY DISORDER” BRO.

WTF IS THAT BRO?

OH JUST STRESSED IN GENERAL..

SO BASICALLY BEING A PRODUCTIVE HUMAN?

...

 

[Suimaxxer]

Talk to strangers, unironically. In the train/bus, at a concert or in places where u get to be with others even for a short amount of time, say something nice like a compliment (it has to be something specific they got tho, like a tattoo maybe or a weird hairstyle) and ask them questions about them to show u care, but not too personal questions. Then just try to introduce yourself and get to know the other person better

Spoiler: Spolier

Dont do this shit its a terrible advice

 

[J o r o]

6'1
Im like 5/10 bordeline below average

Go for it. Put ur heart in it and remember. You actually have to fake it lol. Its called the mask.

 

[Graham]

improving your looks leads to better positive feedback cycles, your brain turns less incel after a while

Same, but I went from MTN/HTN to LTN and that destroyed my confidence.

 

[Deleted member 25705]

Same, but I went from MTN/HTN to LTN and that destroyed my confidence.

I think you can bounce back with a hair transplant dude.

 

[Staceymaxxing]

@Staceymaxxing bro i forgot to give you my discord i asked you for that club video of u ascending with a htb, my user is .pashtun i need to learn how to act in a club setting ngl

Lol you're late to the update
My last was a stacylite model, which is my ceiling capped, I have pulled lites but can't pull beyond that so I'm trying to ltr her as she showed interest first as well

I'm taking a break from clubs and discord atm but I'll give you my personal experience which led to success
Learn how to dance or cool moves, foids love it
Club game you have to watch out for iois and learn how to act NT with foids, most especially body language and escalating into being physical asap. Dress NT and look your best, show muscles etc Its an advertisement jungle for sexual signals

Drink alcohol to get out of your head and be in a good zone to vibe with people but not too drunk, start talking to random people even from the line to the club as this warms you up for talking with girls you will approach later

If you get approached or cockblocked by a foid's friend after introducing yourself and initiating convo, move on to another, you won't be everyone's type and some girls are crazy anyway

Tyrone won't be picked over a girl who is into white boys with skater and long hair only for example.
When you do finally get your first kiss and stuff in club and want to fuck same night(though you need more experience as this is more advanced tbh), ask her what she's doing later and if she wants to have an afterparty, listen to what she told you in the introduction of what she does/interests etc and relate it to that

Some guys luck out with drunk af girls but I prefer sober or just a bit tipsy as they remember you the next day and can lead to p in v next meet or even a relationship as my htb ex situation.

 

[Staceymaxxing]

@Staceymaxxing bro i forgot to give you my discord i asked you for that club video of u ascending with a htb, my user is .pashtun i need to learn how to act in a club setting ngl

You're from Australia? Mirin
Every aussie girl I've seen visiting was cute, 6 and above

You can use looks game or NT
Some chadlites in London don't get shit in clubs while some chatty funny dancer MTN is pulling so try to not rely on just one.

 

[Staceymaxxing]

become a low inhib beast

^

 

[Deleted member 25059]

no helpful answer whatsoever. it's a very stupid idea to ask people who have no friends, neets about something serious. indeed the one-eyed leads the blind.

 

[rand anon]

cognitive behavioural therapy and improving your looks, i had the most social anxiety when i looked bad, improving your looks leads to better positive feedback cycles, your brain turns less incel after a while

Copium

 

[rand anon]

it's a very stupid idea to ask people who have no friends, neets about something serious. indeed the one-eyed leads the blind.

pipe down

no helpful answer whatsoever

Cause there is no solution

 

[Deleted member 25059]

pipe down


Cause there is no solution

yeah, that's right, it's just late and my brain works differently. but even so, I'd rather they told me some bullshit about looks, then empty trolling oneliners.

its just ironic that most are teens-early twenties and they think they are in better position while playing video games and probably have one friend, whom they sees once a week.

 

[Nebula]

no helpful answer whatsoever. it's a very stupid idea to ask people who have no friends, neets about something serious. indeed the one-eyed leads the blind.

Tf do u want retard. U either go to somewhere where theres a lot of social going on or pack it in. There is no other solution

 

[Deleted member 24781]

I know there's no point in asking something like that here, but I'll give it one last try anyway.

I thought to take a job where you are forced to communicate with people, the problem is that if you have social anxiety and avoidant personality disorder, it can be a double edged sword.

You have no worth so it's futile to associate with normies.

 

[Deleted member 25059]

Tf do u want retard. U either go to somewhere where theres a lot of social going on or pack it in. There is no other solution

just go to somewhere. thx curry

 

[Nebula]

just go to somewhere. thx curry

Wow this guy reads my larp posts i see. Well what do u think is the solution oldcel? Time is running out while ur making ur billionth account on the forum.

 

[Deleted member 25059]

Wow this guy reads my larp posts i see. Well what do u think is the solution oldcel? Time is running out while ur making ur billionth account on the forum.

Obviously you must do something, but I dont care to listening some random buzzwords from curry who rotting in his basement with drugs. I havent read any of your posts i just can tell youre indian by your replies to me, but it's ironic that you think I have xy accounts here. You're probably here longer than I am

 

[Nebula]

Obviously you must do something, but I dont care to listening some random buzzwords from curry who rotting in his basement with drugs. I havent read any of your posts i just can tell youre indian by your replies to me, but it's ironic that you think I have xy accounts here. You're probably here longer than I am

U got me im dravidian. U literally exposed urself being an alt JFL. Nigga thinks u need to be sherlock or sumthing

 

[Deleted member 25059]

U got me im dravidian. U literally exposed urself being an alt JFL. Nigga thinks u need to be sherlock or sumthing

you think 90% of the current user base are new accounts? you are so naive and u want to give advises

anyway you are here longer than me son

JoinedOct 3, 2022

 

[Nebula]

you think 90% of the current user base are new accounts? you are so naive and u want to give advises

anyway you are here longer than me son

JoinedOct 3, 2022

No i didnt imply that anywhere u freak. Ur just in denial everytime u get exposed for being an alt but anyways have fun rotting

 

[Deleted member 25059]

No i didnt imply that anywhere u freak. Ur just in denial everytime u get exposed for being an alt but anyways have fun rotting

ok, neet curry