How to get rid of hatefulness when talking in group settings

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Havent told this to anybody irl but im assuming its common, lmk what to do. i still have a ton of friends because i understand that it's important but it gets so taxing having to pretend I enjoy the company of anybody/pretending that i dont feel nothing towards them. Honestly i dont feel anything except for violent hate towards most of the people i know and its making it hard to make more friends when all i can think about in group settings is how much i wish all of them werent so stupid and horrible. Does anybody know how to quell the hateful/violent thoughts that happen when talking to people?
 
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nigga why are you friends with people you dont like:feelsuhh: Just find a group of people who are similar to you or you enjoy being with. Cut out those people who u dont like :lul:
 
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lalalalala1234 said:
nigga why are you friends with people you dont like:feelsuhh: Just find a group of people who are similar to you or you enjoy being with. Cut out those people who u dont like :lul:
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exactly u shouldnt have hateful thoughts against people u would actually wanna be friends with those arent ur friends if u have violent thoughts when being around them
 
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lalalalala1234 said:
nigga why are you friends with people you dont like:feelsuhh: Just find a group of people who are similar to you or you enjoy being with. Cut out those people who u dont like :lul:
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I dont enjoy being around anybody except for one person, even the people who are similar to me i cant get rid of the feeling towards them
 
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Orion said:
exactly u shouldnt have hateful thoughts against people u would actually wanna be friends with those arent ur friends if u have violent thoughts when being around them
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yea im just wondering if theres a way to get rid of them so its easier to make friends because i need some type of social circle and i hate everybody i know but i dont rly have any other options for people to be around
 
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rubberbands said:
High test Chad doesn't pretend, a high test Chad is blunt to all
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If i tell all of my friends I hate them and I want to hurt them every time I talk about them they probably arent going to want to be friends with me anymore idk what type of people ur talking to
 
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look man, just be honest with them
u dont have to say "nigga every time im near u guys i wanna fucking kill u guys ur all iqlet faggots"
just dont be close with them anymore as hang out with them less and just find the people u like more and hang out with them
just slowly back off u dont have to ghost them or end shit
 
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faustchan said:
If i tell all of my friends I hate them and I want to hurt them every time I talk about them they probably arent going to want to be friends with me anymore idk what type of people ur talking to
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I only talk to people I want to be around
 
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faustchan said:
If i tell all of my friends I hate them and I want to hurt them every time I talk about them they probably arent going to want to be friends with me anymore idk what type of people ur talking to
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bro just distance away from them or cut them off
 
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Orion said:
look man, just be honest with them
u dont have to say "nigga every time im near u guys i wanna fucking kill u guys ur all iqlet faggots"
just dont be close with them anymore as hang out with them less and just find the people u like more and hang out with them
just slowly back off u dont have to ghost them or end shit
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yea ive been friends with pretty much everybody my age in my town because ive had this same train of thought but i dont feel any different towards any of them should i get on meds or just accept that im going to be alone LMAO
 
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faustchan said:
yea ive been friends with pretty much everybody my age in my town because ive had this same train of thought but i dont feel any different towards any of them should i get on meds or just accept that im going to be alone LMAO
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u should just try finding ur best options and accepting it because being alone is really fucking bad
 
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Orion said:
u should just try finding ur best options and accepting it because being alone is really fucking bad
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true yea the only reason i havent cut off everybody i know is because of how important a social circle is
 
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faustchan said:
Havent told this to anybody irl but im assuming its common, lmk what to do. i still have a ton of friends because i understand that it's important but it gets so taxing having to pretend I enjoy the company of anybody/pretending that i dont feel nothing towards them. Honestly i dont feel anything except for violent hate towards most of the people i know and its making it hard to make more friends when all i can think about in group settings is how much i wish all of them werent so stupid and horrible. Does anybody know how to quell the hateful/violent thoughts that happen when talking to people?
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I would think it's just an underlying thing. It appears to be more than that in your cass.
 
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faustchan said:
Havent told this to anybody irl but im assuming its common, lmk what to do. i still have a ton of friends because i understand that it's important but it gets so taxing having to pretend I enjoy the company of anybody/pretending that i dont feel nothing towards them. Honestly i dont feel anything except for violent hate towards most of the people i know and its making it hard to make more friends when all i can think about in group settings is how much i wish all of them werent so stupid and horrible. Does anybody know how to quell the hateful/violent thoughts that happen when talking to people?
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im guessing you want to keep up your image of being a nice and normal guy aswell?
 
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faustchan said:
do u have any suggestions on what i should do or any ideas on what the problem is
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Endeavor to understand it and identify what it's key sources are. The only important thing is how this feeling or notion relates to yourself, and not anybody else.
 
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after high school ur pretty much only around people for 2 reasons. pleasure and business. once you have the freedom to choose the people youre around, you wont have this feeling (make actual friends). then at work etc keep it professional. its part of maturity
 
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grymhackare said:
i think you should talk to a therapist, truly
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idk how common my problem is i dont want to sit in a therapists office having the same problem hundreds of other people do lol, and besides therapists just tell people everything, last time i had a therapist she ended up telling my parents about everything i told her
 
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midfacedeficient said:
after high school ur pretty much only around people for 2 reasons. pleasure and business. once you have the freedom to choose the people youre around, you wont have this feeling (make actual friends). then at work etc keep it professional. its part of maturity
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hopefully itll go away bruh idk how much more of this i can take, like making friends and throwing them away and making new friends do you know what i mean
 
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faustchan said:
Havent told this to anybody irl but im assuming its common, lmk what to do. i still have a ton of friends because i understand that it's important but it gets so taxing having to pretend I enjoy the company of anybody/pretending that i dont feel nothing towards them. Honestly i dont feel anything except for violent hate towards most of the people i know and its making it hard to make more friends when all i can think about in group settings is how much i wish all of them werent so stupid and horrible. Does anybody know how to quell the hateful/violent thoughts that happen when talking to people?
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bro stop being with them tbh and if you really abou it do something to them
 
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faustchan said:
idk how common my problem is i dont want to sit in a therapists office having the same problem hundreds of other people do lol, and besides therapists just tell people everything, last time i had a therapist she ended up telling my parents about everything i told her
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yeah well you could also imagine killing them that usually works
 
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faustchan said:
hopefully itll go away bruh idk how much more of this i can take, like making friends and throwing them away and making new friends do you know what i mean
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sounds like theyre never really friends in this scenario. put ur family first
 
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IQmaxxedCHAD said:
yeah bro like do something atleast or just stop seeing the people that make you mad idk why u think it happens?
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i would stop seeing the people i talk to but its like i said its literally everybody and i dont have a good outlet that wont cause massive consequences for me
 
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faustchan said:
i would stop seeing the people i talk to but its like i said its literally everybody and i dont have a good outlet that wont cause massive consequences for me
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so you dont feel anything towards anyone, just empty inside
 
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faustchan said:
i would stop seeing the people i talk to but its like i said its literally everybody and i dont have a good outlet that wont cause massive consequences for me
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there are other alternatives bro, ever tried boxing or any other martial art thats a legit thing where you can blow steam off
 
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grymhackare said:
so you dont feel anything towards anyone, just empty inside
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not empty cause i get angry but i mostly just feel like im either really angry, really ecstatic or im just pretending but i dont think im like special for it i think most people pretend to feel things outside of annoyance for other people because pretending is fun dykwim
 
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IQmaxxedCHAD said:
there are other alternatives bro, ever tried boxing or any other martial art thats a legit thing where you can blow steam off
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yea ive tried both but neither did it for me. bruh i hate sounding like im rejecting all of the help i get but ive genuinely tried so many different things for my whole life
 
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faustchan said:
yea ive tried both but neither did it for me. bruh i hate sounding like im rejecting all of the help i get but ive genuinely tried so many different things for my whole life
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just crash out atp gang so u just want to beat people up or what like against their will?
 
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IQmaxxedCHAD said:
just crash out atp gang so u just want to beat people up or what like against their will?
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yea i just feel violent as hell all the time and the only times i havent felt that way is during/after i hurt somebody i just hate consequences, its a whole catch22 where i have too big of a future lined up to actually do what i want but not doing it is killing me equally
 
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faustchan said:
yea i just feel violent as hell all the time and the only times i havent felt that way is during/after i hurt somebody i just hate consequences, its a whole catch22 where i have too big of a future lined up to actually do what i want but not doing it is killing me equally
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yeah bruh you just have to chill dont ruin ur future over some current feeling it will blow over
 
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IQmaxxedCHAD said:
yeah bruh you just have to chill dont ruin ur future over some current feeling it will blow over
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genuinely just wish i knew what the core of the problem was so then i could fix it but i have no idea if its smth in my brain or if its just normal and i should stop thinking about it
 
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faustchan said:
genuinely just wish i knew what the core of the problem was so then i could fix it but i have no idea if its smth in my brain or if its just normal and i should stop thinking about it
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honestly searvh some real help irl not onhere bro
 
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