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If your genetics wills it
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My problems socializing as a short guy are two distinct problems. One is that I don't like most of my friends. Most of my friends are also outcasts and people that high-status people wouldn't associate with. I want to get into a social circle that is more extroverted, high-status, productive, and with attractive people. However, I cannot get into those social circles because people look down upon my height. The higher the SMV, the better social circles you can get into. I've seen other short guys jestermaxx to make friends with high-status people, but I am not a neurotypical ethnic, so it would look uncanny if I tried to jestermaxx. I could try to emulate a more ENTP/ESTP personality, but I don't know if it would look natural on a short Asian guy like myself. Also, I overthink social situations too much. Too often, I distance myself from other people because I believe that no amount of social skills or confidence will make up for my short height. I always feel people will always hold distaste towards me for my uncontrollable outward appearance. Should I stop overthinking so much about social dynamics? I analyze the social dynamics at my school in a 3D chess way. Also, is there a way I could get into the high-status social groups at school? For far too long, I have socially isolated myself, and I feel lonely and empty inside.