How to Make Friends as a Manlet?

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My problems socializing as a short guy are two distinct problems. One is that I don't like most of my friends. Most of my friends are also outcasts and people that high-status people wouldn't associate with. I want to get into a social circle that is more extroverted, high-status, productive, and with attractive people. However, I cannot get into those social circles because people look down upon my height. The higher the SMV, the better social circles you can get into. I've seen other short guys jestermaxx to make friends with high-status people, but I am not a neurotypical ethnic, so it would look uncanny if I tried to jestermaxx. I could try to emulate a more ENTP/ESTP personality, but I don't know if it would look natural on a short Asian guy like myself. Also, I overthink social situations too much. Too often, I distance myself from other people because I believe that no amount of social skills or confidence will make up for my short height. I always feel people will always hold distaste towards me for my uncontrollable outward appearance. Should I stop overthinking so much about social dynamics? I analyze the social dynamics at my school in a 3D chess way. Also, is there a way I could get into the high-status social groups at school? For far too long, I have socially isolated myself, and I feel lonely and empty inside.
 
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The only way you can make friends as a manlet is to jestermax and be a coon for your tall masters; constantly self-deprecate, allow others to mock your height, and cuck out. I'm not even kidding. That's what you have to do to have a social life as a manlet. Having any modicum of self-respect will get you branded a compensating Napoleon and ostracized.
 
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The only way you can make friends as a manlet is to jestermax and be a coon for your tall masters; constantly self-deprecate, allow others to mock your height, and cuck out. I'm not even kidding. That's what you have to do to have a social life as a manlet. Having any modicum of self-respect will get you branded a compensating Napoleon and ostracized.
Yeah, I am probably going to emulate a personality like that. It was good that all these years, I wasn't some confident extroverted mallet, and I kept to myself.

I'm probably going to emulate the average normie male personality of being chill and respectful, give a few cunning jokes here and there, but not be too confident so that I don't seem too confident or arrogant. I also don't wanna continue being that INTP/INTJ nerd, so I have stopped wearing glasses and followed social media colloquialisms to fit in with people. I believe finding a personality that fits the perfect medium will maximize efficiency in making friends and make me the most likable as possible amongst my peers.
 
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Its literally a caste system LOL its over for u
 
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Its literally a caste system LOL its over for u
Are these neurotypical thoughts? And yes, the social hierarchy at any school is like a caste system.
 
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Gymmax or thug max has worked
 
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My problems socializing as a short guy are two distinct problems. One is that I don't like most of my friends. Most of my friends are also outcasts and people that high-status people wouldn't associate with. I want to get into a social circle that is more extroverted, high-status, productive, and with attractive people. However, I cannot get into those social circles because people look down upon my height. The higher the SMV, the better social circles you can get into. I've seen other short guys jestermaxx to make friends with high-status people, but I am not a neurotypical ethnic, so it would look uncanny if I tried to jestermaxx. I could try to emulate a more ENTP/ESTP personality, but I don't know if it would look natural on a short Asian guy like myself. Also, I overthink social situations too much. Too often, I distance myself from other people because I believe that no amount of social skills or confidence will make up for my short height. I always feel people will always hold distaste towards me for my uncontrollable outward appearance. Should I stop overthinking so much about social dynamics? I analyze the social dynamics at my school in a 3D chess way. Also, is there a way I could get into the high-status social groups at school? For far too long, I have socially isolated myself, and I feel lonely and empty inside.
You're inferiority will never be unnoticed. The only manlets I saw having a good socialcircle were jestsers.

I as a tallfag wouldn't befriend a manlet unless he was jestering in some way, condolences.
 
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Bro that doesn't matter, just be a smart interesting person other people want to be around.

How tall are you and how young are you?
 
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high status social circles as a short asian? lol
 
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My problems socializing as a short guy are two distinct problems. One is that I don't like most of my friends. Most of my friends are also outcasts and people that high-status people wouldn't associate with. I want to get into a social circle that is more extroverted, high-status, productive, and with attractive people. However, I cannot get into those social circles because people look down upon my height. The higher the SMV, the better social circles you can get into. I've seen other short guys jestermaxx to make friends with high-status people, but I am not a neurotypical ethnic, so it would look uncanny if I tried to jestermaxx. I could try to emulate a more ENTP/ESTP personality, but I don't know if it would look natural on a short Asian guy like myself. Also, I overthink social situations too much. Too often, I distance myself from other people because I believe that no amount of social skills or confidence will make up for my short height. I always feel people will always hold distaste towards me for my uncontrollable outward appearance. Should I stop overthinking so much about social dynamics? I analyze the social dynamics at my school in a 3D chess way. Also, is there a way I could get into the high-status social groups at school? For far too long, I have socially isolated myself, and I feel lonely and empty inside.
Go er like all manlets should
 
The only way you can make friends as a manlet is to jestermax and be a coon for your tall masters; constantly self-deprecate, allow others to mock your height, and cuck out. I'm not even kidding. That's what you have to do to have a social life as a manlet. Having any modicum of self-respect will get you branded a compensating Napoleon and ostracized.
jfl what happend in neopolitan
 
My problems socializing as a short guy are two distinct problems. One is that I don't like most of my friends. Most of my friends are also outcasts and people that high-status people wouldn't associate with. I want to get into a social circle that is more extroverted, high-status, productive, and with attractive people. However, I cannot get into those social circles because people look down upon my height. The higher the SMV, the better social circles you can get into. I've seen other short guys jestermaxx to make friends with high-status people, but I am not a neurotypical ethnic, so it would look uncanny if I tried to jestermaxx. I could try to emulate a more ENTP/ESTP personality, but I don't know if it would look natural on a short Asian guy like myself. Also, I overthink social situations too much. Too often, I distance myself from other people because I believe that no amount of social skills or confidence will make up for my short height. I always feel people will always hold distaste towards me for my uncontrollable outward appearance. Should I stop overthinking so much about social dynamics? I analyze the social dynamics at my school in a 3D chess way. Also, is there a way I could get into the high-status social groups at school? For far too long, I have socially isolated myself, and I feel lonely and empty inside.
The only way you can make friends as a manlet is to jestermax and be a coon for your tall masters; constantly self-deprecate, allow others to mock your height, and cuck out. I'm not even kidding. That's what you have to do to have a social life as a manlet. Having any modicum of self-respect will get you branded a compensating Napoleon and ostracized.
i hate this life
 
i hate this life
Indeed. At least we live in the internet age, where there is vast possibilities to learn new things and cope with all the entertainment you want to indulge in.
 
Indeed. At least we live in the internet age, where there is vast possibilities to learn new things and cope with all the entertainment you want to indulge in.
for what? you are just gonna die like a nobody.

You live only to work hard and pay taxes to a government that has done nothing for you.

They make money and live happily just by you existing, while you live this depressing life that nobody would want to live anyway.
 
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The only way you can make friends as a manlet is to jestermax and be a coon for your tall masters; constantly self-deprecate, allow others to mock your height, and cuck out. I'm not even kidding. That's what you have to do to have a social life as a manlet. Having any modicum of self-respect will get you branded a compensating Napoleon and ostracized.
You're delusional. Literally, all you have to do is gymcel and men will instinctively respect you. You're setting up OP for failure by telling him to jesetermax. In school, the rankings for status for men go as follows popularity/muscles/sports/looks/personality(being funny)/academics. If OP wanted to be successful he should dedicate his time to the gym and join a sports team. That's the easiest way to gain status in the eyes of men.
 
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omg ur asian as well that is giga brutal
I guess I could betabuxx since Asian Americans have the highest marriage rates in the United States.
 
for what? you are just gonna die like a nobody.

You live only to work hard and pay taxes to a government that has done nothing for you.

They make money and live happily just by you existing, while you live this depressing life that nobody would want to live anyway.
Let me cope man. I only have one shot at this life. Might as well find some meaning outside of dating or marriage.
 
tbh being NT is all that is required to make friends
Jestermaxxing works on Black/Latino manlets but it's hard for a guy with an Asian nerd pheno to pull that off
 
tbh being NT is all that is required to make friends
Yea, but he wants high-quality friends instead of outcasts. The losers in my school all hang together but they are still seen as losers. If you want to join the normies you have to do normie shit like playing a sport.
 
Let me cope man. I onlu have one shot at this life. Might as well find some meaning outside of dating or marriage.
there’s none. That what i’m saying. I’m 5’6 too.

There is no meaning to life outside of having teen love and losing your virginity at 14 with your high school love, the pretty girl that in reality rejected you.

People live life, while you only work to make them live life more while you don’t matter 1 single thing.

Imagine, 14yo couple decides to take a coffe and you work at starbucks. They come in and take whatever and you see them in love while you are 20 virgin.

For what are you working? to go home jerk off and play video games?
 
Yea, but he wants high-quality friends instead of outcasts. The losers in my school all hang together but they are still seen as losers. If you want to join the normies you have to do normie shit like playing a sport.
I'm gonna try to be more active on Instagram and fraud my photos
 
there’s none. That what i’m saying. I’m 5’6 too.

There is no meaning to life outside of having teen love and losing your virginity at 14 with your high school love, the pretty girl that in reality rejected you.

People live life, while you only work to make them live life more while you don’t matter 1 single thing.

Imagine, 14yo couple decides to take a coffe and you work at starbucks. They come in and take whatever and you see them in love while you are 20 virgin.

For what are you working? to go home jerk off and play video games?
What you're saying is true, I just don't want to accept it yet.
 
the way I see it is this : having normie interests + being NT is how you get friends.

Having normie interests I.e. watching the latest/trending shows, having sports knowledge, listening to popular artists etc. shit like that combined with the natural ability to hold conversations, read social cues and be a funny chill person is the recipe to making friends.
I would be able to do that but I'm chronically depressed. I used to be hella NT until like the 8th grade
 
What you're saying is true, I just don't want to accept it yet.
do whatever you want. It’s over.

Jestermax your way into misery like this idiots are telling you.

You’ll just become a clown in the eyes of everybody, no one respects you now, imagine after.

It never began, remember the times you were just a little child?
From that time all you was preparing for is this life of misery. This life where nobody respects you and no one loves you.

You can decide, take revenge or accept that it’s over and eventually rope.
 
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the way I see it is this : having normie interests + being NT is how you get friends.

Having normie interests I.e. watching the latest/trending shows, having sports knowledge, listening to popular artists etc. shit like that combined with the natural ability to hold conversations, read social cues and be a funny chill person is the recipe to making friends.
That's true I was looking at more of a status angle. Getting friends isn't hard if you have similar interests and are doing an activity together like being in class or playing a sport. My problem is that I don't have normie interests. My friends all talk about football and Star Wars and I don't watch either of those. Luckily a few have watched Game of Thrones and The Boys so we can talk about that sometimes.
 
bluds trying to drive him to suicide stop bro we dont ant another schery4 situation on this form 💀
i’m just being real, i’m in his same situation.

Who’s schery4
 
Just Be NT
A lot of my friends are taller than me and they respect me a lot still
 
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bluds trying to drive him to suicide stop bro we dont ant another schery4 situation on this form 💀
nigga i'm not gonna go schery. i'm too narcissistic either way to do any thing like that. i'll just find a cope somehow someway
 
bro it's over for u just take the L, your a 5'5 asian
I've technically already did. I'm just trying to find meaning outside of dating and shit
 
My problems socializing as a short guy are two distinct problems. One is that I don't like most of my friends. Most of my friends are also outcasts and people that high-status people wouldn't associate with. I want to get into a social circle that is more extroverted, high-status, productive, and with attractive people. However, I cannot get into those social circles because people look down upon my height. The higher the SMV, the better social circles you can get into. I've seen other short guys jestermaxx to make friends with high-status people, but I am not a neurotypical ethnic, so it would look uncanny if I tried to jestermaxx. I could try to emulate a more ENTP/ESTP personality, but I don't know if it would look natural on a short Asian guy like myself. Also, I overthink social situations too much. Too often, I distance myself from other people because I believe that no amount of social skills or confidence will make up for my short height. I always feel people will always hold distaste towards me for my uncontrollable outward appearance. Should I stop overthinking so much about social dynamics? I analyze the social dynamics at my school in a 3D chess way. Also, is there a way I could get into the high-status social groups at school? For far too long, I have socially isolated myself, and I feel lonely and empty inside.
DNRD + just talk to people dumbass
 
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You need to be a smart person in life tho
Judge people like you do cans of tuna and fake NT

People say i am smartest talker they ever met when the meet me
 
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You need to be a smart person in life tho
Judge people like you do cans of tuna and fake NT
If you judge ppl u can't be NT
 
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i have a similar problem bro so much of my headspace is occupied by blackpill/looksmaxxing shit but i can't talk about that to my normie friends about it for obvious reasons
Yeah, I get that. It's especially bad when it comes to talking about girls I have to be careful about what I say to others
 
Height shouldn't determine friendships, I was good friends with a 4'7 gigamanlet
 
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You need to be a smart person in life tho
Judge people like you do cans of tuna and fake NT

People say i am smartest talker they ever met when the meet me
I'll try to do that. I'm high functioning enough whatever disorder I have whether that be ADHD/Autism that I can fake it to some extent
 
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yeahhhh exactly, like when me and the boys are talking about how to get girls you have be careful not to spill the blackpill bible haha
Good thing I made a blackpill friend now and we quietly talk about looksmaxxing
 
yeahhhh exactly, like when me and the boys are talking about how to get girls you have be careful not to spill the blackpill bible haha
The other day my friend started talking about what girls like and it was crazy cause somehow he discovered female gaze maxing. He was talking about girls like guys who take care of themselves like girls and was telling me about having nice nails with clean cuticles. Two of my fat friends got rejected and I have to hold my tongue that it's their weight.
 
Anyone who applies the blackpill to friends never had a real friend

We aren’t women
 
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there’s none. That what i’m saying. I’m 5’6 too.

There is no meaning to life outside of having teen love and losing your virginity at 14 with your high school love, the pretty girl that in reality rejected you.

People live life, while you only work to make them live life more while you don’t matter 1 single thing.

Imagine, 14yo couple decides to take a coffe and you work at starbucks. They come in and take whatever and you see them in love while you are 20 virgin.

For what are you working? to go home jerk off and play video games?
i agree with this but i dont understand people saying cucked false defeatist stuff like “it never began”. obviously its over, you can’t get a 13-14yo gf unless you are 13-14. but it’s never over from birth. if that was true then a 8yo boy could be an incel which sounds absurd.

the truth is that it began for everyone (other than those with stuff like Down’s syndrome), but now it is over mainly due to poor environment in teen years / bad socialisation. most 13-14yo boys are ugly and short yet they have sex, which is why pinning stuff on just looks is stupid
 
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i agree with this but i dont understand people saying cucked false defeatist stuff like “it never began”. obviously its over, you can’t get a 13-14yo gf unless you are 13-14. but it’s never over from birth. if that was true then a 8yo boy could be an incel which sounds absurd.

the truth is that it began for everyone (other than those with stuff like Down’s syndrome), but now it is over mainly due to poor environment in teen years / bad socialisation. most 13-14yo boys are ugly and short yet they have sex, which is why pinning stuff on just looks is stupid
idk, you could be truecel from birth.

Certain kids are just undesirable even from a young age.

It never began from you and your in elfin was decided the moment your dad came in you mom if you are a sub 5
 

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