How to stop seeking outside validation?

[VohnnyBoy]

Since I’ll never be a Chad who slays and gets worshipped by women, as well as mogging other males, how do I finally accept being less worthy in societal/female eyes? I determine the value of man’s existence based on how physically/aesthetically superior he is to the others and his female appeal. I’m worthless based on my own axiology lol. A family, career, hobbies, legacy… all seem like a cope to me and I can't change it. Crazy that I have this life philosophy at almost 22

Solo drinking was the only thing I've enjoyed for the past few years, but I'm scared of gaining weight so I paused it. I'm also don't have access to drugs either, neither do I know which ones to take.

 

[au rêve]

even still every chad comes to an end when the aging starts where will you be

 

[valentine]

you can't it's in your DNA

 

[VohnnyBoy]

even still every chad comes to an end when the aging starts where will you be

Even on his deathbed, Chad will still relive the memories of his mogger life. As for me, assuming I've lived an ordinary life, I will only have memories of a boring childhood, mid Becky wife and a couple of annoying kids. I can't win

 

[Zenis]

Even on his deathbed, Chad will still relive the memories of his mogger life. As for me, assuming I've lived an ordinary life, I will only have memories of a boring childhood, mid Becky wife and a couple of annoying kids. I can't win

and he will still die nonetheless and will be forgotten

 

[au rêve]

Even on his deathbed, Chad will still relive the memories of his mogger life. As for me, assuming I've lived an ordinary life, I will only have memories of a boring childhood, mid Becky wife and a couple of annoying kids. I can't win

will your mind really be on muh memories once you can barely shit by yourself

 

[VohnnyBoy]

and he will still die nonetheless and will be forgotten

So what? During his time of existence, he was more valuable than me in the eyes of women (and society).
If you're alluding to the memento mori approach to life, it'll lead me to shit like alcoholism and drug addiction, and not appreciating the small things

 

[Notorious_1676]

and he will still die nonetheless and will be forgotten

Hexum died 4 decades ago and there are still people making edits of him despite him dying in one of the most embarrassing ways possible

 

[Notorious_1676]

It's impossible since that's already your philosophy in life, but I guess you can try being evil. If you don't believe in God that is